Long Term Trying To Conceive Vent Thread

Discussion in 'Long Term Trying To Conceive' started by Wobbles, Sep 19, 2012.

  1. wannabemummyb

    wannabemummyb LTTTC a rainbow

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    Wowser 65 days bleeding :wacko: do you know the cause? Is it heavy or more like spotting? Poor you Hun, that sounds crap x
     
  2. nobump

    nobump Well-Known Member

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    It's a combination of spotting and full bleeding. Been on meds fron gp that have helped to reduce it. Booked a private consultant with a gynae nhs takes to long. Good job I have private med with my work.
     
  3. nobump

    nobump Well-Known Member

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    I tend to just hide these from my timeline. Xxx
     
  4. wannabemummyb

    wannabemummyb LTTTC a rainbow

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    Definately good thing you have private medical. Hope you get an appointment soon and find out what's causing it x
     
  5. DBZ34

    DBZ34 TTC #1

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    That feeling you get...like you want to punch someone you just met in the face because they are making flippant and ridiculous comments about fertility.

    I'm not usually violent, but the longer she went on about "one or two tries and you're done" (talking about TTC) and "getting pregnant is so easy, you just have unprotected sex and boom, pregnant", the more intense my desire to tell her to shut the hell up became. Then she started talking about IVF and how after 30, your fertility is all downhill...and I just wanted to punch her in the face.

    Some people are just so naive...I wanted to tell her what it's really like, but I felt like I would just start cussing about the things that were coming out of her mouth, so I just kept my mouth shut. But really....
     
  6. Myshelsong

    Myshelsong LTTTC Success Story

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    Justin Timberlakes baby is adorable and I want to burn someones house down.

    Looking at adoption websites this week ... I am heartbroken and miserable.
     
  7. DBZ34

    DBZ34 TTC #1

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    That picture of JT's baby is EVERYWHERE.

    Today I saw the third pregnancy announcement in two days. Is everyone having babies in October and November? I swear...
     
  8. rebeccalouise

    rebeccalouise Well-Known Member

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    I'm sorry, I don't mean to sound harsh/selfish because that's not me at all.. But is it just me who feels so angry and resentful at people who are TTC for one month before they fall pregnant! I've just sat here in tears because I've seen a woman boasting about how she caught in her first month of trying.. What am I doing that's so wrong!? :cry:
     
  9. mytimewillcum

    mytimewillcum Ttc #1

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    Nothing my lovely , I feel the same and here am 4years later, going to my first fertility appointment in may, it like a big kick in the teeth when you read how easy and quickly others have got pregnant, but chin up girl thinking of you and sending lots of :hugs: your way xx
     
  10. rebeccalouise

    rebeccalouise Well-Known Member

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    Thanks hun, massive hugs right back to you! :hugs: I hope you have a little miracle before your appointment :) :dust: X
     
  11. mytimewillcum

    mytimewillcum Ttc #1

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    :friends: xx
     
  12. EmmyReece

    EmmyReece Mummy To Olivia

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    Already feeling rubbish thanks to my mum's attitude and the hubby walks in from his nan's and informs me that his cousin is pregnant :shrug: :cry:

    So that's all we're going to hear about every single time we see/speak to his parents :cry:
     
  13. nobump

    nobump Well-Known Member

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    Can you please stop winging about your lack of sleep. Be greatful for the little bundle of joy you have.
     
  14. EmmyReece

    EmmyReece Mummy To Olivia

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    Was talking to the hubby about booking a holiday for us for next year and his words were "well hopefully we won't be able to as you'll be up the duff"

    Seriously can't see that happening :nope:
     
  15. DBZ34

    DBZ34 TTC #1

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    That feeling you get when you realize that most of your BnB friends are preggo and you're not...I've been left behind again. Doesn't stop me from being massively excited for everyone because this is what I've wanted for them for so long and they deserve it. I'm just a little sad for me.
     
  16. wannabemummyb

    wannabemummyb LTTTC a rainbow

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    I completely understand this one. After being left behind by four separate groups I'm a bit scared to get close to anyone else :hugs: x
     
  17. EmmyReece

    EmmyReece Mummy To Olivia

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    I'm close to breaking and this 3 month ttc break while I lose weight isn't helping in the slightest. Yes, I know you're 37 weeks pregnant and not taking things easy like you should have done your whole pregnancy!!! But seriously do you need to rub it in every single time you message me??

    I'm sick of you telling me to just stop trying and it'll happen. I'm sick of you telling me to relax. When will you get it through your thick skull that I'm too fat to conceive and all the relaxing and not trying in the world won't make a difference until my weight comes down :cry:
     
  18. Myshelsong

    Myshelsong LTTTC Success Story

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    When you realize all your high school friends are done having children and you don't even have one...
     
  19. Jax41

    Jax41 It only takes one...

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    I feel that too :hugs: In fact I work in a school and have just met up with my best friend from back then who has her two kids here! I also need to add to the feeling of left behind bit, when the (step)grandchildren come along (2 now), it's worse... Will I be struck down in flames when I walk out the door for writing that...:shrug:
     
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