Lucky March Testing Thread

[sallyhansen76]

Oh @Mummy23beauts don't ever think you need to be quiet. We are here to support and encourage you too.

@elmum i see what you are seeing too!! Good luck!

 

[BabyBrain80]

@Mummy23beauts I'm so sorry, this is really terrible!! It just doesn't feel like they are giving you the care you need. I really don't get it at all.
Take care of yourself sweetheart and don't worry about posting, we are all here for you and want to know how you are doing xx

 

[Mummy23beauts]

I’ll carry on taking my prenatal vitamins and hope for the best. Just stocked up on enough tests to test every 2days until the 17th x

 

[tdog]

@Mummy23beauts please don't feel you have to be quiet we all want ro be here to support one another and I think I can say for all of us we want to support you at this very difficult/confusing time, we are all like a little Internet family and we are here to listen to you I'm thinking of you love xxx

 

[Suggerhoney]

I think I’m probably out this cycle because I O’d so dang early. But, started testing today anyway. I’m 9 or 10 dpo. Hopefully 9. Here’s my test today. This is at the five minute mark and there does appear to be something trying to peak through.

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Hay hon hope u don't mind me asking but what cd did u ovulate on?
I thought I was going to be out with my youngest because I randomly O on cd10 and everything I read was very negative. Saying O b4 cd12 is not good because imature egg etc.
Anyway so when I O on cd10 I thought I was out. But got my very faint BFP at 10dpo and he's now bouncing away in his bouncer.

 

[Suggerhoney]

@Mummy23beauts
I am so so sorry u are going through this. I feel like u have been treated really bad. I've never known hcg to rise after a MC like never. I'm holding on to the Hope that u maybe did lose a twin and the reason ure numbers are doubling is because ure still pregnant.
Please do not feel like u need to be quiet on here. We are all here for you and you really need the support and love right now.
Thinking of you sweety.

 

[Mummy23beauts]

@Mummy23beauts
I am so so sorry u are going through this. I feel like u have been treated really bad. I've never known hcg to rise after a MC like never. I'm holding on to the Hope that u maybe did lose a twin and the reason ure numbers are doubling is because ure still pregnant.
Please do not feel like u need to be quiet on here. We are all here for you and you really need the support and love right now.
Thinking of you sweety.

I called 111 because I’m having an anxiety attack.. the lady said that after a mc the body no longer produces hcg so the levels either stop or go down fast or gradually. I’m going to make a complaint about the unit because Iv just been told it could either be a viable pregnancy or ectopic and I wasn’t even examined for an ectopic.

 

[tdog]

I called 111 because I’m having an anxiety attack.. the lady said that after a mc the body no longer produces hcg so the levels either stop or go down fast or gradually. I’m going to make a complaint about the unit because Iv just been told it could either be a viable pregnancy or ectopic and I wasn’t even examined for an ectopic.

Oh wow I would definitely complain they have literally just tried to fob you off like they can't be arsed with there job with the bleeding and such they should have examined everywhere not just put you down as a complete miscarriage I'm so angry for you especially the way they have treated you it unacceptable especially in there line of work xx

 

[Mummy23beauts]

This is where I lose control sorry in advance..
I know there’s less ink in the test I just did because the control line is light.. but does it look like it’s getting lighter?
Top test just done, bottom from yesterday.

 

[amantila]

Doesn’t look lighter to me mummy. You need to be seen and really seen. I can’t stand that they are just dismissing you. You deserve answers. How do they know it’s not ectopic or a vanishing twin? The care and bedside manner they have given you is pretty crappy.

 

[NightFlower]

This is where I lose control sorry in advance..
I know there’s less ink in the test I just did because the control line is light.. but does it look like it’s getting lighter?
Top test just done, bottom from yesterday.

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It does look lighter not much tho but you said the dye was weak so that may be why.

At this point I don't know what to say that I didn't already say. I feel so bad for you and your OH. I just Hope you get some real answers to what's going on so you don't have anymore anxiety attacks. I just Hope it's not ectopic. That baby is okay since your levels went up. I know its going to be hard waiting a week for another blood draw. If you need to chat you can always message me.

