Lookin for NTNP buddy. Just need to CHAT!

[Laura2806]

Sounds promising fairy hun! Hope she stays away for you!

I have no effing clue! I just hope the docs don't palm with a slip for CD21 bloods as who knows when that'll be! I just really don't wanna be on the day of the wedding

 

[fairyy]

I hope so laura. U won't come on wedding.

I think my AF just started. Now its red. Not yet heavy though. But its sure AF. I cried badly last night. Sometimes I think it won't happen for me. I am heart broken. What I am doing wrong !!!

 

[Laura2806]

Oh hunni I know how your feeling, sending you virtual

I used to cry myself to sleep with want for my baby, you will get there hunni we all will xxx

Remind me again, do you chart with FF? Temp? oPk? All any of us can really do is every other day from when AF leaves, try to relax (bloody impossible!) and hope and pray we catch our eggs xxx

 

[fairyy]

No not religiously. This month I did opk and temp for only cd10 to cd20. I guess I ovulated on cd15. The next day at cd16 I got a rise in temp. Got positive opk on cd14. But BD on cd13. I took my temp this morning and it was above coverline. May be it will drop tomorrow.

One more question. I normally ovulate on cd15. So should I do it on 10,12,14,16,18 or 9,11,13,15,17 ? Which pattern would be better ? I don't know I try to have BD on good cm days but its not working. On ovulation day I don't normally left with any ewcm.

 

[Laura2806]

Bugger I was gonna temp this morning! Completely forgot!

This month try temping everyday and OPK from CD10 to your first positive one then just temp. When it comes to CM although you might not have any externally you could internally still, heck I conceived without external CM! With regards to DTD I think your maybe planning too far in advance, try to be more relaxed about and do it more when the mood takes you rather then being all 'well we didn't have sex yesterday so we MUST have it today!' The more relaxed you are the easier it will happen.

BFN again today! 2 tests left, when I go the docs Friday if I still don't have an answer either way I'm gonna chat to her about tablets to stop my period coming and see what she says, I really can't be on the day I marry my best friend xxx

 

[MrsCorny]

Hey ladies! How y'all doin?

Laura- when is the wedding, dear? I would be so upset if I came on the day I got married! I hope there is something you can do! Or that it really is a BFP !!

Ica- u mentioned a doc appt for Monday? What for? Are u alright?
(I think I read you were-- hopefully I'm not mixing people up again)

AFM-

So, I'm back to wondering what to do- still waiting for a reply to my application to that college, but then I made appts with 2 new potential- and quite promising- clients that would give us an extra $200+ per month. The personal training is really what I want to do, plus being able to make my own schedule and make twice the money I'm making now, doing something I love and that keeps me in shape... It's honestly a win-win.
And hubby told me I shouldn't give up so quick on my training business cuz he thinks it will take off. So that makes me wanna kee going- I don't wanna quit yet another thing.
Plus, with the fitness field, there are so many certifications and such I can earn and just keep learning, like I want to do. With no student loans cuz each cert is around $500, so once I have the money for one I just do it.
I'm totally just babbling! Sorry! So I told myself I wasn't gonna be bothered with this TWW this month- well, it's just in my head! I know I'm in the TWW... And even tho he pulled out during fertile days, with my cycles being between 25-32 days, I don't really know when I Ov'ed for sure- so we could've caught it. See im making uo reasons to think i could be preggo!! And at only 5dpo I thought I was sure I didn't want to be pregnant this time cuz of possibly going back to school...
But then my grandma got sick- she's got shingles pretty bad and she is 91. Every time I see her, I want a baby so bad- I want to give her one great grandchild before its her time. My grandpa passed away about a year before I got married- we were so close- I had imagined dancing with him at my wedding for years and I didn't get that- its kinda crazy how important it is to me that my grandma is there for our first child. Maybe I'm being foolish... But I feel how I feel. Obviously, that is not the only or most important reason I want a baby, but it's a big one.
And that's it for babbling for now- sorry if u read all this thinking it was something important haha!

