What's giving birth like? Is it even at all manageable without an epidural?
YES!! It is totally manageable.... ofcourse it's not nice, but I did it!
We do have gas & air here in the UK though, which is great!!! (it's like laughing gas with oxygen and it kind of makes you feel like you're tipsy or drunk
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My labour wasn't the easiest, don't wanna scare anyone but my son was 13 days late, first contraction started on thursday morning 9am and I didn't have him until sunday evening 7.36pm (that's about 82 hrs from the first contractions). He did have his hand on his face though which was probably why it took so long and it took me a while to push him out! I had to have a drip to get my contractions going again cause they kind of slowed down after I'd been pushing for a while.
But I'd say don't worry about giving birth just yet... you have plenty of time to enjoy your pregnancy first and then start thinking about labour. I didn't think about it until I was about 38 weeks pregnant and I admit, I did ask my husband if we could rewind time and just not get pregnant... cause it was getting a bit too real that I was actually going to have to push him out!!
Anyway I always used to think: there are SO many people in the world that have done it, so I can do it too!! And it also helps to think of a person you know that has given birth but you don't think has a very high pain threshold....
Just got back from the hospital, I asked the nurse at my surgery if I could get an extra bloodtest done and she had to lie to get me the blood test... she wrote down that I had intermittent bleeding and therefore they wanted me to have the Beta HCG done! Hope I didn't jynx it by her writing that down!!!
So should get the results from my doctor within a week! (can't believe I have to wait that long!! Might ring them on friday and see what they say). Think it's the only blood test I'm gonna get though....