i know he worked nights but he's already had more sleep than i did last night 
I'm with you on the lie-ins. Kerry has got into the habit of doing that lately and I feel a bit 
that he never does the same for me! but once I am awake I am glad to be spending time with my children and I tell myself he is missing out 
I wished i had said something sooner! Hope you had a lovely time at your parents 
Managed to post some piccies on fb, but i'm going to have to grab an early night 
so i'll have to catch up on what looks like about 8-9 pages tomorrow! to all of you! Happy Birthday Joni!
maybe - I'm with you on the lie-ins. Kerry has got into the habit of doing that lately and I feel a bit
thanks! 
i've probably junxed it by posting this tho! am off to shower and bed. night all
i was less exhausted when i had him in bed and let him bf to sleep 
am close to cracking. was hoping for less wakings by now 
would do anything for a lie in 
at the spider!!! 
no idea what it was bothering her
I would be freaking out until it had been moved and the house searched for more - I'm always paranoid in case they have friends He's still pretty cheerful but I think we'll be taking it easy today. Which is good because ireally don't want to spend anything - this month has been SO expensive!!!! As well as paying for the garden (which is costing a lot more than we thought though it is fab and sooooo worth it) I've paid out for my car, car tax, about a hundred quids worth of diesel driving around the place, and loads of other stuff that I can't remember. My savings account is looking sorry for itself so I'm trying not to spend anything. I've got some final payments due so that should help, plus I'm STILL waiting to hear from work - as well as my share save the owe me holiday pay etc. So I just need to be careful for a few weeks. And get some junk on ebay
I can only imagine how hard the sleep training is but stick with it honey, I am sure it will be worth it really soon! Can you speak to Danny and ask him for a lay in on one of his days off? He must see how exhausted you are, it makes me mad that he can see the woman he loves it so tired and not step in to help Steve has two days off at the moment (today and tomorrow). I've hardly seen him for the last four days because he's been working extra almost every day. So I've been really looking forward to his days off - which he knows. Today he was going to get up with us but got up three hours later. Fair enough - he only got about four hours sleep the night before because he worked so late - so I didn't mind so much. I'd sooner he got some sleep and wasn't a grump So today has been quite nice, the weather has been lovely again so Oliver and I were sat outside quite a bit while Steve did the garden, but he's absolutely full of cold, poor baby He's still been quite cheerful but I could tell he wasn't his normal self. So tomorrow I said to Steve it would be nice to have a day off working in the garden and go to the coast or something, since the kids are all back at school it shouldn't be too busy. But he can't, because he has a funeral in the afternoon. It's someone he worked with and she was lovely, so he absolutely should go, so thats fine. But he's meeting some other people at work and they are sharing cars and all going together which I'm not so happy about. Not that I've said anything. But I imagine he won;t be back until 6pm at the earliest. So I said well maybe we can do something nice in the evening? Except he's already arranged to go playing snooker in Leeds with his friend He only tells me all this today, when I ask. If I hadn't asked, I expect he would have told me when he needed to get ready. I sit on my own for five evenings a week as it is, and now every flippin week he goes out with his friend, so I now spend 6 evenings a week on my own 
So he said well tonight we'll have a nice meal, then watch a film or something, so I thought well at least thats something. So what happens? While I was putting Oliver to bed another friend turns up Fair enough, this friend tends to just show up if he knows that Steve's not working, but Steve KNEW he was going out tomorrow so why did he not just say well I'm off Monday Tuesday but we've got plans? He KNOWS what his friend is like! And he most likely won;t leave until about 3am, so Steve will stay in bed for half of tomorrow too If the boot was on the other flippin foot it would be a different story It does not help that dh is only here 2 nights a week to help with bedtime. I think it is a bit of separation anxiety and a developmental thing as she often sits up as she wakes. I dont know what to do anymore
he needs to support you and give you some time! I hope Oliver sleeps OK and gets over the snots quickly I dont know what to suggest, you need a break though could you try waiting for a bit longer before you shh-pat each time he wakes? He still needs to learn not to wake every sleep cycle doesnt he? have you tried asking in the baby forum?? hope tonight is better 
that sounds like we have hundreds we really dont, there's normally one big wolfie one around every month or so I am dreading work tomorrow x
I closed it though as it looked fishy! Does your DH work nights? its so hard when their sleep is like that. I'm really lucky (touch wood) Alex seemed to grow out of it but he was like it for over a month and I know its a killer
Yesterday it took me two hours to get Oliver to sleep, everytime I thought he was asleep and lay him down he would jump back up and start crawling about again It was so frustrating! I'm really lucky though because when he did finally fall asleep properly he slept great. I wish I had some advice for you but I'm not sure what you could try, I really hope that you get some sleep soon 
at the wolf spider in the shed EWWW at the spiders in your house! I see a huge one about once a year (if that ) and thats one too many!! My ex used to get soooooo many HUGE hairy, horrible spids in his house, if it rained they were just everywhere - in the curtains, in the bed, in the sink, scampering accross the floor, OMG they were just shocking! It makes my skin crawl just thinking about it!! I'm soo glad I never moved in 