 

[Laura2806]

Mrsc! Hey! Its a week tomorrow!!! Thanks hunni xx

AFY I think you want this baby NOW more than you realise. Your getting by moneywise right?! So don't give up on your business! Keep at it, work on advertisements, run some offers to get some business going, think about it, how much would you make if you saw 2 clients a day? 3 clients, 4 clients etc etc, maybe did some boot camp classes etc, then when bubs arrives you can take a break for a few weeks, and go back to it once you are healed. If its what you want to do do it!!! I belive you can make it work! Xxx

 

[MrsCorny]

Mrsc! Hey! Its a week tomorrow!!! Thanks hunni xx

AFY I think you want this baby NOW more than you realise. Your getting by moneywise right?! So don't give up on your business! Keep at it, work on advertisements, run some offers to get some business going, think about it, how much would you make if you saw 2 clients a day? 3 clients, 4 clients etc etc, maybe did some boot camp classes etc, then when bubs arrives you can take a break for a few weeks, and go back to it once you are healed. If its what you want to do do it!!! I belive you can make it work! Xxx

I know... I can work half the hours for the same money and hubby has a job with health insurance and all that. I think I was just getting nervous, I had hit the 6 month mark with only one client. But I don't have business cards out yet. And I really wanna start a boot camp. It's a matter of just doing it... But I get so nervous. Lol and yeah- I do really want a baby soon. I just wish I didn't, cuz my business is still only starting and hubby isn't quite ready. *sigh* I feel like a fool sometimes. :/ it will happen when it's right. I know that much.

 

[ica235]

Feel like I missed a lot and have forgotten what I've read so sorry if I miss something

MrsC I'm fine! Got an appointment about getting reconstructive surgery down below where I've been stitched far too tight after Douglas. It seemed to get a bit better on its own and then started to get worse. It's almost unbearable now so I'm really struggling when we try to dtd, zero pleasure for me now, just pain. More than pain, agony!!! It's really getting me down now. I feel so awful afterwards, like I'm letting him down.. I know I'm being silly but it just feels that way
Hopefully when i get my surgery date i will be put to sleep so I can just wake up with a new one lol I'm going to request it.. They did it for my lletz treatment and women are usually awake for that so fingers crossed

And as for your business I completely agree with Laura! Go for it! Facebook page, twitter, business cards, leaflet drops, website etc etc the possibility is literally endless. Totally believe you can do it!

Laura. 1 week!! That's crazy!! Hopefully you get your BFP before then, how lovely that would that be!
I hope you're feeling ok, must be very hard with such a long cycle. Big hugs to you!! And chin up, you're not out until the red lady sings! No matter how many tests you get through! I still believe this is your cycle! Have done from the start!

Fairy, I'd say 9.11.13.15.17 and in between if you're feeling it haha! Just go with the flow really!

 

[ica235]

Sorry - just re read last few posts and cant believe i didnt say sorry AF got you fairy... it'll happen Hun, shoulders back chin up pick yourself up and try again xxxxxxxx youre not doing anything wrong xxxxx another set of big hugs to you

 

[fairyy]

Sorry - just re read last few posts and cant believe i didnt say sorry AF got you fairy... it'll happen Hun, shoulders back chin up pick yourself up and try again xxxxxxxx youre not doing anything wrong xxxxx another set of big hugs to you

Thanks
DH and I decided to TTC from September.
We need to visit our parents in December 2014. They stay very far away. So at least if the baby is 4/5months by then we can travel. Otherwise it would be difficult to travel with a new born baby or if I am pregnant by then.

So this month I am gonna just relax. Full on board TTC from next cycle.

 

[fairyy]

Hey ladies! How y'all doin?

Laura- when is the wedding, dear? I would be so upset if I came on the day I got married! I hope there is something you can do! Or that it really is a BFP !!

