Lucky thread

[baileybubs]

Lol yeah I bet he's feeling lower and lower as the days go by too! It's such a weird feeling! Aw I can't wait til he's here too, so exciting!

 

[cupcake1981]

He likes to have a good stretch and push his head down and feet into my ribs, ouch! I hope he's not really late, I don't want to wait another 6 weeks!

 

[baileybubs]

Fingers crossed you won't have to wait 6 weeks Hun. This last bit will feel like its really dragging and you will feel really fed up but just keep focusing on after the birth and finally holding lbcc. And don't forget you are allowed to feel frustrated and fed up, it's hard being heavily pregnant! You need to get dh waiting on you hand and foot now til baby comes lol!

Are you going in to work today?

How is everyone today? Everyone well?

I got up this morning to find a bunch of flowers, and a note saying sorry for being a crap fiancé etc etc, he says he'll try harder and be more supportive and he's also got me a bottle of wine in the fridge. Yes it's nice that he bought me the flowers and wine, but all I can think is "I'll believe it when I see it". Lets just see what time he bothers to get up today again?

 

[SATH]

Morning bailey. Ah glad df has at least tried now watch this spece hope he gets up and spends some time with his daughter. x

Temp rise again today.

Mrs d I miss you hurry home hope you've had a lovely hol. Must b testing time hope you are duffered xx

 

[cupcake1981]

Ah that's nice of him Baikey but actions speak louder than words done they.

I'm going in, but might leave early if I can think of an excuse!

 

[baileybubs]

Just say bad headache and lack of sleep Hun I'm sure they'll understand!

And that's my phrase of the week cupcake "actions speak louder than words" lol, told him I'm sick of hearing you say the word sorry or saying "you know I love you" prove it lol!

Sath yay for another temp rise!! Hope it stays that way and you don't get a temp drop!!

 

[cathgibbs]

Sath yay for temp rise!! Is ov earlier this cycle? Can you post the link to your chart?

Aww Bailey that is nice of him but like you said - actions speak louder than words hun!

Cupcake!! deffo make up an excuse hun!! im sat here bored shitless aswell i have literally nothing to do except look for florist supplies for my flowers

Temp rise this morning - need another 2 rises to confirm ov....... i do hate not using opks lol xxx

 

[cupcake1981]

Yeah I like that excuse, or I might use the one I left early with before when I came over all weird and dizzy and tired!

Ill be interested to see what time df gets up bailey!

Cath argh no opks, you must be dying to poas!

 

[baileybubs]

When was the last time you dtd cath? Fingers crossed for that temp rise again tomorrow then, I think temping is probably a better way of seeing when you ov but I'd still forget lol!
How long does the temp have to stay risen to indicate implantation?

He's still not up and it's 8.45......I am literally going to kill him!!! It's no good buying me flowers and wine when he can't even get up early enough to allow me to get dressed before he goes to work!
I'm starting to think that I should just go and wake him up. I know he's an adult and he should be able to get up out of bed without somebody making him get up, but I can see this argument escalating when I can just go and wake him then at least I can get dressed without rushing like an idiot because Emilia won't let me out of her sight!

 

[cathgibbs]

Hahaha cupcake yeah use that one!! Its pointless staying all day if you have nothing to do hun...

Bailey go upstairs and wake him up - tell him to get up and go and watch Emilia whilst you have a shower and get dressed etc!!

I think it has to stay elevated for 3 days hun for you to get crosshairs! CD 16 today we dtd CD8, 12 & 14 and will do it again tonight :-D xxx

 

[cupcake1981]

I'd bloody wake him up!!!

 

[baileybubs]

Are you thinking tomorrow will be O day then cath? Make sure you get him again tonight Hun. And have them legs in the air lol!!
Are you still using preseed?

Well he got up just after I posted on here, which is only 10 minutes earlier than he normally gets up. We are going to have a talk when he gets home on his break coz I've told him he makes me feel like he doesn't care. He says he'll be more supportive and try harder but it's just all words coz he never does it. Like you said cupcake actions speak louder than words. I love him to bits but he's making me feel like I'm doing this alone, the only thing he has sacrificed is his weekly pool match.
I have sacrificed my body, my social life, my sleep, and sometimes my sanity! She's worth it all of course and I love doing it for her, I just think that as both her parents we should both be making sacrifices to care for her.
Think I might write this down for later coz it never comes out so eloquently when I try to say I to him lol!!

Anyways I have been boring you all enough with all this rubbish between me and df!!

Are you working today cath? Any nice plans for the weekend?

Have you decided if you will be leaving early cupcake?

 

[cathgibbs]

No hun I think if i get my 3 temp rises it will put my cross hairs as today - I think? not 100% sure! Yep will do it tonight aswell :-D yep only used it on Tuesday but last night i had soooo much watery CM it actually cause a bit of irritation

No hun i totally get what you mean - its a joint decision to have a baby so it should be a joint thing when it comes to giving things up - df should use his head and stay in with Emilia a few nights so you can go out and catch up with friends i know his job is unsociable but the days hes off he could watch her because at the end of the day its his baby aswell as yours isnt it. what time is he on break?

