I want to do a gender reveal this time. We never really did that with either of my boys, but since this is going to be our last baby and likely the last grandchild on both sides, I want to do something fun. I thought about doing the cake thing and having the baker dye the cake pink or blue inside. I'm not set on it yet though.
I know how you feel about connecting with baby, gardenofedens. I've had trouble too, mostly because throughout the first several weeks, I was scared to death I'd have another miscarriage. I can't WAAAAAIT to find out the gender. You watch though--just because I really really want to know, the baby probably won't cooperate and I'll have to wait till it's born. haha!
My gender scan hasn't been set yet. My next OB appt is June 3, so I believe the next appt will bring along the gender scan. So I figure I've got about seven weeks still to wait. Seems like forever, but I actually prefer to wait till I'm almost 20 weeks along because everything's bigger and usually easier to see. I had a 16-week scan with DS1 and he had his legs crossed the whole time and refused to move. Tried drinking OJ, jumping around, all sorts of things to get him to move--little stinker wouldn't budge. Didn't find out what he was until the day before he was born!! With DS2 I had scan at 21 weeks and his little parts were easy to find and unmistakeable. So I'm hoping that a later scan will give me a better chance. lol