Ica- u mentioned a doc appt for Monday? What for? Are u alright?
(I think I read you were-- hopefully I'm not mixing people up again)

AFM-

So, I'm back to wondering what to do- still waiting for a reply to my application to that college, but then I made appts with 2 new potential- and quite promising- clients that would give us an extra $200+ per month. The personal training is really what I want to do, plus being able to make my own schedule and make twice the money I'm making now, doing something I love and that keeps me in shape... It's honestly a win-win.
And hubby told me I shouldn't give up so quick on my training business cuz he thinks it will take off. So that makes me wanna kee going- I don't wanna quit yet another thing.
Plus, with the fitness field, there are so many certifications and such I can earn and just keep learning, like I want to do. With no student loans cuz each cert is around $500, so once I have the money for one I just do it.
I'm totally just babbling! Sorry! So I told myself I wasn't gonna be bothered with this TWW this month- well, it's just in my head! I know I'm in the TWW... And even tho he pulled out during fertile days, with my cycles being between 25-32 days, I don't really know when I Ov'ed for sure- so we could've caught it. See im making uo reasons to think i could be preggo!! And at only 5dpo I thought I was sure I didn't want to be pregnant this time cuz of possibly going back to school...
But then my grandma got sick- she's got shingles pretty bad and she is 91. Every time I see her, I want a baby so bad- I want to give her one great grandchild before its her time. My grandpa passed away about a year before I got married- we were so close- I had imagined dancing with him at my wedding for years and I didn't get that- its kinda crazy how important it is to me that my grandma is there for our first child. Maybe I'm being foolish... But I feel how I feel. Obviously, that is not the only or most important reason I want a baby, but it's a big one.
And that's it for babbling for now- sorry if u read all this thinking it was something important haha!

I agree with Laura. I think u can manage both the baby thing and career thing simultaneously. Go on with ur fitness field thing and if u conceive then u can take a break for sometime.

 

[fairyy]

Feel like I missed a lot and have forgotten what I've read so sorry if I miss something

MrsC I'm fine! Got an appointment about getting reconstructive surgery down below where I've been stitched far too tight after Douglas. It seemed to get a bit better on its own and then started to get worse. It's almost unbearable now so I'm really struggling when we try to dtd, zero pleasure for me now, just pain. More than pain, agony!!! It's really getting me down now. I feel so awful afterwards, like I'm letting him down.. I know I'm being silly but it just feels that way
Hopefully when i get my surgery date i will be put to sleep so I can just wake up with a new one lol I'm going to request it.. They did it for my lletz treatment and women are usually awake for that so fingers crossed

And as for your business I completely agree with Laura! Go for it! Facebook page, twitter, business cards, leaflet drops, website etc etc the possibility is literally endless. Totally believe you can do it!

Laura. 1 week!! That's crazy!! Hopefully you get your BFP before then, how lovely that would that be!
I hope you're feeling ok, must be very hard with such a long cycle. Big hugs to you!! And chin up, you're not out until the red lady sings! No matter how many tests you get through! I still believe this is your cycle! Have done from the start!

Fairy, I'd say 9.11.13.15.17 and in between if you're feeling it haha! Just go with the flow really!

So u have decided to go for reconstructive surgery or going for consultation ? Can't it be soothed without any surgery ?

 

[fairyy]

Bugger I was gonna temp this morning! Completely forgot!

This month try temping everyday and OPK from CD10 to your first positive one then just temp. When it comes to CM although you might not have any externally you could internally still, heck I conceived without external CM! With regards to DTD I think your maybe planning too far in advance, try to be more relaxed about and do it more when the mood takes you rather then being all 'well we didn't have sex yesterday so we MUST have it today!' The more relaxed you are the easier it will happen.

BFN again today! 2 tests left, when I go the docs Friday if I still don't have an answer either way I'm gonna chat to her about tablets to stop my period coming and see what she says, I really can't be on the day I marry my best friend xxx

I really hope doctor will provide u with some answers. It would be awesome if there is a little bean And about the wedding, its only after a week. All my best wishes are with u hun.

 

[fairyy]

If I plan to use opk then when to BD after the opk turns positive to get better results ???

1. The day of positive opk and the next day
2. The day of positive opk and next two days
3. The day of positive opk and the next day and then skip a day, do it one more time

The "Sperm Meets Egg Plan" says to do it for consecutive 3days after opk turns positive and then skip a day, do it one more time. I wonder is that last day is necessary of this plan ??? What do u say ? Which one is better amongst the first three steps I stated or SMEP is better ???

