Lucky thread

[cathgibbs]

Yeahexactly Bailey! Its the lying and just plain disrespectful!! Arghhh Men annoy the F out of me on times!! Lol @ Cupcake about the list but in all seriousness I DO hope its going on the list - write it up now whilst your angry ggrrrrrrrrrrr!!

Ohhh no the Gym is £17 a month - Bootcamp is £30 a month but we do stuff on certain months like the 1st September we are doing a 2 hour army assault course which Im really looking forward to do! I think ill only SS if something is out of the ordinary but in May I had no symptoms apart from boobs and it was a bfp!

Ahhhh Cupcake! Go home hun - it must be painful walking if hes pushing down low go home and lie on the settee and watch daytime tv hun xxx

 

[cupcake1981]

What made him think she was a lesbian lol? Thats not something thats easily confused is it!

And no i dont think men really do have brains!

 

[baileybubs]

Ahhh right I see! Well in that case £17 is cheap for a gym lol!
How often do you do bootcamp for that price then?
Yeah I don't blame you for trying not to SS.

I've put a film on called couples retreat about a couple who's marriage is on the ropes, should be interesting to watch, maybe I might learn something about how to cope when we keep arguing lol!

I've written my little list now. I've also wrote out everything I do in a day from when I get up at 5am so he can see why it's unfair that he does nothing around the house unless its his day off.

 

[cupcake1981]

Lol i just scared the same 2 people again walking downstairs to get chocolate with them! Haha! This is kinda fun! Although if it happens for realy they wont believe me will they!!

 

[baileybubs]

Honestly cupcake I think he just said that thinking it would make the situation better, and now he's dug himself into such a deep hole that he can't back out of it so he's just sticking to it.

He's just got home now so let's see lol!

 

[baileybubs]

Haha lol, that's why I didn't do an April fools with it cupcake, I was afraid people wouldn't believe me when it really happened lol!

 

[cathgibbs]

Cupcake your reminding me of the Friends where Pheobe keeps winding Rach and Monica up hahaha!!

Ohhhh great idea Bailey!! I bet he will be shocked!! Is that with Sarah /jessica Parker in? she kinda annoys me??

Well its Tues, thursd and sat and you can also go to running club and bike club with that - the extra things like army assault course is extra :-D yeah its that Easygym!? Part of the EasyJet family? Its suppose to be amazing apparently but its finding time to go as im up at 6am to go to work for 8.30 so i dont think i could get up any earlier lol xxx

 

[cupcake1981]

Good luck for your chat bailey!

I think ive seen that film, does it have Vince Vaughan in it and the girl that plays charlotte in SATC in?

Urgh sooooo bored!!!!!!

 

[cathgibbs]

you staying in work for the rest of the day now hun xxx

 

[cupcake1981]

May as well, will leave at 4:30 tho. Have managed to make about 3 hours work (faffing) consume my whole day!

 

[baileybubs]

Aw cupcake you should have let yourself go home early! I think you deffo should tomorrow, I hope they don't expect you to stay to the end of the day on your last day!

Ooh is it all orange inside this easy gym cath lol? I wonder if there's one of those near me coz £17 is a bargain!!

We had a chat. I gave him what I had written down. He says he gets it and he said before he even read it that he knew why I was so upset, and he said that he knows that he needs to make more effort blah blah blah. The usual stuff, but he then said he knows that it's just words and he keeps promising stuff and not coming through so he is just going to have to prove to me how much he loves me and cares. He also said he doesn't want to lose me and Emilia (I asked if he was only with me because of Emilia because if that was the case he shouldn't be, I said that even if we ever split up I would never deprive my daughter of her father, but he said no he loves me and that's why he's with me).
So we are ok now but I have told him that although I feel better he does need to prove it. He says he will because all he wants in life is to marry me and have more beautiful children.

 

[cupcake1981]

Aw bailey glad you had your talk, I hope he pulls his socks up and his actions show you that he means his words.

Well we finish at 3 tomorrow anyway so not a full day anyway. Just been to m & s and bought treats to take in. I bet ill cry!!

 

[baileybubs]

Omg just kill me now. Me and my big gob! Was talking to SIL an asking how everything is going, she said they will probably induce her no later than 38 weeks and I said "make sure you get the epidural, I wish I'd got it earlier coz it was horrible"
As if she wasn't worried enough I go and say that to her!! I said it coz I wish someone had said it to me before I was induced but I don't think she thought that way, I don't know if I upset her. I hope not, stupid woman that I am! Completely forgetting she's been induced before hadn't she?! Doh!!
I think I'm just so much more conscious of what I say to her since what happened to her daughter, but she talks about her and talks about her birth so I sometimes get the feeling she doesn't want to be tiptoed around coz she is proud of giving birth to her. She knows I mean well though I would never intentionally upset her, I just hope she didn't think anything of it. I hate to think she's gone back over the road now and is upset!!

 

[cupcake1981]

Oh Bailey i wouldn't worry, did she seem ok when she left?

 

[baileybubs]

Yeah I think so, I think I just blurted it out in a bit of an unnerving way! When I said "take the epidural, I wish I had sooner" she said "oh really?" Sounding quite shocked! I quickly followed up with "it's probably just me though I'm probably just a complete wuss" but I have read that it can be more intense with induction by a drip so women are advised to have epidural with it. I guess I was just trying to advise her and did in a bit of a blurty way rather than saying "I've read that it can be more intense etc etc" not just "take the epidural!"
We did carry on chatting after that but not sure if that will end up playing on her mind. She's a strong character though so I doubt it will have bothered her much, it's just me being paranoid!
I'll see them again tomorrow when they pick up their dog anyway so hopefully I'll see if she's ok then.

 

[cupcake1981]

I'm sure she will be fine Hun xx

Has df gone back to work now? X

 

[baileybubs]

Yeah he went back at 4.30.

What treats did you get from m&s Hun? Can you believe it's your last day tomorrow?

 

[cupcake1981]

I can't believe it's come so quick, it felt ages away and it's crept up quick! Well another girl that i sit next to is leaving tomo to, so she is bringing in savoury treats and me sweet, so some of those 2 for £4 treat tubs, cookies, yum Yums, choccy teacakes and iced buns! It's a big office so many treats needed!

Is Emilia in bed all settled?

 

[baileybubs]

Mmmmm they sound delish! I love iced buns!! Have you got any nice plans for your maternity then Hun?

Yeh she's been asleep since 6pm. Funny actually I went for a bath and then heard a knock on the door so I got out but they had gone, so I got back in the bath and then another knock! By the time I got there they had gone again so I started on my tea and MIL text saying it was them, could they come over! Could have killed MIL coz she knows I put Emilia to bed at that time, I was for once taking advantage of the fact she had fallen asleep so quickly lol!! Nevermind, I can have a bath tomorrow instead.

 

[cupcake1981]

Urgh how annoying I've no idea how you put up with inlaws over the road.

I have nothing planned at all Hun, it's quite sad really . Got all the baby washing and room organising to do next week and packing my bag....otherwise.....playing the waiting game....