Lucky thread

[baileybubs]

Lol or maybe df doesn't bring the nieces and nephews up to wake me up when I'm in bed espero, hopefully once we move this kind of thing will stop lol!

Hmmm where is O for you Hun? Bet your oh is loving all this bding lol!

 

[MrsDuck]

Do you know where they are moving? It's nowhere near your new place is it

Hi espero at least with all this bding there should be lots if spermies waiting for the egg when it does arrive

 

[cupcake1981]

Bailey Zach is ok today, been sleeping mostly. We had an awful night with him last night, but tonight he went down in our room at about 8 and is still sound asleep now, I'm about to go join him!

When did Emilia first smile bailey? I've seen smiles from Zach but can't be sure they weren't wind! Did Emilia have wonky eyes to begin with to? Zachs eyes seem crossed lots of the time? He also has a flat head on one side and a lump on the other from just sleeping in ibe side of his head. I literally have a whole list for the 6 week check on Wedneday! He is also going bald on just one side of his head, the side he doesn't sleep on weirdly enough, you'd think he'd be bald where his hair rubs the sheet!

Mrs d u bet you sell your house super quick. Could you not sell it yourself being you are an estate agent or is that against fsa rules?

 

[baileybubs]

No nowhere near us thankfully lol!

Well I was gonna stay up and wait for df but I'm too tired, might just go to bed

 

[baileybubs]

It was a while before she smiled properly cupcake, I kept saying that I thought she should have been smiling already but once she started she wouldn't stop lol! Must have been at least 12 weeks I think.
She has flat head still too coz she still sleeps on her back. And she crossed her eyes more when she's trying to look at something close. She also still has these really rapid movements of her eyes when she's trying to focus, that's starting to worry me a little coz I would have thought she'd have outgrown that by now.

 

[baileybubs]

Is Zach sleeping well once he goes down now then?

 

[MrsDuck]

Aw windy smiles, so cute

I could, but work would charge me more than what another company is charging us so I'm going to leave them to it

How often do you have check ups after baby is born?

 

[MrsDuck]

Yay for zach going down easily tonight, I hope you get a good nights sleep

 

[cupcake1981]

Bailey last week he was going 7 hours after going down at this time. Usually once he's asleep he's asleep.....and he's still asleep. Wonder what time he'll wake me tonight.

12 weeks ok I won't worry yet. The HV said 6-8 weeks so I'm just being unpatient and have to also remember he was a week early! Have you mentioned to your HV about her eyes? Sure it's nothing to worry about

Oh that's annoying mrs d, you'd think they'd give you employee discount!

 

[baileybubs]

We haven't seen the HV since she was 8 weeks old cupcake! She sent me a letter at 12 weeks saying that if I wanted her to she could come for another visit but if I felt all was ok she would contact me again when she's 7 months and any issues I could drop in any Wednesday at a children's centre lol! It worries me things like that though (not for me or Emilia) but that they don't have a system of actually checking a child is ok. Emilia hasn't been seen by a health professional since she was 12 weeks and had her last jabs. That's over 3 months ago. Good job I'm a good mum! But it's easy to see how some of these neglected children end up falling through the cracks isn't it?

Aw he's doing so well sleeping for 7 hours! Does he just feed then go back to sleep? Coz that's good too, I used to love Emilia doing that, she'd then sleep til 9-10am sometimes!

 

[MrsDuck]

Nope no discount

 

[baileybubs]

Mrs d I think it all depends on people's situation on how often baby has a check up after being born, but the minimum is about 3 times in first few weeks then possibly again at 12 weeks (usually with the last jabs) and again at around 7 months or so I think.

 

[MrsDuck]

Bailey that's a bit scary, you can see how babies getting mistreated goes unseen

I really hope I have a good sleeper

 

[MrsDuck]

I thought you were visited quite often and that you had to keep taking them to get weighed

 

[baileybubs]

Nope. Emilia was only weighed three times after she was born. Once in the first week to make sure she was back up to birth weight, once at about 4 weeks and again at about 8 weeks I think. And that was it. I dunno, maybe that's just in my area though? Who knows.

Did you hear about that little lad who was starved to death and died aged 2 but was only found by police in his cot 2 years later, his mum still living there and clearly not in a fit mental state. That kind of thing definately worries me, that no one from a professional level like GP or HV noticed that this child hadn't been seen in 2 years. It's an awful story

 

[baileybubs]

And mrs d I think our next one will be a challenging sleeper. Bound to be after having Emilia, she may be demanding when she's awake and I have a lot of trouble with her naps but once she's asleep for the night she's usually pretty good. I reckon baby number two will be the opposite lol!

 

[cupcake1981]

I always find it astounding when these abused children are at school and no one had picked it up there. Like that little Daniel, what a beautiful little boy, completely let down by everyone. So heartbreaking.

Well Mr Zach went to bed at 8, woke at 11 and hubby did that feed as he was up still, then slept til 5:30! He stirs and is noisy all night but we let him settle himself as he's not too bothered about a dummy and generally just spits it out anyway!!

 

[MrsDuck]

I know, it's awful

Look at you talking about baby number 2 bailey haha, there is no way you are going to wait until jan haha

Yay for a good nights sleep, zach seems to be settling into a good sleep routine

Afm just sat waiting for the agents. It's such an awful day, they are going to have to use our pics, surely???

I love it when the owners give me their own pics because it means they aren't going to say 'I don't like that one'

 

[MrsDuck]

God it's quiet on here today

 

[SATH]

Mrs d OMG your a peach wow its going so fast. Its been horrible here all day dark and pouring down yuck! Hope agents all measure up bet you were checking them? Have you found house you like?

Cupcake sounds like you had a good sleep last night. What a good little boy. What have you been up today?

Bailey i agree with mrs d if you hold out till jan i'll be amazed i reckon new house and new bump!

Had a lovely weekend. Loved the dog walking got to walk 3 dogs in total 2 collie and 1 springer spaniel cross who i fell in love with - i want him! Had my latest AMH result your not gonna believe its gone up last year it was 1.9 now its 4.6 wow. Acupuncture and herbs have obviously been doing something. No results on oh yet.