Hello Ladies, this is the first time I'm posting on this thread. I'm going into my second year of trying for baby 1. I've been reading some of the comments which made me laugh (that never happens on any other thread), the girls at work are very supportive but always say the same thing "it will happen, stop worrying" they just don't understand. Does anyone have any good techniques to deal with the anxiety - I wake up in the middle of the night or I the supermarket on in my car with this sinking feeing that I am fooling myself by being happy with no children. I am really struggling with t anxiety every month. At first I used to fight with my husband over not marrying me sooner when I was younger and how he robbed me of my child baring years!!! But I wasn't ready then either (I'm 32, he's 33 been together for 8 years just got married last year,) and soon realised that was making the problem even worse. Now the anxiety is manifesting itself as pure lonely sad depression, sitting on the stair crying into my hands and wailing when no one is listening -please girls give me some coping mechanisms; don't know how much more pain I can take.