Long Term Trying To Conceive Vent Thread

[madtowngirl]

Aww, wannabemummyb, those are the worst type of announcements. I don't think you were evil in a past life.

I feel like I can't go anywhere without seeing tons of women with huge bumps now. It's making me feel like I just want to be a hermit.

 

[JJKCB]

had an odd moment earlier...

walked past a woman with a newborn in the shopping center and OH loudly announced 'its not fair' I was rather surprised and glanced at him to which he replied 'I would like a baby... but im even more jealous of the fact that he gets to sleep and I have to shop'

men there just aren't words

 

[wildchic]

When are these pics on facebook gonna stop??? Ultrasounds of babies and new borns I had enough, thank you!!!

 

[BabyPrayers21]

So I received more negative news today. My progesterone is low. What I dont' understand is that my cycle is 33-34 days long so why would they test me on the average length time frame? I've been nauseous for 4 days, headache, fatigue, lower back pain and sore bbs. Now I'm thinking its all just stupid PMS crap. I'm getting so frustrated. Could the results be wrong? Could I actually be pregnant?

 

[madtowngirl]

Do you think maybe, just maybe, I could go to a news website without a huge banner stating "[insert random celebrity here] is pregnant!"??????

ARGGGGGH

 

[Yammas]

I hear you madtown girl I hate it when that happens especially when its nothing to do with what I was looking at.

I wish I'd never decided to start ttc to just have a surprise or happy accident and never know the frustration, disappointment and heartache. 3 years in I know I should give up trying to control when my baby is conceived and just be grateful to have one at all but in my mind I still want to avoid a jan/dec baby so thought this month and next id relax and focus on me, nevertheless here I am cd1 and still wishing I had a bfp anyway as they say ignorance is bliss.

 

[DBZ34]

Oh, I so wish I could go back to those days when I thought I could just fall pregnant by accident on the first month trying. Ignorance is bliss for sure.

 

[JJKCB]

Surprises can still happen girls, it did for me when I genuinely wasn't trying then boom a baby, in fact I had thrown in the towel on the whole thing and decided to make the most of being young and I was 2 months pregnant before I knew as I was convinced it was just another long cycle but Ive had absolutely nothing in the 3 years of actively trying (1 before my son and 2 years currently) and 3 years NTNP (but still thinking about it constantly lol)

 

[nobump]

Arghh!! was hoping for a good Friday but SIL text DH to ask for help! Her tablet was connecting to her WIFI WTF!!! 9am on a bank holiday is not the time to text to ask a question....

 

[Kaylakin]

Why can't infertility nurses be more compassionate?

If you call to say I haven't ovulated and it's day 21, can you explain why or tell me if it's normal after a failed FET?

I always ovulate day 14/15 so this is not the norm for me. This also means I have to wait longer for my next cycle to start and delays my next IVF. Can you try to pretend at least that you're not rushing off the phone and say more than "you need to come back Monday or Tuesday for more bloodwork"?

It's just another day to you but I'm counting the days and my thoughts are consumed by this.

 

[beebaby]

I have,with no luck, been ttc for what seems like forever..it has taken so much away from me..when family asks when were going to have a little one..or when my friends say they are pg.. I get so upset as if I can't be happy bc I've tried for so long.. =[ my dbf of 6 going on seven years on and off has a 5yr old little boy..and it just hurts I can't seem to get there Lol...so I started taking fertailaid in high hopes it will help..been ttc 4 years straight..never prevented a while before..heart breaking.and fustrating!!! It takes a lot from me and him..we both want it so badly..and it has affected our relationship...but we are still trying..enters fertailaid..

 

[nobump]

NHS give her a boob job, she went game to raise money to pay back money to NHS, falls pregnant so decides to keep money for baby. Now she is going to have an abortion so she can go on big brother. Words fail me!

 

[longing]

Argh! Babies! I want lots and lots of babies! Why is it not happening? Why are all my friends completing their families and we still have a quiet house? Why? Why are there no answers? Hate this

(Thanks that is all)

 

[wannabemummyb]

NHS give her a boob job, she went game to raise money to pay back money to NHS, falls pregnant so decides to keep money for baby. Now she is going to have an abortion so she can go on big brother. Words fail me!

I read about this too, made my blood boil. She has two little boys too!

 

[JJKCB]

rant about ranters.... (not here on another website)

a woman complaining how after fighting infertility in her ltttc whit the doctors refusing to help she has now been side swiped by her best friend and sister falling pregnant which she sure they did just to spite her

so far sounds normal like everything we have all been through and you can relate right?

until you read her ACTUAL details:

'Ltttc' for: 2 MONTHS (this is her 3rd month)
infertility: SELF DIAGNOSED (because obviously it hasn't happened yet so never will)
the doctor: WONT HELP BECAUSE ITS ONLY BEEN 2 DAMN MONTHS BUT SHE IS GOING TO 'DEMAND' HELP APPARENTLY
her sister: HAS BEEN PREGNANT LONGER THAN SHE HAS EVEN BEEN TRYING SO CLEARLY JUST TO SPITE HER

seriously FFS, there are women on that board who have been trying 10+ years, I have only been trying for 2 and im already watching people on their 2nd babies now and this woman is kicking off because 'no one could possibly know how hard it is for her because she deserves it more than anyone else after this long battle'

words, their are just no word for how STUPID and DELUDED this woman is, at 2 months your not even trying yet... it takes at least 3 months to come up with an average on your cycle (length, ovulation, LP etc...)

 

[nobump]

Someone I was at school with is nowa granny, Im still trying for number One!

 

[JJKCB]

sorry to be rude but are you at least in your 40s or did they both pop one out very, very young lol?

its just me and my mom where both about 20 so she was 40 when she became a grandma but ive never met any that where younger (although ive read the daily mail lol)

apparently the youngest grandma ever was just 17 though and the youngest grandfather in Britain is 24 I think... just madness

 

[PyrusEK]

sorry to be rude but are you at least in your 40s or did they both pop one out very, very young lol?

its just me and my mom where both about 20 so she was 40 when she became a grandma but ive never met any that where younger (although ive read the daily mail lol)

apparently the youngest grandma ever was just 17 though and the youngest grandfather in Britain is 24 I think... just madness

17?!?! Wow... pretty sure I was a spoiled brat at that age. I couldn't imagine having been a mother AND a grandmother.

I read an article the other day- I'm sure most of you have seen it- about the proteins on the egg and sperm that are responsible for them recognizing each other and combining. If either person doesn't have it, you're automatically infertile and can only get pregnant with IVF in which the sperm is injected into the egg. Now I am super paranoid that one of us has this issue and we're wasting all this freakin time trying other stuff. Maybe I should just stop reading this crap!

I also just had my 29th birthday. One the one hand, I'm still very young and I've been getting into great physical shape. On the other hand, I'm reminded that the clock is ticking and I have still never even seen a BFP. I always hoped for at least two kids. Now it looks like I'll be lucky to ever conceive one.

 

[nobump]

I have only just turned 39, think granny is 38. Which is young.

 

[Hope3]

NHS give her a boob job, she went game to raise money to pay back money to NHS, falls pregnant so decides to keep money for baby. Now she is going to have an abortion so she can go on big brother. Words fail me!

That was so bad! I was livid when I saw that story.