Of course bumpblues, I think it's important we stay positive and if that means being realistic and looking at why a bfn can be a good thing then we can't go wrong! After all, we only have a 20% chance of catching the egg even if we do everything as we should so we shouldn't feel too depressed about it! (my mood swings are getting quite extreme aren't they, yesterday I was a right miserable sod and now I'm almost hyper lol!)
And I think it's great what you are doing with the radio, I think it's awful how taboo miscarriage is and I think everyone needs I hear more about it and the tests. Its so unfair that for the sake of some tests at the start of pregnancy we could possibly avoid some miscarriages. And even for those the cant be avoided, people need to e more aware of how heartbreaking it is and not treat it like its just a flu bug or something. My workmate had had 4 mc's but she knew beforehand that it was possible a she has chromosomal translocation and her mum had 2 mc's before she had her. It still doesn't stop her being devastated each time and being hurt seeing other women sailing through pregnancy. And people seem to think we can just "get over it" and we can't, we lost out babies, our future, and people need to treat women who miscarry with more compassion an empathy.
Oooh I went on a proper mini rant there sorry!! I just get so annoyed at how easily people forget what we've been through or don't give us enough credit for being as strong as we are!
I hope O gets here soon! Happy BD! And I hope you get your eggy and I hear about your BFP near the end of this month! Are you doing anything different this month?
Of course bumpblues, I think it's important we stay positive and if that means being realistic and looking at why a bfn can be a good thing then we can't go wrong! After all, we only have a 20% chance of catching the egg even if we do everything as we should so we shouldn't feel too depressed about it! (my mood swings are getting quite extreme aren't they, yesterday I was a right miserable sod and now I'm almost hyper lol!)
And I think it's great what you are doing with the radio, I think it's awful how taboo miscarriage is and I think everyone needs I hear more about it and the tests. Its so unfair that for the sake of some tests at the start of pregnancy we could possibly avoid some miscarriages. And even for those the cant be avoided, people need to e more aware of how heartbreaking it is and not treat it like its just a flu bug or something. My workmate had had 4 mc's but she knew beforehand that it was possible a she has chromosomal translocation and her mum had 2 mc's before she had her. It still doesn't stop her being devastated each time and being hurt seeing other women sailing through pregnancy. And people seem to think we can just "get over it" and we can't, we lost out babies, our future, and people need to treat women who miscarry with more compassion an empathy.
Oooh I went on a proper mini rant there sorry!! I just get so annoyed at how easily people forget what we've been through or don't give us enough credit for being as strong as we are!
Of course bumpblues, I think it's important we stay positive and if that means being realistic and looking at why a bfn can be a good thing then we can't go wrong! After all, we only have a 20% chance of catching the egg even if we do everything as we should so we shouldn't feel too depressed about it! (my mood swings are getting quite extreme aren't they, yesterday I was a right miserable sod and now I'm almost hyper lol!)
And I think it's great what you are doing with the radio, I think it's awful how taboo miscarriage is and I think everyone needs I hear more about it and the tests. Its so unfair that for the sake of some tests at the start of pregnancy we could possibly avoid some miscarriages. And even for those the cant be avoided, people need to e more aware of how heartbreaking it is and not treat it like its just a flu bug or something. My workmate had had 4 mc's but she knew beforehand that it was possible a she has chromosomal translocation and her mum had 2 mc's before she had her. It still doesn't stop her being devastated each time and being hurt seeing other women sailing through pregnancy. And people seem to think we can just "get over it" and we can't, we lost out babies, our future, and people need to treat women who miscarry with more compassion an empathy.
Oooh I went on a proper mini rant there sorry!! I just get so annoyed at how easily people forget what we've been through or don't give us enough credit for being as strong as we are!
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How are you doing hun....hope you got the eggy this time.
I am on CD17 and sure I ovulated this week and we are also hoping we caught the eggy.
Bump: Great thing you are doing on the radio!
Cheryl: Glad you got a referral...praying things go well for ya hun.
MrsDuck: I am so sorry to hear about the thyroid. I really hope things get resolved soon so you can get back to TTC... unless you are already preggo That would be a wonderful news
Tawn: stupid AF eh! Sorry hun
Cath & Wiggler: Once again congrats on the amazing news!!! You ladies give us hope and for sure praying more roll in this June!!