Lucky March Testing Thread

[Deethehippy]

So the dr has put complete miscarriage on my notes, she said even with my hcg doubling is could just be a spike and it’s most likely to drop over the next few days. I’m in tears.

I really cant see how that can be possible? Will they still do the scan? I would be reluctant to let go of hope just yet. Big hugs to you...this is so so hard

 

[Mummy23beauts]

I really cant see how that can be possible? Will they still do the scan? I would be reluctant to let go of hope just yet. Big hugs to you...this is so so hard

No scan, just bloods on the 17th. I think I’m done now. It’s too much heartache.

 

[NightFlower]

No scan, just bloods on the 17th. I think I’m done now. It’s too much heartache.

What a roller-coaster sorry your going through this. My heart goes out to you.

 

[tdog]

No scan, just bloods on the 17th. I think I’m done now. It’s too much heartache.

Oh love what a roller coaster this is for you and you family can't see how be a complete miscarriage with the numbers like that, but as you've said it could have been a twin pregnancy and lost one u mean we are no Dr's but this don't sound right xx

 

[xxmyheartxx]

@Mummy23beauts I would not be happy with that at all, if your numbers had decreased then I would understand it but they haven't.
Are you going to carry on testing? Sending you big hugs x

 

[NightFlower]

Oh love what a roller coaster this is for you and you family can't see how be a complete miscarriage with the numbers like that, but as you've said it could have been a twin pregnancy and lost one u mean we are no Dr's but this don't sound right xx

I agree something is off and don't seem right. Maybe the Doctors have no clue really sence they keep saying its not fine then could be a vanishing twin , it might be fine then its not. Her hcg did rise.

Hope she gets a real answer soon.

Mummy's Emotions must be everywhere right now. Feel so bad for her.

 

[Mummy23beauts]

I don’t want to keep testing but I feel like I need to. I’m just deflated. The gynae unit are awful.. some of the nurses are lovely but the dr I just saw didn’t even examine me. Apparently nothing can be seen on a scan with levels under 1600 that is why they won’t scan me.

 

[NightFlower]

So did they tell you to wait it out or come back ??

 

[Mummy23beauts]

So did they tell you to wait it out or come back ??

Have to go back on the 17th. She said no point doing bloods every 48hrs

 

[shaescott]

@Mummy23beauts it’s true that they generally wont see anything with hcg below 1600, but that doesn’t mean they should write you off completely. I think they should keep trending your hcg and if it keeps doubling they should scan you when you hit that threshold. Is it possible for you to find a new practice or are you stuck there due to NHS or something? I would 100% switch if possible. They’re treating you terribly.

 

[Deethehippy]

And what are they saying about the heavy bleeding? that in itself needs treatment, you probably need iron at the very least.

 

[elmum]

The nurse that I spoke to on the phone when I was bleeding has refused to accompany the dr. I’m glad because she told me to accept I’d miscarried and to stop testing.

That’s good. We only need positive energy. Thinking of you!

 

[Livvy]

My mind is blown… it seems like you’re being dismissed and you should definitely be getting checked out due to the bleeding at least.

 

[elmum]

I’m sorry @Mummy23beauts I can’t believe they diagnose you as a complete miscarriage when hcg is increasing. We are holding out hope and praying you have answers soon. Please lean on us as much as you need. You are not alone

 

[elmum]

I think I’m probably out this cycle because I O’d so dang early. But, started testing today anyway. I’m 9 or 10 dpo. Hopefully 9. Here’s my test today. This is at the five minute mark and there does appear to be something trying to peak through.

 

[Mummy23beauts]

I haven’t bled since Saturday and Saturday was spotting.. the heavy bleeding lasted 2days.. but the dr thinks that’s enough to show a complete miscarriage. I’ll test again on Saturday because tomorrow it’ll most likely still be high and then test every 2days until my next blood draw..
@shaescott this is the only unit in my area. The next is in a town over but won’t see me because I don’t live in that area.

 

[Mummy23beauts]

I don’t want to take away from anyones testing and bfp’s so I’ll be quiet for a while but I want to support you all still. Xx

 

[Deethehippy]

I don’t want to take away from anyones testing and bfp’s so I’ll be quiet for a while but I want to support you all still. Xx

You don’t have to be quiet, we are all here to help and support each other for when it is needed and you need it now.

 

[Livvy]

Elmum I think I can see something there. Definitely test again tomorrow!

 

[amantila]

The nurse that I spoke to on the phone when I was bleeding has refused to accompany the dr. I’m glad because she told me to accept I’d miscarried and to stop testing.

I’m glad the nurse refused to come in because it means she knows she was wrong and maybe she will learn to be more sensitive and cautious next time. But I’m sorry you had to deal with her and that she was too cowardly to apologize.