MARCH 2014 Monkeys! - Please join if you're due in March 2014

[wannabubba#4]

I was just looking at this video someone posted earlier this week about how to find baby's hb with a doppler.... then I saw a video on the right (in the related/suggested video's) that was called: Orgasm during childbirth!! I was like:
I don't think that's possible!!

Lol -wouldn't it be good if it was like that haha Or maybe a tad more embarrassing -if that is possible haha??

I'm really not at all..... I actually don't think we will. I just don't feel like dealing with it yet

I would just keep it to yourselves for the time being then - they have to find out eventually but if you feel they will cause chaos and make you stress then don't tell them xx

 

[Fixsohn]

I feel the same way about food and sex these days, dont want either until I start eating/DTD and then I am like yumm this is so good!! Thankfully nausea is getting less frequent lately though, woohooo! But having sex still scares me because there is always a bit of pink when I wipe afterwards

 

[LisK]

NT scan today in three hours! Fingers and toes crossed!

 

[J_Lynn]

We have 3 days until we can "announce" it to everyone that were pregnant - but now that the time is here, I really don't want to. Like, at all. I don't want to deal with the drama and bullshit it's going to cause from his kids and his exwife. It's just going to be chaos for me and I don't want to deal with it. I wish I just never had to let any of them know I was pregnant

Do you have to?

His daughter is going to eventually notice there's a baby around and that I'm huge. lol She's 12, so it's not something I can hide. Luckily, the rude punk 14 year old doesn't live with us (her mother told her that she doesn't have to listen to her father and doesn't have to live with him if she doesn't want to - she wanted to go have sex and skip school and drink, since we absolutely don't condone that she moved in with her mother because she promotes sex and drugs and not going to school. SHe doesn't want her kids being anything in their life, because God forbid that would make someone better off in life than her loser self ..... she's so disgusting) - she's not even allowed near me, I told him if she ever decides she wants to see him again it will be away from this house because she and her lies aren't welcome in this home. BUT, as soon as my 12 year old SD find out, she will tell her mom before the whole statement of "I'm pregnant" comes out of our mouths. Her mother has made my life hell - 29 police reports, harassment charges, and being told 'They have a custody agreement, so we cannot help you - you'll have to deal with it until they're 18 unless he wants to go back for full custody and have her rights taken away' (he's already primary custodial parent) - they can't even so much as enforce tresspassing laws, so they literally said she can come and just sit in our driveway and stare at us if she wants, and there is nothing we can do about it. She's INSANE. We had to elope instead of having our wedding because she vowed to destroy our day, and she's insane so when she says stuff like that - she's not joking. And she told the girls that if I ever got pregnant their dad would hate them and the best thing they could do is hope the baby dies if I ever get pregnant because their lives would be over.

Well, she's managed to convince one and pollute her brain over the years - but the 12 year old, while she wants a little brother or sister, still is a spy for her mother because she's been programmed that way by that evil woman over the last 7 years. If I go to the bathroom 6 times a day, she wants to know about it. It's that bad.

So that's why I am not wanting to tell anyone, but clearly - it's going to happen. I'm just delaying the inevitable - so it's like a band-aid, I may as well just pull it off and get the pain over with as quickly as possible. At least I have my hubby - he hates her more than I ever could and he won't put up with her pulling any shit, but the fact is still that she's going to try and I'm just not excited for it at all It really hit me yesterday that this is going to happen and it is going to be such a wonderful time to everyone. Except me, for the hell I have to deal with regards to his kids and exwife. It's going to be rough. Very rough.

 

[J_Lynn]

I was just looking at this video someone posted earlier this week about how to find baby's hb with a doppler.... then I saw a video on the right (in the related/suggested video's) that was called: Orgasm during childbirth!! I was like:
I don't think that's possible!!

Lol -wouldn't it be good if it was like that haha Or maybe a tad more embarrassing -if that is possible haha??

I'm really not at all..... I actually don't think we will. I just don't feel like dealing with it yet

I would just keep it to yourselves for the time being then - they have to find out eventually but if you feel they will cause chaos and make you stress then don't tell them xx

I think I want to do that .... I could easily hide it for another month or so at least I'm sure. It's pretty much up to what hubby wants to do. I almost feel like a bad mom for not wanting to shout it from the rooftop, like I'm making the baby think I'm not proud of him/her LOL

 

[ClaireJ23]

Sounds like you have a bad situation there and it's such as shame that it's affecting your own enjoyment of your pregnancy as you cannot relax about sharing your news.

I'm hiding it as long as possible from my in laws as they were unbearable after my daughter was born and now are not speaking to my OH as they told him not to marry me and well we're getting married on 27th August and they have decided not to come. So, no, I'm not looking forward to them finding out as I doubt they will have anything positive to say.

 

[wannabubba#4]

JLynn -so sorry you are going through this -what a horrid woman she sounds like. Just wanted to send you love and hugs and hope she doesn't tarnish your joy and happiness too much. At the end of the day, you are going to have a gorgeous little boy or girl to love and cherish, who has no part of that woman's life and she is just jealous that you are so happy and she is obviously a crabby unhappy bitch lol xxxx

 

[BaniVani]

I feel the same way about food and sex these days, dont want either until I start eating/DTD and then I am like yumm this is so good!!