 

[ica235]

I'd say number 2! 3 consecutive days should do the job but its not fool proof! But should be a good chance of catching the egg that way!

I'm going for a consultation with my doc who I've already spoke to who said the cream may be a short term fix but I'd need surgery to fix it she will probably refer me to a gyno who will assess me and what kind of surgery, either just a nick to open it up a bit or wether they will need to cut me all the way again to remove scar tissue! Will then have to wait for a letter with surgery date.. Dreading it!!
But can't take the pain of dtd anymore.. It's not right..
But hopefully will be ttc by Christmas when Douglas will be 1 years old! And I should hopefully be fixed and healed... Depends on when I get my letter though... I hope they don't make me wait too long!!!

The royal baby business has made me so so broody if only I could ttc now!!!
Im gonna go all out when I'm fixed opks charting the lot!! I always said I'd never do it but I so so badly want it! It's worth a go.. If I get crazy on it then fiancé will have to tell me off lol

Still ntnp ATM but its hard to when you don't enjoy dtd anymore... pretty sure I ovd today.. We bd this afternoon but it all fell out of me straight away as had to run and sort Douglas out.. Not feeling very hopeful this cycle but its probably for the best as I won't be able to have surgery if I'm pregnant.. Well I assume so anyway lol what will be will be..

Sorry for blabbering on!!
Vent vent vent lol

 

[fairyy]

Ya, saw in the news that royal baby boy has arrived.

Hope u get something done to make u feel better while DTD.
Surgery is scary but pain while DTD is no fun either. Get it fixed. So that u don't need to go through pain every time u BD.

Hopefully we all we get our much anticipated BFP by end of this year. Christmas and Thanks Giving will bring joy. Bay dust to u.

 

[Laura2806]

Mrsc! Hey! Its a week tomorrow!!! Thanks hunni xx

AFY I think you want this baby NOW more than you realise. Your getting by moneywise right?! So don't give up on your business! Keep at it, work on advertisements, run some offers to get some business going, think about it, how much would you make if you saw 2 clients a day? 3 clients, 4 clients etc etc, maybe did some boot camp classes etc, then when bubs arrives you can take a break for a few weeks, and go back to it once you are healed. If its what you want to do do it!!! I belive you can make it work! Xxx

I know... I can work half the hours for the same money and hubby has a job with health insurance and all that. I think I was just getting nervous, I had hit the 6 month mark with only one client. But I don't have business cards out yet. And I really wanna start a boot camp. It's a matter of just doing it... But I get so nervous. Lol and yeah- I do really want a baby soon. I just wish I didn't, cuz my business is still only starting and hubby isn't quite ready. *sigh* I feel like a fool sometimes. :/ it will happen when it's right. I know that much.

Then go for it hunni, get yourself some business cards and set up a page on Facebook, spend your spare time advertising it hun

Does hubby know how you feel? maybe try talking to him and explain about the whole its normal for it to take 12-18months and you only have a 20% of conceiving a healthy pregnancy if everything is timed right each cycle. might help him to go with not pulling out untill you're ready to start temping etc, hopefully you'll catch before then though xxx

Feel like I missed a lot and have forgotten what I've read so sorry if I miss something

MrsC I'm fine! Got an appointment about getting reconstructive surgery down below where I've been stitched far too tight after Douglas. It seemed to get a bit better on its own and then started to get worse. It's almost unbearable now so I'm really struggling when we try to dtd, zero pleasure for me now, just pain. More than pain, agony!!! It's really getting me down now. I feel so awful afterwards, like I'm letting him down.. I know I'm being silly but it just feels that way
Hopefully when i get my surgery date i will be put to sleep so I can just wake up with a new one lol I'm going to request it.. They did it for my lletz treatment and women are usually awake for that so fingers crossed

And as for your business I completely agree with Laura! Go for it! Facebook page, twitter, business cards, leaflet drops, website etc etc the possibility is literally endless. Totally believe you can do it!