Yeah in work hun although i have nothing to do Df wants to go out Sat but I dont know if i can be bothered xxx

 

[cupcake1981]

Yeah Baikey I'd do that for defo, right down all the things you are getting annoyed about,?why, how it all makes you feel. I can never be clear or objective in a discussion so notes would help me to!

I may do, my back is killing me so could use the work from home excuse x

 

[AmyB1978]

Cupcake, go home! Use the backache as an excuse and then enjoy the rest of,your day! Can't believe you are getting so close! Can't wait to see Zach, I love that name and hope it ends up being LBCC's name!

Bailey, you have every right to be pissedoff and DF needs to grow up and act like the man he is. He may be younger but he is a grown man and a father, he needs to act like it. I hope somehow you can get him to change, I'm so sorry you feel like you are in it alone. I have the support of my DH, we are in a routine where I do most baby stuff but he helps cook dinner when he gets off work and I am tending to a clingy Mama wanting baby. I definitely don't feel alone in it and already it can be terribly hard, this being a Mom thing!

Cath, so glad you got the testing done and that DF is being so,supportive, holding you up by your ankles, heehee! Also glad that they will refer you for any further testing, hopefully you won't need it! How are you feeling with boot camp? More power to you girl, I can't even imagine! How is wedding planning going?

Sath, fingers crossed this TWW, I have a feeling someone is gonna get a BFP this month, just not,sure who! How are you doing? How is your garden?

MrsD, we miss you! I hope you are having a good vacation and enjoying yourself. Your sailing away your first TWW! It is sooo good to have you back in the game!

Cheryl, I hope you and Leo are doing ok.

Emily and I are doing well, just busy. I stalk but rarely take time to post anymore.

 

[cathgibbs]

Amy!! How are you doing hun?? Hope your all well!! Any plans on TTC again??

Bootcamp is amazing hun i love it, I feel so much better after doing it but in the last 2 weeks I have put on about 9lbs which im not happy!! iv been eating healthy and working out but im just pilling on the pounds ggrrrrrrrr xxx

 

[baileybubs]

Amy hi hun! Glad you are doing well! Thanks for those words, I sometimes wonder if I am being unreasonable and its good to know I am not. Has Emily settled well back at home now?

Cath oooh so the tww begins we think! Yay! Got everything crossed!! I still think you are amazing to do boot camp lol!! I'm terrible at exercising, I used to love going to the gym but dont get chance now. Plus I dont think I can justify another monthly bill!!

Cupcake did you go home yet lol!!

I dont know why I make things worse for myself, but I had a quick look at this girls fb page, just to see whether she actually is that "fit" which I actually dont think she is (and if she was I would say so) and after him telling me "its only a joke she's a lesbian" guess what? Its clear from her facebook page that she's not! I'm not bothered if she's straight or gay, that was never the point of why I was upset, it was the disrespect anyway but it just proves again how easily he lies to me. Sigh!!! He seriously needs to grow up otherwise I may end up killing hum lol

 

[cathgibbs]

But why did he lie to say she was a lesbian?! God are men really that stupid!?!? Do they not know that us woman will look at the other womans page?!?! Jeez!!!! I would have done the exact same hun! it would constantly play on my mind until we had a massive barny about it!!

Yep I think so, i think i may be 1dpo!? Ahhh im debating whether to join the gym by work aswell but not sure i can jutify spending £60 a month on gym and bootcamp?! xxx

 

[cupcake1981]

Im still at work at the moment, wish i wasnt as my back is really sore and i keep getting cramps. I popped out at lunch with a couple of friends and scared them as they thought i was going into labour as lbcc was pushing down into my bits and i yelped in pain and couldnt walk for about half a minute! Haha, i was like, "its fine guys this happens all the time!". Lol!

Oh Bailey what are you going to do with DF, it goes from bad to worse doesnt it. I hope this latest lie is going on your list of things to bring up with him?

Amy lovely to hear from you chick! Sorry you dont have time to post at the moment, you are missed tho. How is Emily, im sure i saw some puctures of her standing up on FB? clever girl!!

 

[baileybubs]

£60 a month??! What gym is it lol!! Mines £25 a month which isn't a lot I suppose. I might see if its a membership you can cancel if needed coz df's isn't, it's a year long contract, but if I join and find we can't afford it at least if I can cancel it that would be ok (df uses a different gym to me).
Are you going to allow symptom spotting or are you trying not to? It's so hard not to isn't it?!

He's sticking to his story that he thought she was a lesbian. If he is lying he probably thought that by saying she was a lesbian I wouldn't feel as bad about it, coz he keeps saying that nothing would happen with another woman etc he loves me. He's totally missing the point of why I'm annoyed! I don't care about other women, I know he wouldn't cheat it's just the whole disrespect thing, that I have just had his baby and am trying to lose weight following being pregnant and he's there complimenting another girl. Sometimes I wonder if men have brains at all lol!!
Speaking of losing weight though I have lost 2lb this week even with having 2 bad days where I drank wine yay! Lol