Moms of April/May/June 2010 babies thread! :)

[maybebaby3]

what the hell is wrong with him!?! you are a great mum!!! babies can be hard to settle that is no reflection on how good a mum you are!!!!! he's the one who has to grow up! i am so angry for you! dont listen to those sort of remarks! dont you dare! what an areshole for saying that to you! what about his shortcomings as a father! where do these men get off thinking they can criticise us! they should have some introspection!

 

[maybebaby3]

h&f - and i cant believe he told you to put extra holes in your belt!!! you have lost a load of weight! the least he could do is give you some money for clothes!

 

[Sarahwoo]

Sarah you are NOT a terrible mum! You are a fantastic mum! You're human as well though! Dave is been a terrible fiance at the moment! Is there somewhere you can go just for a night or two so you can both get some space and get your heads together, and you can get some support with Amy?

Emera I'm sorry you are Roh are both ill! I hope you are both feeling much, much better soon

Maybe I've had this pile of ironing for about three weeks I've been doing the other stuff as I washed it but this is a backlog from when I had a cold I've done an hour and got half of it done, so I'll do the rest tomorrow. I have one of those steam generator irons and it's run out of water, so I have to wait for it to cool right down before I can fill it up again, so I only iron for one water tank

Oliver and I didn't get out today, we were going to go to the supermarket for a few bits (how do I need more stuff after I spent so much on Saturday?!?!), I got us both ready and then Oliver was so tired and fell asleep . Steve then said he'd call and get the essentials after work, and I AM going to walk into town tomorrow, so we could get away with not going

For lunch today I made a puff pastry thingy . . . basically pre-rolled puff pastry, tomato puree, cheese and fresh tomatoes, it was yum! Oliver loved it and ate loads, and then spent ages shredding the puff pastry I also made some savory flapjack from the BLW book . . . I thought it was a bit yuk but Oliver absolutely loves it! If anyone else has any easy BLW friendly recipies I could try I'd be most greatfull!

 

[hope&faith09]

He has decided to go out to a friends ... I told him not to bother coming home. I really cant take it I am so emotional and so tired. I really hope Amy has a good night and tomorrow I am going to treat myself to a new top and then get on with the housework as apparently I am not good enough at anything and that I am making a big deal about his stag do and its pathetic and I cant do anything about it because its booked so tough s**t were his words.

 

[A3my]

muddles - aww thanks, my problem is I am really shy and I always think people dont like me! I am hoping for a miracle too hope it wasnt too sad seeing your friend off

maybe - glad Danny is being nice as for relocating, its going to be so hard for us both to get jobs in the same place we may have to consider abroad. Kerry's Dad lives in Australia, kerry was looking at the points system but we wouldnt get in. Well done to Dylan great news about WW x

sarah - happy birthday Oliver! Emily and Holly are 15 months apart so by the time Emily was 9 months I was 3 months pregnant with Holly. I cant imagine it now!

H&F - I really sympathise with you on the money/controlling front. I'm so sorry he's not supporting you, what is it with these men! As for the stag I would be FUMING|!! thats incredibly selfish and will be hanging over you the whole wedding £20 a month is totally unrealistic. If he wants your spending money to be separate he should discuss a reasonable amount with you. Hope you had a nice snuggle with Amy just reading through - dont ever think you are a bad mum! you're a fantastic mummy! you're not pathetic, thats such an evil thing to say. It sounds like you just need a break, some sleep and some tlc and he should be doing that for you!

emera - poor you and poor Roh could you not call in sick tomorrow and get some rest? Hope you get some sleep and more

Well I had Gabriel again today as my mum had plans with a friend and it was easier for me to have him. Alex just loves being with him, its so cute. It was a lovely sunny day today and I was feeling more up than down about the future x

 

[A3my]

H&f - OMG, seriously dont listen to him. Sounds like he's acting like a b@stard because deep down he knows he is in the wrong xxxxx

 

[Sarahwoo]

H&F I think Amy might have hit the nail on the head there. Just try to ignore him and have a nice time tomorrow

Amy Gabriel is soooo cute!!!! Thats really sweet that Alex loves been with him so much I love the piccies on facebook, he looks SO grown up!! Where did out babies go eh!! Oh, and stop talking about Australia, you're coming to Yorkshire!! We'd have soooo much fun!

 

[maybebaby3]

amy - we lookef into relocating to australia as we both have jobs where we'd have been fast tracked. come to gib or the costa del sol

h&f - tough shit eh? unbelievable!!! deadbolt the door so he cant get back in and then just say 'tough shit i told you to stay out so there's nothing you can do about it tough shit!' ah the old you're not a good enough housewife. i'd be rich if i had a penny for every time danny made a comment like that!!! he does nothing to help me with the kids or the house and then comlains its a 'shit hole' !!! maybe if he got off his arse once in a whilebit wouldnt be so bad. is dave the same?

 

[Sarahwoo]

H&F where is he going for his stag do? Because if it's abroad I think I'd be 'loosing' his passpost

 

[Sarahwoo]

Maybe - get off Amy - she's mine!!

 

[maybebaby3]

my hand hurts from posting on my phone

 

[maybebaby3]

sarah - how much are you bidding for her ?

 

[maybebaby3]

god i have had to pee so many times this evening and i've only had 2 glasses of coke and a tea! hope i'm not pregnant tomorrow is day 12 after the slip up so am going to do another test in the morning!

 

[A3my]

sarah and maybe you guys haha

sarah - Gabriel is a lovely baby he's really chilled out! I know what you mean, Alex looks so grown up compared to Gabriel! where did our babies go indeed!

maybe - If I got my nursing registration back we could get fast tracked to Aus. I dont think I'd be brave enough to go that far away from my family! x

 

[A3my]

maybe - fingers crossed for another bfn

 

[Sarahwoo]

Hmmmm . . . . well right now I can bid a chocolate pudding, with cream or custard?

 

[Sarahwoo]

Maybe fingers crossed for another BNF for you

 

[maybebaby3]

sarah - cream and custard

amy - yeah being that far away from my family put me off too! my mum cried every day when we told her we planned to move to leeds til the day we made the decision to stay in gib. poor woman

 

[A3my]

aww, my mum said we should go! but she said to go for our family and that she'd visit for 3 months a year

 

[Sarahwoo]

Blimey if we were going to move abroad and have my mum visit for three months a year I think Steve would move out and I might go with him

You're okay though, Yorkshires not THAT far from Kent