Hi Ladies....
Some of you new recruits probably don't know me very well. I was the 1st BFP on this thread after MC in feb. I have had nothing but worry through this pregnancy despite having a scan and seeing heartbeat at 7 wks. I started having a few hours break between eposides of throwing up at 8 wks and so convinced myself that I was going to find out at my 13wk NT scan that I had had another missed MC. I got a doppler at 8 wks and have used it every day and nothing. Confirming my worries.
But I just tried it again 5 mins ago and immediately heart a tiny little heartbeat racing away at a very healthy 137 bpm. I am not totally and utterly shocked and shaking. I was sure it had happened again.
I just needed to share this with someone as hubby working and nobody else knows about it yet and I have had a miserable depressing few months. I have struggle to acknowledge the pregnancy but I think I will have to try get my head round it now.
Just wanted to let you see that there is hope.... when the BFPs come through (which they will).......try hang on to hope and not get wrapped up in worry and anxiety like I have. Baby dust and love to you all x x x x x x x x
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No I didn't have AF. We tried straight away as doc said it was ok. I got this BFP 4 wks exactly after the day I started to bleed properly with the last MC which was 6+5 wks. I ovulated a little later at cd20 instead of cd14-17 which is normal for me.
I got the sonoline B from amazon. With the digital display. It cost about £42 but to be honest they go for not much less used on ebay. It didn't come with gel but I have used bio-oil instead as its supposed to be ok. Means I get daily dose to prevent stretchmarks too.
What stage are you at Cath? Oh I just saw on your ticker you are on CD2! FIngers crossed for you this month x x x
Thank you ladies.....I feel really relieved now the shock is wearing off!!!!
Cath.... I'm not sure if you can record actually on to it but I think you can plug into laptop and record? I think you can record up to 8 average heart rates and compare them but I will investigate.
Wriggler......I remember the weirdness of hoping the test will be BFN. Lots of love to you and too_scared x x x x x
Honest opinion please ladies............
my friend just txt me to tell me shes pregnant 8 weeks next wednesday, im being really happy over the txts and OH has suggested we go up there tonight to see them, problem is I dont want to go as i am still not over my mc even though it happened 4 weeks ago. When we told her and her OH about me being pregnant she didnt even stop washing the dishes and just mumbled congrats, i know they had been trying for a year to get preg so i can understand her being down, and i am being very happy for her but right now i think me going to see her will make me even more depressed. when i had my MC she txt me 5 days later to see if i was ok. Should I just shut up and be over my mc by now or is everyone else feeling the same? I dont think it helps that AF is here even though its good in a way as i know where my cycles are at now xxx
So ANOTHER BFN this morning assuming this for sure means no pregnancy this cycle. My temps are completely confusing though. Went down on cd 11 and 12 and then shot back up cd 13 and back down on 14 BUT bbt is confusing me because this mornings first temp was 97.26 and took it again right away without moving or anything and it was 97.71. WTH??? Supposed to get AF tomorrow feel its inevitable at this point and feeling the most down EVER. Just numb.
Im sorry to all of you that have gotten this same news, I pray that next month is your month. Our month. Please God.