 

[Rach87]

100% complain. Sounds like that awful nurse cant admit she was wrong and turned the Dr to her side instead of him taking care of you properly. So sorry @Mummy23beauts. Even if it is a complete miscarriage their could be retained placenta and they should have scanned for that or to see where the bleeding was coming from. And what back road med school did he go to that he thinks hcg goes up after a miscarriage?!?! I would call and speak to the highest Dr or admin and get seen properly. Dont let them bully you mama. *hugs*

 

[Mummy23beauts]

100% complain. Sounds like that awful nurse cant admit she was wrong and turned the Dr to her side instead of him taking care of you properly. So sorry @Mummy23beauts. Even if it is a complete miscarriage their could be retained placenta and they should have scanned for that or to see where the bleeding was coming from. And what back road med school did he go to that he thinks hcg goes up after a miscarriage?!?! I would call and speak to the highest Dr or admin and get seen properly. Dont let them bully you mama. *hugs*

This made me cry.. *not in a bad way*.. my friend is going to call up for me in the morning, she’s more stern than me and doesn’t take any crap.

 

[Suggerhoney]

Oh sweetheart I'm sorry u had a panic attack they are so scary. I'm so glad ure friend is gonna call them I wud do the same tbh and I wudnt take no crap. They are totally fobbing you off. Like they can't be arsed to do there job properly.
I had a miscarriage at 5 weeks a few years back and I went in because of bleeding and they scanned me. Also with my 11 year old son I had a scan at 5 weeks because had pain in my side and u cud see the gestational sac and yolk sac.
I hope u do get answers soon hon. It's absolutely so terrible how you have been treated. There bed side manner sucks.
I can't believe they didn't even do any examination. Bloods just don't cut it and I hate it there making u wait and wait it stinks

 

[Suggerhoney]

Do you know what in all the years I've been on here I've never ever started one of the months testing groups.
Actually thinking of doing the April one if no one minds.
I do come on here alot so hopefully I'll be able to keep up.

Let me wait and see how I feel when AF shows because that should be the 20th or 21st or 22nd. Unless it starts early. But I'll see how I feel then and I mite start the April testing thread.
Unless anyone else is keen to do it and then I cud do the May one?

 

[elmum]

Thank you! FF said CD 9, but temp went much higher CD 10. So, hopefully I O’d on CD 10. I’ve also read that the egg is ready when it’s ready. And it can definitely be ready earlier. Your story gives me hope!

Hay hon hope u don't mind me asking but what cd did u ovulate on?
I thought I was going to be out with my youngest because I randomly O on cd10 and everything I read was very negative. Saying O b4 cd12 is not good because imature egg etc.
Anyway so when I O on cd10 I thought I was out. But got my very faint BFP at 10dpo and he's now bouncing away in his bouncer.

 

[Livvy]

Mummy, there are no words! I was telling my husband about what you’ve been going through. Hang in there, wish we could all come with you and advocate for you! Glad your friend is going to help you tomorrow.

afm, I caved and bought another digi today. Pregnant! Feels good seeing that word. Know I’m not out of the woods yet as I’ve had two miscarriages, but celebrating anyway.

 

[Bevziibubble]

@Mummy23beauts I hope you get some answers soon. You've been treated appallingly

@Livvy congratulations on the digi!!

 

[Becca_89]

@Mummy23beauts gosh I am so surprised and shocked at the way the Drs and nurses have treated you! I am so sorry! No empathy but all no understanding on the medical side of things. It sounds like they are making up information as they are going along!

i am so glad your friend is calling up on your behalf tomorrow! I would also try and find out the formal complaints for them, they think because it’s NHS no one will complain! Grrrr!

most importantly I do hope you are ok, hold on there! I really have a lot of hope for you xxxxx

 

[Mummy23beauts]

Good morning..
First off a huge congratulations to @Livvy ..
@Becca_89 the dr did say they’d only ever had 2 cases that she was aware of and she didn’t know the outcome.

Afm tested this am and it’s definitely lighter. I feel like I need to accept the inevitable.
Opinions please x

I will say these tests dry darker as the bottom one that was done yesterday was lighter than that.