Long Term Trying To Conceive Vent Thread

[DBZ34]

2 years? Are they nuts? That's insane!!!!!

exactly.

 

[Penguin20]

Thanks just needed to rant as was having a down day yesterday just can't believe 13months and still no luck
My partner keeps saying it will happen but I am losing hope now
Doesn't help my af are just everywhere so sometimes I get excited thinking it could be the month then few days later the witch arrives and it doesn't help I have to wait till December before doctors will do anything

I happy for people on my fb who announce their pregnant but it's the one that write posts every 5 minutes about it

 

[EmmyReece]

Ugh, I don't expect to be centre of attention, but do you seriously have to wake me up with the news that you think one of your grandsons will be making an appearance today???

And you don't need to turn snotty with me when I say that the hospital won't induce your other daughter just because she doesn't want to wait for her baby

This woman is driving me nuts. I try and take a step back as I'm fed up of having to constantly consider her feelings, yet she takes no notice whatsoever. She knows where we are ttc, knows my feelings on how much of a failure I feel at the moment, yet still chooses to ram it down my throat time and time again about her grandsons being due and a week on thursday she will find out the sex of her 11th baby.

I even tried not answering the phone to her yesterday but she kept calling back

 

[Penguin20]

Just want to be the one announcing that I'm expecting but nope just lost all hope tbh
Feel like I tried everything

feel like there something wrong with me

 

[nobump]

Too much baby talk in work... excited expectant father and a seperate expectant mother who is due around same time I would have been....

 

[Myshelsong]

I am so sick and tired of people complaining about trying to conceive less than three months and now they are so worried they will never have children and blah blah blah.
Like holy hell! I feel like I want to punch everybody I know in the face six or seven times. Why can't I get a positive on a pregnancy test after 3 1/2 years? What I would do to finally get one…

 

[Miaw]

I am so sick and tired of people complaining about trying to conceive less than three months and now they are so worried they will never have children and blah blah blah.
Like holy hell! I feel like I want to punch everybody I know in the face six or seven times. Why can't I get a positive on a pregnancy test after 3 1/2 years? What I would do to finally get one…

My Brother's fiancee was like that. She told my brother on the third cycle of trying ''if it does not work this time, we go and get checked out'' She was 28 too, so there is not even the excuse of being 35 or more.

AND she is an OBGYN, you think she would know better omg.

 

[JJordaan]

Iv gotten to a point now where I can't tell anybody close or not that we are still trying or anything. It's the same comments over and over. Especially from the family members who got pregnant in a blink. They think they are so Dang special and unique because they had babies. Selfish people. Makes me sick!!!

 

[Han2015]

One of my best friends told me in last night she is pregnant after first month trying. I am really pleased for her but when I came home I cried! Does this make me a bad person? After 18 months trying I found it so hard.

 

[PiggieFarmer]

One of my best friends told me in last night she is pregnant after first month trying. I am really pleased for her but when I came home I cried! Does this make me a bad person? After 18 months trying I found it so hard.

Nope, just makes you human! And you are certainly not alone.

 

[EmmyReece]

One of my best friends told me in last night she is pregnant after first month trying. I am really pleased for her but when I came home I cried! Does this make me a bad person? After 18 months trying I found it so hard.

it doesn't make you a bad person at all like PiggieFarmer says it makes you human

don't be too hard on yourself xx

 

[DBZ34]

One of my best friends told me in last night she is pregnant after first month trying. I am really pleased for her but when I came home I cried! Does this make me a bad person? After 18 months trying I found it so hard.

Not at all! I think we've all had a cry after one announcement or another. It makes you human, like everyone else says.

LTTTC is so hard...

If it makes you feel better, when my SIL called us up and told us she was pregnant (with an oops baby), I cried so hard...like lay on the floor type of crying. Then DH was trying to put me on the phone with her...I went and shut myself in the bathroom. (To be fair, I had just mc'd two weeks earlier and there was no way I was emotionally ready for that announcement).

I was happy for her...but I was so so sad for me. Sometimes, you've just got to cry and that's okay. It's much healthier than bottling it all up.

 

[Leti]

I'm tired of all this ups and downs (more downs than ups). We've been trying since July 2012. shouldn't that be enough for us!?!??!
I try to keep my calm, try to stay positive, but sometime like today I loose it.
This month we tried IUI, I don't know why I had my hopes so up. Today is only C24 and I have two huge drops in temp and no more sore breast. I saw that drop this morning and it ruined my whole day. I already snapped at my boss and one coworker (who's pregnant by the way, and updates me everyday on her symptoms). Just found out another friend is expecting a girl.
I feel really angry. I'm not even sad anymore, its just anger.

I feel like everything in my life has stopped waiting for this to happen, I feel stuck.

Sorry, I know it is a very sad vent, but had to write it down and share it with someone.

 

[Hope3]

I'm tired of all this ups and downs (more downs than ups). We've been trying since July 2012. shouldn't that be enough for us!?!??!
I try to keep my calm, try to stay positive, but sometime like today I loose it.
This month we tried IUI, I don't know why I had my hopes so up. Today is only C24 and I have two huge drops in temp and no more sore breast. I saw that drop this morning and it ruined my whole day. I already snapped at my boss and one coworker (who's pregnant by the way, and updates me everyday on her symptoms). Just found out another friend is expecting a girl.
I feel really angry. I'm not even sad anymore, its just anger.

I feel like everything in my life has stopped waiting for this to happen, I feel stuck.

Sorry, I know it is a very sad vent, but had to write it down and share it with someone.

No need to be sorry for feeling sad, angry or upset in a vent. We understand. LTTTC is so hard.

I used to have 'trying to stay positive' in my signature but took it out after a while as the emotional lows outnumber the moments of positivity.

 

[EmmyReece]

Really not looking forward to this afternoon. I feel like complete and utter rubbish, but I know my friend will be round as soon as she gets back from town to tell me the result of her gender scan.

Add to that I'm getting seriously angry with myself and my yoyo dieting, I'm fed up of not being able to stick to it properly. And I know I only have myself to blame. I need to get the weight down before our Dr will refer us for help as she doesn't want us to get turned away because of my weight

 

[Penguin20]

Feels like it's going to be a long month :/

 

[Teach2]

Is there no escape? I'm watching random ballet videos on you tube and there in the middle of a Royal ballet class is a pregnant woman doing ballet. REALLY?

 

[nobump]

So tried to make small talk with the pr*ck in my work... oh and he is thinking about moving to buy a house so his little girl can have a garden (nice), oh and he and his wife are thinking of expanding their family.... why is it so easy for some!!!! Oh and I have to watch the new girl who's pregnancy is progressing nicely... she is almost at the stage I would be had last IVF worked... and yet again I have AF from hell, bleeding through super T's on day 6 in a matter of hours... is there no end... feel like giving up and going back on the pill... life sucks!

 

[EmmyReece]

Seriously feel like crying. I feel like I sometimes have to practically beg oh for Either that or her deliberately winds me up until I'm that angry that I don't want to anymore.

I really makes me feel like giving up sometimes

 

[PiggieFarmer]

Ack, looks like the thread got censored. A bunch of posts were deleted, including my 100th post. Bah. (Yeah, 100 may not sound like much, but it's pretty rare for me to say that much online.)