Long Term Trying To Conceive Vent Thread
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Koritsi
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We have been TTC for 2 years and just had our 1st IUI last Friday. Meanwhile, my evil SIL who was pregnant when she got married (3 days before we did) is pregnant again and due this summer. IT SUCKS. This horrible person who rejects our relationship and plans to reject our children because they will be racially mixed gets to have two babies and we have none. Sometimes life is really not fair. 
madtowngirl
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FFS, it must be the week of FB pregnancy announcements, because I've had 2 pop up on my feed in less than 24 hours! And one of them was an "I'm upset that I'm pg" announcement.
My neighbor's twins should be born any day now...after sucking up my pride and going to her baby shower, she never even sent a thank you card. Talk about adding insult to injury.
I think I'm going to drink a whole bottle of wine tonight.
My neighbor's twins should be born any day now...after sucking up my pride and going to her baby shower, she never even sent a thank you card. Talk about adding insult to injury.
I think I'm going to drink a whole bottle of wine tonight.
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I am already dreading the April Fool's Day pregnancy announcements. Some of my fb friends did those fake pregnancy announcements for some weird facebook thing that was going around, so I know they won't hesitate to do it again. Ugh. Maybe I just won't log on that day...
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Me too! I won't be logging onto fb on 1st april. Especially as af has turned up (a week late!)
Its mothers day in the uk tomorrow and it should have been my first mothers day
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Its mothers day in the uk tomorrow and it should have been my first mothers day
aww, sorry - thats terrible timing but just keep looking forward... next year could be your first
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technically still in but for once I was excited about this cycle, I actually ovulated and had HSG (which is suppose to increase chance) but at 12 DPO its stands as 9 negative tests (I keep dreaming that I get a faint positive and it feels so realistic)
its mothers day and my OH has taken my son and vanished so now im sat alone and about ready to give up
its mothers day and my OH has taken my son and vanished so now im sat alone and about ready to give up
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Me too! I won't be logging onto fb on 1st april. Especially as af has turned up (a week late!)
Its mothers day in the uk tomorrow and it should have been my first mothers day
I'm so sorry. I know how you feel. This should have been my second...and I should have been 7 weeks on Friday if things had continued to work out with my IUI. I'm trying not to be sad about it and look forward to the future...but it's hard. But, hang in there.
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Yep.
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perfect end to mothers day... im out
there is no way I can have a child before my son turns 6 now unless I have a preemie which I obviously would chose to have (the plan was a 3 year age gap, absolutely did NOT want a 6+ age gap)
genuinely thought I had a chance... im not even expected to be due for AF for 3/4 more days
there is no way I can have a child before my son turns 6 now unless I have a preemie which I obviously would chose to have (the plan was a 3 year age gap, absolutely did NOT want a 6+ age gap)
genuinely thought I had a chance... im not even expected to be due for AF for 3/4 more days
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Wow, somebody on FB actually did the April Fool's "I'm pregnant!" thing. Just wow.
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someone on my facebook did too... but to make it even worse she swears its not a joke and has started posting loads of bump and baby clothes pictures
every other post is now a pregnancy post.... EVERYONE is pregnant - think im really done with facebook now
every other post is now a pregnancy post.... EVERYONE is pregnant - think im really done with facebook now
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One of my best friends from college who was adamantly anti-baby in college and at her wedding is pregnant...Just announced on fb. I always told DH that I wouldn't feel bad about not being preggo/having it take so long unless she ended up preggo before me because I knew it was going to take her hubby a while to convince her to go for it. I thought I had more time...But here it is. She's having a baby...and I'm still stuck on TTC. Not the way I wanted to start my day.
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Hey Y'all,
I'm not 100% sure this is where I should be posting this but I do not know where else to post.
DH and I have been not trying not preventing for 2 years and actively trying for a year. We are both 31. DH has two children from a previous marriage. We want so badly to complete our family with a lil one we created together. Well, a year ago before we really started trying we went through genetics counseling due to my sister having a genetic clotting disorder. While running that test we ran several other genetics tests just to be safe. They all came back fine so we began our TTC journey. Silly me I thought it would be easy. I had a new Ob/gyn and wasnt a huge fan so I asked my primary care for a referral to a better one even though she still seems to think I'm young and have time. I met the new OB/GYN and upon talking with me she decided that we had been having unprotected sex long enough where running some tests would be a good idea.
I had blood work on CD 3 and HSG on CD 10. DH had an SA done this past week. The doctor called just a couple days ago with results......DH passed everything with flying colors, my HSG was perfect my tubes are open, but my blood work came back with something elevated ( can't remember what it was). Whatever it is won't make conceiving impossible just tricky. Well whatever is was got me a referral to a reproductive specialist. I'm so nervous. I just want to know how bad it is and what needs to be done to make it right. I have more blood work scheduled for CD 21 and we meet the specialist May 21.
My DH is an amazing man (obviously) but we disagree as far as IVF and insemination. I'm all for it and he feels that if God wanted a person to have a child he would have put that in the cards. So, if that is how I would be able to conceive I'm going to have to convince him and plead my case. All of this just adds to my nervousness.
My apologies for the long drawn out post. I just needed it off my chest and out of my head. Kinda feel like I'm going crazy.
Anyone else out there in a similar boat or that has been to a reproductive specialist?
I am currently on CD 17.
Prayers and baby
to all.
I'm not 100% sure this is where I should be posting this but I do not know where else to post.
DH and I have been not trying not preventing for 2 years and actively trying for a year. We are both 31. DH has two children from a previous marriage. We want so badly to complete our family with a lil one we created together. Well, a year ago before we really started trying we went through genetics counseling due to my sister having a genetic clotting disorder. While running that test we ran several other genetics tests just to be safe. They all came back fine so we began our TTC journey. Silly me I thought it would be easy. I had a new Ob/gyn and wasnt a huge fan so I asked my primary care for a referral to a better one even though she still seems to think I'm young and have time. I met the new OB/GYN and upon talking with me she decided that we had been having unprotected sex long enough where running some tests would be a good idea.
I had blood work on CD 3 and HSG on CD 10. DH had an SA done this past week. The doctor called just a couple days ago with results......DH passed everything with flying colors, my HSG was perfect my tubes are open, but my blood work came back with something elevated ( can't remember what it was). Whatever it is won't make conceiving impossible just tricky. Well whatever is was got me a referral to a reproductive specialist. I'm so nervous. I just want to know how bad it is and what needs to be done to make it right. I have more blood work scheduled for CD 21 and we meet the specialist May 21.
My DH is an amazing man (obviously) but we disagree as far as IVF and insemination. I'm all for it and he feels that if God wanted a person to have a child he would have put that in the cards. So, if that is how I would be able to conceive I'm going to have to convince him and plead my case. All of this just adds to my nervousness.
My apologies for the long drawn out post. I just needed it off my chest and out of my head. Kinda feel like I'm going crazy.
Anyone else out there in a similar boat or that has been to a reproductive specialist?
I am currently on CD 17.
Prayers and baby
to all.
madtowngirl
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Welcome BabyPrayers21, and sorry you find yourself here. I'm also 31 and just starting fertility treatments. I don't have a whole lot of advice to add, but I can relate to the frustration of doctors who think we are still young. I suppose, in some ways, we are, but I want to have more than one kid, so I don't feel like I have a lot of time to dink around!