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You said it clearly!!!!! This is exactly how I am feeling lately! With My hubby gives me those---yeah baby I'm in the mood signals--- I wish I could become invisible!

 

[donnarobinson]

Omg girls 4 the 1st time in weeks I've ate a meal. Not all of it bt I enjioyed it . Its stayed down as well. Only chips sasuage n curry sauce from the chip shop bt mmmm ! so proud lol x

 

[Eltjuh]

JLynn -so sorry you are going through this -what a horrid woman she sounds like. Just wanted to send you love and hugs and hope she doesn't tarnish your joy and happiness too much. At the end of the day, you are going to have a gorgeous little boy or girl to love and cherish, who has no part of that woman's life and she is just jealous that you are so happy and she is obviously a crabby unhappy bitch lol xxxx

Hey You! How come your ticker says 11+1??? We're only 11 today!!

 

[wannabubba#4]

JLynn -so sorry you are going through this -what a horrid woman she sounds like. Just wanted to send you love and hugs and hope she doesn't tarnish your joy and happiness too much. At the end of the day, you are going to have a gorgeous little boy or girl to love and cherish, who has no part of that woman's life and she is just jealous that you are so happy and she is obviously a crabby unhappy bitch lol xxxx

Hey You! How come your ticker says 11+1??? We're only 11 today!!

My midwife gave me 6th March EDD going by O date lol -will change by scan again too I reckon xx

 

[BaniVani]

Blessedbaby:"Sounds like you just described me. Im also having sexual dreams and no sex drive whatsoever. My poor DH "

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It's almost as though our body is telling us,"Look lady, you're too exhausted or nauseous during the day so, let's get it over with while you're sleeping." Problem is, it doesn't float over into my husbands dreams.....I'm thinking I should play porno movies ever quite softly while he's sleeping. Maybe he'll have nice dreams too

 

[Eltjuh]

JLynn -so sorry you are going through this -what a horrid woman she sounds like. Just wanted to send you love and hugs and hope she doesn't tarnish your joy and happiness too much. At the end of the day, you are going to have a gorgeous little boy or girl to love and cherish, who has no part of that woman's life and she is just jealous that you are so happy and she is obviously a crabby unhappy bitch lol xxxx

Hey You! How come your ticker says 11+1??? We're only 11 today!!

My midwife gave me 6th March EDD going by O date lol -will change by scan again too I reckon xx

Ahhh... that's why then!! I wonder if my date is gonna change when I have my scan... I've always O'd quite late (cd20-ish) and had a 32-ish day cycle... but with my son the scan measured exactly the same as my lmp.... Hence the reason I'm going with lmp for now, instead of going by O date - eventhough I know that's usually more accurate!

 

[LaDY]

Hey...hope you are all well!

Eltjuh...could you change my due date to 18th March (scan showed I was a couple of days behind!) and also could I add my scan date please!...4th September! Thanks xx

 

[AllisMommy]

Would you girls believe I have just been too sick to even come online!?
I literally have been throwing up so badly, I broke vessels around my face and on my cheeks!!!
Awful
They prescribed zofran but it constipated me to where I couldn't go for almost a week making me feel bloated and more nauseous. It's awful girls!!
Anyway, I'm feeling ok, happy it's the weekend, don't think I could have handled another day at work this week !!
How is everyone else doing!?

 

[LisK]

It went well. The NT measurements were all good and baby is a few days ahead at 12+3. He/She was jumping all over the place so we got a very long scan as the tech tried to get all the measurements only for the baby to flip away. Here's a pic!

https://christineandianwedding.com/11weeks6days3.jpg

 

[Nikkilewis14]

Beautiful scan!

Sorry ur so ill alli!

 

[LisK]

Would you girls believe I have just been too sick to even come online!?
I literally have been throwing up so badly, I broke vessels around my face and on my cheeks!!!
Awful
They prescribed zofran but it constipated me to where I couldn't go for almost a week making me feel bloated and more nauseous. It's awful girls!!
Anyway, I'm feeling ok, happy it's the weekend, don't think I could have handled another day at work this week !!
How is everyone else doing!?

Ugh that sounds awful. Another drug you might look into is Promethazine (Phenergan). I have heard good things about it for combating vomiting - makes you sleepy though.

 

[Eltjuh]

Surprised you mentioned promethazine... that's a anti-histamine right?? Hubby is taking them for his sleeping...(not that it works very well for him!)
But I guess if it works for nausea then it's worth a try!! Hope you feel better soon Allismommy!!

LisK your scan looks great!! I can't wait for mine!! Friday!! Only 6 sleeps!! (plus whatever naps )

 

[donnarobinson]

Scan is lovely hun 3 days til mine can't wait x my son slept well last nite . I'm stil tired tho cuz wen I wake it takes me ages to get bk2 sleep. I was sickk last nite to after eating sweets x