Long Term Trying To Conceive Vent Thread

[sugarpi24]

it was a crazy lady at work that said it and i didnt want to deal with her going off and getting crazy... but yeah im having a hard time trying to be nice with ppl that say those things.

 

[PyrusEK]

I completely agree. I can't stand the whole "when it's meant to happen, it will happen," thing, or the "God has a plan" thing. They're all BS.

Today, the 8th person at work asked if I'm pregnant. I don't know what kinda vibe I'm giving off, but I haven't gained any weight! I can't wait for the day when I can reply with, "Why yes, in fact I am!" If it ever happens, of course.

 

[CaliDreaming]

I completely agree. I can't stand the whole "when it's meant to happen, it will happen," thing, or the "God has a plan" thing. They're all BS.

ITA on statements like "God has a plan", or my favorite "everything happens for a reason." I don't know of a reason good enough for someone to have to go through infertility. And if there is one, why was I the "lucky" person to be selected for that honor.

I think statements like that are just things people say when they don't know what else to say.

 

[JJKCB]

when people get pregnant then moan (especially online) that their baby isnt good enough

'oh, I wanted a boy but got stuck with a girl, im so disappointed all little girls are bitches wish I wasn't even pregnant now'

actually seen several similar to this

your child will grow up and see these ffs they're not private boards there are things I posted online 10 nearly 15 years ago that are still there, they dont just vanish... if you cant be happy for what you have you shouldn't have it and someone who is desperately trying should have your luck of easily conceiving a beautiful healthy baby

 

[tamithomas]

Why do i torture myself by going to the pregnancy test section?

 

[Wobbles]

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Thank you

 

[HeidiM]

My cousin, who is my best friend, got pregnant accidentally.
I'm truly happy for her and looking forward to the birth of my niece!
But sometimes she will lament her pregnancy weight gain and morning sickness, and i'll be thinking, I'll have those anytime!

 

[Teach2]

I wish I could know that I will get pregnant even if I didn't know when. That way I could enjoy my free time and lie ins before the baby comes instead of wishing them away and having them as a reminder that I still don't have a baby.

 

[peachaeo]

Watching a movie with my coworkers 9 year old daughter, and at the end she said "wow...everything is perfect all at the same time. I wish that would happen in real life."

amen, sister, amen!

 

[HeidiM]

Yet another colleague pregnant.
And the baby dance is getting a little mechanical.
GAHHHHHHH

 

[sugarpi24]

I hate it when af doesn't show and you get your hopes up and most likely you never ovulated in the first place!!! I hate not knowing!! I hatred waiting!! Ttc is allll about waiting and it gets old! Just sayin!

 

[Jziller]

I completely agree. I can't stand the whole "when it's meant to happen, it will happen," thing, or the "God has a plan" thing. They're all BS..

My mom just gave me this speech today after I found out that my best friend got pregnant, her first month of the pill. I hate this speech!! It make me even more mad when I hear it.

I'm also really sad that my one person who I confide in about my infertility is now pregnant and she did it in one month. She will never truely understand how I feel and now I feel like I have no one to talk to.

 

[wannabemummyb]

Another fb scan pregnancy announcement! F you world!

Sometimes i wish i'd never started trying for a baby

 

[Jziller]

Another fb scan pregnancy announcement! F you world!

Sometimes i wish i'd never started trying for a baby

I know the feeling. I've gotten to the point where I thought about deleting my pregnant friends. The worst are the monthly updates on what size their baby is now and all the little things that go along with being pregnant and planning for the arrival.

 

[JJKCB]

I hate it when af doesn't show and you get your hopes up and most likely you never ovulated in the first place!!! I hate not knowing!! I hatred waiting!! Ttc is allll about waiting and it gets old! Just sayin!

totally agree the waiting is hell

 

[SadTeacher]

This thread has really cheered me up, feeling very down after TTC for 2 years with nothing, although nothing seems to be wrong with me or the hubster.

My vent, and please don't judge;

I hate how I became pregnant at 18 whilst on the pill and my a-hole boyfriend at the time pulled out.

Now I can't get pregnant at all, with a wonderful husband and having waited ten years to be in a position to raise a child properly, in a loving home with good jobs.

 

[JJKCB]

big thing on the news today that they have exposed with undercover footage but wont prosecute doctors who illegally preform sex selection abortions

If your going to kill your child just because its a girl and you would prefer boys then really you shouldn't be allowed ANY child regardless of sex

I would try everything for another and I would be ecstatic with a boy or girl

 

[CaliDreaming]

This thread has really cheered me up, feeling very down after TTC for 2 years with nothing, although nothing seems to be wrong with me or the hubster.

My vent, and please don't judge;

I hate how I became pregnant at 18 whilst on the pill and my a-hole boyfriend at the time pulled out.

Now I can't get pregnant at all, with a wonderful husband and having waited ten years to be in a position to raise a child properly, in a loving home with good jobs.

 

[PyrusEK]

big thing on the news today that they have exposed with undercover footage but wont prosecute doctors who illegally preform sex selection abortions

If your going to kill your child just because its a girl and you would prefer boys then really you shouldn't be allowed ANY child regardless of sex

I would try everything for another and I would be ecstatic with a boy or girl

It's a sick problem related to misguided cultures that think men are more valuable than women. I don't even want to think about how they would handle a child who ends up being homosexual or transgender.

I agree that I would love and cherish any child I have.

 

[wannabemummyb]

1. Ex lttcers who forget what its like when they get pregnant
2. Same lttcer bemoaning the pregnancy symptoms (especially when she was so annoyed at other pregnant cows doing this when she was still lttc)
3. Have to sit near aforementioned ex lttcer and know that had i not mc my baby i would be a couple of weeks ahead of her
4. Crying in the minging toilets at work because of all the aforementioned points, plus still trying to get over mc, plus feeling like i won't be a mum ever.