Kallie3000
Pregnant! Rainbow #1
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It is exhausting.
I would make an excuse.
Your friend has no right to push you if you're feeling so fragile about it. Say no now & if you feel like going on the day you can change your mind. But that way you won't have the dread leading up to it or the feeling that you have let anyone down at the last minute.
I'm sorry your friend isn't listening to you or your feelings
I'm seeing her later today so will talk to her again about it then.
I could very well really enjoy myself, but it's going to be such a reminder of what we don't have yet and I'd never forgive myself if I ruined her daughters' baby shower by getting upset
I know if it were me - the "mood" I was in when I got up on that day would influence how I could deal with a baby shower. Some days I can power through & other days I can cry all day because if one car advert.
Put yourself first. Take care of yourself. Do what's best for you
I already know I'll feel like a bad sister and aunt for what I'm about to say... but I'm tired of not saying it.
My sister is having her third child in May. After the last two each time she said she didn't want anymore. Hell during her pregnancy with my nephew she said she didn't want "this one". Literally from the first month of my actively ttc to the one year mark she has gotten pregnant twice! And I'm not happy for her. Like I can't wait to have another niece or nephew! Really. I'll love that baby to the moon and back. But how can I look my sister in the face and honestly say "I'm happy you're having another kid you didn't want and will most likely make me pay for and throw parties for and take for six months at a time because you're 'tired'"
And I'm not exaggerating. I had temp custody of my niece for SIX MONTHS because she was tired of being a mom! I want to be a mom so badly! I m going through hell watching all my cousins have kids and being the rock for one who just lost her first pregnancy and trying to be a good aunt to my two nieces and two nephews. Every time I turn around there's another baby in my family. And now she wants me to except that she is having another kid. One she dangled letting me adopt in my face then yesterday took it back because she couldn't stand to adopt out.
Sorry for ranting so much but really I'm at my wits end here. How can I be such a horrid sister and aunt? And why can't I stop myself from feeling this way? I'm just so tired.
Why do men just not get it???
Or is it just my oh?
Was the show good? I saw a leaflet in my clinc and I wasn't sure I was ready for the 'show' lol but it looked very interesting. X
Fertility show today. Spent the day surrounded by other people's babies. At a sodding fertility show.
I reviewed https://weforgotthesperm.wordpress.com/2014/11/01/review-the-fertility-show-2014/
Fertility show today. Spent the day surrounded by other people's babies. At a sodding fertility show.
I reviewed https://weforgotthesperm.wordpress.com/2014/11/01/review-the-fertility-show-2014/
I wondered about that as well. I mean one was a newborn so I doubt they were there about ttc #2 already.
Why do men just not get it???
Or is it just my oh?
Nope my hubby is the same
I got a positive opk out of the blue and had to pester like crazy for any action last night and the night before as he's on night duty tonight and tomorrow night we're at his parents' house He doesn't get that we need to dtd around this time of the cycle
Fertility show today. Spent the day surrounded by other people's babies. At a sodding fertility show.
I reviewed https://weforgotthesperm.wordpress.com/2014/11/01/review-the-fertility-show-2014/