Hello all
CD 6 - a bit crampy still but just spotting a tiny bit.. not too bad.
I've decided not to go back for a repeat ultrasound this month. I was chatting to OH about it and we agreed that we're both feeling quite happy and positive this month and finding out that there was definitely something in there would depress us too much. If we leave it as a possibility we can remain positive that everything is fine and just hope for the best rather than worrying about it. My mum also made a good point - people get pregnant with the coil in place sometimes so a bit of tissue or a blood clot is unlikely to have much effect!! I hope she is right!
I think the longer past mc I get the less stressed I am about conceiving again. I think after the mc I was sooo desperate just to be pregnant again I couldn't think about anything else. Now I've had some time to heal emotionally I feel ok about not being pregnant - especially in this beautiful hot weather!
I've decided I will go back to the doctor if I haven't conceived by the end of June - and perhaps get checked up with regards to retained products and maybe push for something to be done if it is still there. For now, we'll try but not too hard and we'll enjoy our daughter and the weather and leave the worrying for later. If I have problems conceiving I will be devasted but there is no point worrying about something that hasn't happened yet - and may not happen.
We'll be starting the BD marathon at the weekend and I'll probably start opks around then too. I'm estimating ovulation as being in a week (my ticker is out as based on last month) so we should manage to get a fair amount in by then!!
Like I say, we'll not be taking it too seriously this month, I'm doing the opk's to get a feel for my cycles again but if it all works out like it did last cycle timewise I'll probably scrap them after this month as my EWCM is a really good indicator.
Sorry for the crazily long post - I've not had as much time to chat recently so had lots to say!!
Huge buckets full of to everyone....
CD 6 - a bit crampy still but just spotting a tiny bit.. not too bad.
I've decided not to go back for a repeat ultrasound this month. I was chatting to OH about it and we agreed that we're both feeling quite happy and positive this month and finding out that there was definitely something in there would depress us too much. If we leave it as a possibility we can remain positive that everything is fine and just hope for the best rather than worrying about it. My mum also made a good point - people get pregnant with the coil in place sometimes so a bit of tissue or a blood clot is unlikely to have much effect!! I hope she is right!
I think the longer past mc I get the less stressed I am about conceiving again. I think after the mc I was sooo desperate just to be pregnant again I couldn't think about anything else. Now I've had some time to heal emotionally I feel ok about not being pregnant - especially in this beautiful hot weather!
I've decided I will go back to the doctor if I haven't conceived by the end of June - and perhaps get checked up with regards to retained products and maybe push for something to be done if it is still there. For now, we'll try but not too hard and we'll enjoy our daughter and the weather and leave the worrying for later. If I have problems conceiving I will be devasted but there is no point worrying about something that hasn't happened yet - and may not happen.
We'll be starting the BD marathon at the weekend and I'll probably start opks around then too. I'm estimating ovulation as being in a week (my ticker is out as based on last month) so we should manage to get a fair amount in by then!!
Like I say, we'll not be taking it too seriously this month, I'm doing the opk's to get a feel for my cycles again but if it all works out like it did last cycle timewise I'll probably scrap them after this month as my EWCM is a really good indicator.
Sorry for the crazily long post - I've not had as much time to chat recently so had lots to say!!
Huge buckets full of to everyone....