Lucky thread

[Bumpblues82]

Dani I have hypothyroidism and they told me it may have caused my mcs but had 2 since and my levels were spot on dud they say what your level was?

 

[Dani Rose]

They didn't tell me levels, did another blood draw today.

DH says no more TTC

 

[Bumpblues82]

why not? if you get your levels back to normal theres no reason not to when i had mine discovered i was really ill with it sleeping all the time no periods and just felt poop but about 6 weeks after i started taking tablets and my levels were normal i was fine and back to my old self they test u in preg for your thyroid early on if u have an existing problem with it and tbf for the sake of taking one tiny tabley every day you get frr prescriptions!! some times when preg they increse your dose for a while but ive never needed mine doing my specialist said that my levels were as good as they could poss be for pregnancy.. all i can suggest is get your meds make sure u take em and try again when your level is normal.. i thought my delayed period this month was cause i forgot to take a few tablets last month but it wasnt.. it takes about 14 days without any thyroid meds before you would notice anything theres no reason you cant go on to having a baby even with the thyroid prob xxx

 

[Dani Rose]

He didn't really want 3 anyway was doing it for me, now says its all too much for him. It isn't as easy as just a med for me as my Ra is getting worse and worse, now this on top. It is all going against me. I will need the meds but on top of all my other ones, side effects and risks he is too scared which I ustand. I am now high risk for cardiac issues as there are history in my family so not just the thyroid issue for me

 

[too_scared]

tawn, i think you can supplement with evening primrose oil. i don't know the details but i know a lot of ladies on another thread i am on use it. maybe you could google it? sorry i am not more help.

cath, i am so sorry to hear of your loss. it sounds like you are dealing with it well, so far. when i had my second loss i thought i was doing well too, but the sadness hit me a few weeks later. i hope you don't get sad like that later.

dani, i already said this, but i am so sorry.

i hope you are all well.

 

[baileybubs]

Dani and Cath - so sorry you are both having such bad days at hospital!! Thinking of you both. And it is terrible that the nhs thinks it a good idea to have the EPAU within the maternity ward!!! People only go to EPAU if there is a problem, so why place it next to all the happily expecting ladies?!! I got so upset everytime I had to go there. And I was so sad when I left last time and saw two heavily pregnant ladies outside laughing together, rubbing their bumps and smoking away!!! Big hugs to you both xxxxxxxx

Nessah - I am going insane!!! I'm only 7dpo and I am driving myself crazy!! Need to test!! But I didn't this morning, I will prob test tomorrow though lol!!

I'm actually feeling awful today. I had a massive argument again with my oh......think the stress of the mc and ttc is taking its toll. I want to cry. I told him I didn't want to marry him and that he'd be a terrible dad coz he's selfish!!!!! How awful am I???? I am upset because he keeps spending money and he won't try to quit smoking. I feel like I have to organise everything in our lives and he doesn't take any repsonsibility. I think I'm scared of getting married again
And now I'm worried that it's not the right time to ttc

 

[Bumpblues82]

ah dani maybe when you get sorted and stuff you can rethink trying again? get as much advice off docs n stuff xx

 

[Bumpblues82]

bailey- me and my oh were like that after the 5th loss i had counceling and it did the trick.. xx

 

[baileybubs]

He's just text me (he's at work) saying he will try harder and we can do this. And that he doesn't want to lose the most beautiful girl in the world!! Made me cry more lol!! He said that he's scared too though, and I don't think I've ever thought about how scared he might feel about it all.

 

[Bumpblues82]

awww bless xxx

i dunno what im gonna do if this pregnancy doesnt work out :/ i almost gave up last time and i dunno when to stop trying as ive had 6 losses and theres obv something stopping me having a baby i just hope the doc i went to see was right and the prgesterone works.. the only symptom i have is tiredness :/ felt a bit queasy on and off just trying not to think about it!

 

[cathgibbs]

Dani dont you have to wait 3 months before ttc after an ectopic anyway? They don't want to give me the jab as its not very nice and its expensive.......cheers nhs!
Hun I'm so sorry dh doesn't want to try again I can understand both your points hun maybe both of you go to your doctor and get some.advise etc


Awwww Bailey that's so sweet,ttc pits an awful lot of pressure on couples I'm glad you've kissed and made up chick xxx

 

[Tawn]

Omg, Dani and Cath, I am so sorry you two are having such tough days at hospital!

Cath you don't necessarily have to wait at all after an ectopic. My doctors wanted 1 AF for dating reasons, but all 3 doctors I saw said no reason to wait other than that.

Dani, what sh*tty news! I am so sorry hun. Maybe you can take care of your health, get that all on track and then review your ttc decision?

Tooscared, thanks for the suggestion! It is so nice to see you back on here. How are you doing hun? Are you still ttc or on a break?