Laura. 1 week!! That's crazy!! Hopefully you get your BFP before then, how lovely that would that be!
I hope you're feeling ok, must be very hard with such a long cycle. Big hugs to you!! And chin up, you're not out until the red lady sings! No matter how many tests you get through! I still believe this is your cycle! Have done from the start!

Fairy, I'd say 9.11.13.15.17 and in between if you're feeling it haha! Just go with the flow really!

aww thank you hunni i hope this is my cycle!! will test tomorrow, but then im also tempted to wait until friday, CD60 the day i got my BFP last time round!

SO I'm upset with DF today, he told me to keep all the cards and money so he cant buy fags, yet this morning i find him smoking!! Not happy, he didnt even try and go 2days. It's the reason we have no money! he spends £200-£250 each month on them. we dont have that money spare!!

 

[ica235]

Giving up is very hard work, I used to smoke 20 a day before I got pregnant but quit once I found out. It was stressful, difficult and completely drained me. But I did it eventually. I started by allowing myself one cigarette on one day a week. It kept me going through the week to know "it's ok.. I can have one Wednesday.." And then come the next Wednesday I decided I didn't need one.. "It's ok if I want one ill have one next Wednesday" I kept telling myself. Each Wednesday I didn't want one but the only thing that kept me going was that if I wanted one I was allowed. As soon as someone says you're not allowed one suddenly its all you can think about. Maybe try some sort of thing like that? Obviously it's different for everyone but could be worth a go?

What is up with my temps????????? Have I already ovved??! Am I about to ov?
No idea!!! Lol!!

Laura are you testing today? Good luck if you are xxx

 

[MrsCorny]

Ladies- thanks for your encouragement! I got 2 new clients yesterday for an hour every week, each. And the woman seems to think once her friends know she has a trainer come to her home, they will want to hire me, too! Oh I hope that happens!

Laura! First- 6 days!! Oh I'm so excited for you! What a wondrous occasion!! I hope the big day turns out great!!! Are you nervous, just excited? Everything all set?!
And about the smoking- when my mom was in her 20a she quit smoking by having a sucker-candy jolly rancher, in her case) instead, each time she wanted a smoke. Maybe try something like that, sometimes just having something to replace it can be enough. I've heard it work for other ppl too. I want my little sister (20) to stop smoking too, so bad for you, my grandfather died from smoking in his early 60s. It's just not right. I hope that works out soon!
Keep us updated on your testing and if u can do something about holding it off for wedding night if its BFN. When will u be seeing a doc for that? If at all.

Ica- glad you are "okay". I hope you get that taken care of right away. I can't imagine... Pain during BD, how awful... It's supposed to be such a wonderful experience. Let us know if you get in soon to set a date for surgery so I can be praying for you, dear. I also hope for a quick recovery when time comes so you can get on with TTC!

Fairyy- I would love it if we all got BFPs by the end of the year. I was hoping to conceive in August or September for a late spring, early summer baby. I don't wanna be pregnant during the summer! Lol I am not a summer girl at all. I like the fall and spring. Nothing extreme, but I don't mind winter either cuz I love to bundle up under a blanket and cuddle or go out and play in the snow. (Plus no bugs!!!!) I would be a wreck if I was preggo in the summer, I know it. Haha

AFM- def feeling broody, been seeing a lot more of my grandma cuz she is sick and she is just so weak, I'm worried for her. They keep saying she should be in the hospital but since my parents are staying there 24/7 it's "fine". She is in a lot of pain and so shaky. I know it's just shingles so not life threatening, really. But scary enough.
And although I do not follow much about the royal baby/ family thing, bc I believe every birth is magical and special, all the baby talk is killin me!
Oh, hubby and I went to a huge car show called Bimmerfest in MD. Every time I saw a dad or parents with their children, I get all broody, cuz I can't wait to bring our kid out to a car show and teach him/her about daddy's passions and to see him with our child... Just thinking about it I'm getting right up there to cloud 9! Oh it's going to be amazing to be a parent with my husband- he is just fantastic, a truly great man. *sigh* soon enough! Lol