Lookin for NTNP buddy. Just need to CHAT!

[MsBuehler1121]

Laura why are you sorry? You got it....better than I could've
Welcome Becca! Best group of ladies you'll find by far!!!

 

[RedButterfly]

You need to add mel28nicole to the front page.

 

[Laura2806]

Cause I wasn't 100% sure of your name chick lol

I remembered Mel whilst typing something at work lol please add Mel Lindsay

How is everyone today? Xx

 

[MrsCorny]

Mel is added.
Mel- considering you have 2 first names in your username, is it Mel or Nicole? Lol

Idk what's worse, honestly, waiting for Ov or the TWW? I think TWW slightly, but waiting for Ov, once it gets close, it's like- have sex all the time or we will miss it!!! Haha not that DTD often is a problem for us it's just, I don't wanna miss that one day and at least get my 25% chance of conception lol
I think I'm making myself a bit crazy- I think once you know your cycles, NTNP is just a myth, if I know when I wil Ov, especially since now I know sore nips is a tell-tale sign of it, how can I NOT make sure to BD those days?! That's kinda TTC, isn't it? I think I'm somewhere in between now haha

 

[fairyy]

First two weeks of the cycle make me go crazy, like we have to DTD and catch that egg. I am more relaxed in the TWW but bit anxious about the outcome. But the last week is painful with PMS. U know it has started from this morning. I am all set to welcome the

 

[fairyy]

I have entered some note to FF today and it changed my solid lined crosshair to dotted crosshair. !!!

 

[MsBuehler1121]

Mel is added.
Mel- considering you have 2 first names in your username, is it Mel or Nicole? Lol

Idk what's worse, honestly, waiting for Ov or the TWW? I think TWW slightly, but waiting for Ov, once it gets close, it's like- have sex all the time or we will miss it!!! Haha not that DTD often is a problem for us it's just, I don't wanna miss that one day and at least get my 25% chance of conception lol
I think I'm making myself a bit crazy- I think once you know your cycles, NTNP is just a myth, if I know when I wil Ov, especially since now I know sore nips is a tell-tale sign of it, how can I NOT make sure to BD those days?! That's kinda TTC, isn't it? I think I'm somewhere in between now haha

I read that out of the thousands/millions of sperm only 6 reach the egg...God is so amazing!!
Don't over think it

 

[Laura2806]

Waiting for ov is def worse for me as I have no idea when or if it will happen. Waiting for AF is easier as I know when to expect it. Or at least I thought I did.

 

[MrsCorny]

Just applied to college and for financial aid!! First steps taken! Class registration starts Nov. 4, classes begin in January.
Until I find out when classes will be, nothing changes. Hopefully I can do school around my current job, if not, I'll have 2 months to find a new position before class starts. FXed this goes along smoothly!!
Decided I'm not gonna push for BD around Ov time, if we happen to be in the mood, then great. If not, it's fine with me... Once I start classes, it'll be about 3 years until I graduate. But hubby doesn't wanna prevent again, I even asked him!!! And he said he wants us to just trust God and He will give us our baby when the time is right! goodness, I love that man!
How are you ladies doing today?

 

[fairyy]

for that first step. It sounds great Lindsay. About that baby thing what your DH said is right. We have to trust God and his timing. Every day I see ladies with babies and I tell to myself someday we will have one of our own. Seriously I don't want to TTC at all and follow NTNP, love my husband and have quality time with him. But I am little worried because I am 30 now.

 

[MsBuehler1121]

You know...Gods timing is the right timing.
One thing I started doing was mimicking some of the prayers from women of the bible. They prayed earnestly asking Gods blessing of a child and praying for the child specifically. It worked and I continue to pray for my doodle bug daily.

No matter what happens...praise, honor, and glory should always be lifted up to Him

 

[Laura2806]

I love how you ladies have so much faith in God and thus you're bodies!

Sometimes I feel a little conflict thinking well what have I done to pee him off to make me suffer with crap long cycles, but deep down I know it will happen when the time is right. I am learning to take control of this make things how they should be rather than blaming other people for stuff, in all aspects of my life. And I think part of this is not only learning to trust myself and my body but God's timing also. Plus in the grand scheme of things I am really not suffering at all, not when I think of what a close friend has gone through loosing her beautiful boy full term, or my dad's friend loosing his wife to cancer just 2wks after becoming her husband. Anyway, I guess I'm trying to say I'm learning to trust

Oh and go you girl on your studies! Follow your dreams xx

 

[MrsCorny]

MsB- my pastor just did a sermon 2 weeks ago that mentioned how glorifying it is to God to pray His Word. And praying His Word, means we are prayin His Will. It's amazing.

Laura- there is a reason behind your frustrating cycles, sweetie, and it may just be so God can give you your second child in His timing, and to help you know that He is ultimately in control. It's not a punishment, tho it may feel like it is. Just continue to trust Him. Once you know your eternity is spoken for, you have such peace that when you start getting overwhelmed with things of this world, all you have to do is look to Jesus, and you can get that peace again, knowing you are unconditionally loved by your creator and Savior!
Please do read the book of Romans in the bible if you have some time! at least the first 5 chapters. It will help you to understand and to trust. I'm praying for you Laura. Xoxo

 

[MrsCorny]

In fact- here is a link to the book of Romans. In case anyone here doesn't have a Bible.
https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Romans+1&version=NIV

 

[Laura2806]

I'm getting there hun but like I said I have this conflict going on that im battling with.

I'll try and find time to read it hun

How are we all today? I'm well and truly done with all the negative stuff to do with TTC. I want it to be positive and a positive experience ending in a positive test! Looking forward to getting some AC tomorrow and seeing if it makes a difference to my ovulation. I hope it does. If not should have my scan apt through by then end of this cycle.

 

[MsBuehler1121]

Good morning sweet beautiful ladies

True MsCorny, he's right!
Laura, sometimes the battle within us is because we haven't truly committed to giving it up. Submit everything to the Lord and that conflict within you with fade away.

Happy Friday!! Xoxo

 

[fairyy]

Hi ladies.
I am getting closer to AF.

 

[wannabemamaz]

I just have to say I am loving the positivity and faith in this forum!! I am on O day today and also praying for my BFP.. Will definitely have to have some quiet time this weekend praying as the women in the bible did.

 

[MsBuehler1121]

I just have to say I am loving the positivity and faith in this forum!! I am on O day today and also praying for my BFP.. Will definitely have to have some quiet time this weekend praying as the women in the bible did.

Howdy 'soontobe' (better than wannabe )
Praying for you!! Make sure you stick around! These ladies are awesome!

 

[MrsCorny]

I just have to say I am loving the positivity and faith in this forum!! I am on O day today and also praying for my BFP.. Will definitely have to have some quiet time this weekend praying as the women in the bible did.

Welcome! Glad you enjoy our thread already!

I'm doing okay today. Got more school stuff situated. can't eat for Nov. 4 so I can take the next step and actually register for class and figure out how much of a loan I can get. I have 6 generated classes to take. I'm hoping that if I get enough financial aid I can use some for rent/bills so I don't have to work and I can take all 6 classes in one semester and get started in the program THIS summer instead of summer 2015. Just gotta give it all to God.

I love when hubby does some little thing that makes me think "wow, you're gonna be a such a good daddy" I can't wait for the day it becomes a reality.