Bailey, I think everyone is right that ttc puts so much strain on a relationship. DH was amazing during the mc but I have found we have to stop ourselves from being short with each other due to the stress of trying to get pregnant again on top of all the other stress. I am sure everything will cool down, totally normal to fight, and that you guys will sort it out. It was very sweet of you OH to send you that text, I say take the olive branch and know that at least he is willing to try!

AFM, I am still waiting on O. I just called and made an appt for a smear test on Monday as I am worried that I have a case of bv right now (UGHHHHHHH) which I have gotten once in the past and can cause problems with TTC and is linked to ectopics---yeah good times. Oh well, hopefully I am wrong or if I do some antibiotics can sort it out quickly.

 

[fletch_W]

Wiggler, happy birthday hun! Hope your evening starts looking up

Dani, I'm so sorry hun, don't know WHAT was up with all those ICs! Really holding out hope that you aren't out yet though!

Poppy, so sorry to hear you are worrying about the babe right now I am sure everything is going just fine and you are just moving into 2nd Tri symptoms now. Fx'd for you that the days pass quickly until your next scan!

Marlee, how are you feeling hun? Nice to see you back here every now and again! I love hearing from our preggo ladies

Cath--mine is from my name too lol! Veryyyy creative! My name is Tanya, but family/friends/DH have always called me "Tawn" for short

Never in my life have i met another Tanya. That's my name too! but my nickname is Tan xx

 

[too_scared]

thanks Tawn

i'm good, thanks. we are ttc again. we got the go ahead from my dr - he said we didn't have to wait like the specialist said - so right now i am 3 dpo and i have my fingers crossed tightly that this is our forever baby.

i have my fingers crossed for you that you ov soon and catch that eggie!!

sticky to you all!

 

[fletch_W]

ladies im so sorry to hear youre all going through tough times. i wish i could give you all a big hug i pray for all the ladies in this thread daily so will carry on for sure. i wish there was more i could say.

 

[cathgibbs]

Too scared & fletch I hope this is your cycle ladies!!!!

Ohhhh I haven't heard that tawn that's interesting! I think I night wait tho as I really want my body back to normal I don't think I could cope with another mc or ectopic,I'm afraid now that they will have to operate xxx

 

[Tawn]

Well Fletch, I am happy to be your first Tanya!

The reason I am "Tawn" instead of "Tan" is I am originally from the US (married a Brit and living in the UK) so the accent makes the first "a" different. There was a Tanya at work and I found it so hard to say "Tan-ya" instead of "Tawn-ya" when talking to her! lol

 

[cathgibbs]

Well Fletch, I am happy to be your first Tanya!

The reason I am "Tawn" instead of "Tan" is I am originally from the US (married a Brit and living in the UK) so the accent makes the first "a" different. There was a Tanya at work and I found it so hard to say "Tan-ya" instead of "Tawn-ya" when talking to her! lol

I was just saying tanya out loud to myself in an English and American accent,thank god I'm on my own xxx

 

[cathgibbs]

Omg, Dani and Cath, I am so sorry you two are having such tough days at hospital!

Cath you don't necessarily have to wait at all after an ectopic. My doctors wanted 1 AF for dating reasons, but all 3 doctors I saw said no reason to wait other than that.

Dani, what sh*tty news! I am so sorry hun. Maybe you can take care of your health, get that all on track and then review your ttc decision?

Tooscared, thanks for the suggestion! It is so nice to see you back on here. How are you doing hun? Are you still ttc or on a break?

Bailey, I think everyone is right that ttc puts so much strain on a relationship. DH was amazing during the mc but I have found we have to stop ourselves from being short with each other due to the stress of trying to get pregnant again on top of all the other stress. I am sure everything will cool down, totally normal to fight, and that you guys will sort it out. It was very sweet of you OH to send you that text, I say take the olive branch and know that at least he is willing to try!

AFM, I am still waiting on O. I just called and made an appt for a smear test on Monday as I am worried that I have a case of bv right now (UGHHHHHHH) which I have gotten once in the past and can cause problems with TTC and is linked to ectopics---yeah good times. Oh well, hopefully I am wrong or if I do some antibiotics can sort it out quickly.

sorry hun what does bv mean? I said to oh I'm going for a check up after all this,just to ensure I have no infection or uti or something xxx

 

[Tawn]

BV is bacterial vaginosis. It's basically when the vaginal PH and bacterial flora gets off balance. Basically, the "bad" bacteria inside begin to multiply and outnumber the "good" bacteria which is always present. It's pretty common, 1 in 3 women get it at least once, and luckily I had very few symptoms when I had it once before, but it is annoying.

I just decided to have a smear test cause I am due for one anyway and they can test for BV at the same time. That way, if a bad ph balance right now is killing off spermies, I can get it sorted asap for next month ttc.