done my digi this AM!! was sooooo nervous waiting for those words to pop up!! YAY!!! xxx
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Well ladies, thanks for the support but that is me out this month. AF is here as I expected her to be. Looking at my calender, I "guessed" my O day this cycle exactly correct if we are going by a 14 day LP. So that is something then!
At least DH believes me when I say I know my body now lol (we made a bet about when the witch would show up cause he didn't believe me that I could know those things--and I said between last night and tonight). Good luck to everyone else who is still in the TWW!
Lol! Dh is out and I'm working, tonight believe me I will! We dtd weds pm so hopefully some there if it pops
Well not good news over here I'm afraid been back to the hospital for my test results on my thyroid and on a scale of 1-5 with 5 meaning it is definitely cancerous I am 3 so I'm having to have some or all of it taken out which has a knock on affect with everything else.
I'm not allowed to get pg now till after the op. however the witch still hasn't appeared so who knows??
Lol, it just shows how everyone's body is different. I've decided that I'm going to make a list of things I can do each month if I find out I am not pg, and then if I get a bfn then I can always look at the bright side of the things I can do! This month it's my best friends birthday so I can have a drink (or two or three) at his party at the end of the month coz I should have AF by then if I've not caught the eggy! And now I'm going to be whistling "always look on the bright side of life" all day grrr lol!!!
of course bumpblues, i think it's important we stay positive and if that means being realistic and looking at why a bfn can be a good thing then we can't go wrong! After all, we only have a 20% chance of catching the egg even if we do everything as we should so we shouldn't feel too depressed about it! (my mood swings are getting quite extreme aren't they, yesterday i was a right miserable sod and now i'm almost hyper lol!)
and i think it's great what you are doing with the radio, i think it's awful how taboo miscarriage is and i think everyone needs i hear more about it and the tests. Its so unfair that for the sake of some tests at the start of pregnancy we could possibly avoid some miscarriages. And even for those the cant be avoided, people need to e more aware of how heartbreaking it is and not treat it like its just a flu bug or something. My workmate had had 4 mc's but she knew beforehand that it was possible a she has chromosomal translocation and her mum had 2 mc's before she had her. It still doesn't stop her being devastated each time and being hurt seeing other women sailing through pregnancy. And people seem to think we can just "get over it" and we can't, we lost out babies, our future, and people need to treat women who miscarry with more compassion an empathy.
Oooh i went on a proper mini rant there sorry!! I just get so annoyed at how easily people forget what we've been through or don't give us enough credit for being as strong as we are!