Moms of April/May/June 2010 babies thread! :)

[Sarahwoo]

Oh Maybe Things will be fine, don't worry, like Emera said its not like Dan didnt know what could happen!!! Try not to stress yourself out, you know where we are

I think when Oliver is in his own room, at pre-school etc I'll want another....we'll see I do get a little bit broody, but then I'm looking forward to having some time to myself / for my and Steve too, I don't know I think it'll end up not been planned and we'll just make the most if it

 

[muddles]

Beautiful pictures Emera.

Maybe that looks like a definite bfp. Sure when faced with reality, he will feel different. Not the same but I know my H wasn't ready for us to have our second then when I showed him the test he was soon as excited as me, well he was once he asked how that had happened Hopefully it will all work out, with kids as cute as yours I'm sure he will come round to the idea. xxxx

 

[Mork]

Big hugs maybe xxxx Like the others have said oh will come round i'm sure xxxxxx
Sarah-maybe you will be broody when oliver weans/has his own room/starts school etc. You will know what is right when the time is here to make a decision xxx
Emera you sure do have gorgeous children xxx

 

[maybebaby3]

Will report back tomorrow with another test result. Thanks for being there girls xxx

 

[muddles]

Massive honey.

 

[Sarahwoo]

Thinking of you this morning Maybe xx

 

[maybebaby3]

Did a digi just now: pregnant 2-3 I haven't told Dan that I tested. I told him I dreamt I was pregnant and maybe it was a premonition. He said I should've been more responsible with my body I said that it was both out faults if I was pregnant and he said it'd be a disaster and that we should consider doing something about it if I was he's not going to be supportive. I think he thinks its not going to happen. He said if I was pregnant that he would wish for a mc I'm so scared to tell him. I'm pretending I've not tested. I will have to test in a few days and act like its a surprise. I don't dare imagine what's going to happen

 

[emera35]

He needs to get a grip! What is he, a cave man? How dare he abdicate all responsibility for a pregnancy, its 50/50. Last time i checked women couldn't spontaneously become pregnant! I'm so angry with his attitude! Naturally he's not going to be supportive, but he HAS to man up and accept responsibility at the very least. Suggesting its your responsibility because its your body is ridiculous! If he was so desperate to not have another child, maybe HE should have taken responsibility and either restrained himself or have the snip, to make sure accidents can't happen! And wishing for a MC, maybe you should suggest he wishes away one of the other children and see what he says? There's no difference except he hasn't met the unborn one! Outrageous!
Huge hugs to you hun. Congratulations, and i REALLY hope that Dan pulls himself together for you!

 

[Sarahwoo]

Oh maybe Dan really needs to man up! Worse things happen than babies! Grrr!!! Everything Emera said is spot on, huge hugs darling xxx

 

[maybebaby3]

Thanks girls I told him I was going to buy a test so went to morissons and got another 2 digis. Now have to pee on one and am assuming same result will come up. Wish me luck! He comes back in a couple of hours so am going to do it when u get kids bathed and then text him. Feel sick. Poor little baby bean he/she is going to be in for a bumpy ride.

 

[maybebaby3]

I text him but no reply

 

[maybebaby3]

I called him. He had got my text. He didn't want to talk about it I'm dreading him coming home.

 

[Sarahwoo]

I guess just give him space for it to sink in etc. I hope he comes around sooner rather than later

 

[Sarahwoo]

Maybe is your ticker right? 2-3 on a clear blue means 4-5 weeks pregnant

 

[maybebaby3]

Sarah my ticker is based on last period!

I feel sick. He sounded suicidal. But it takes two to mess up doesn't it?

 

[Sarahwoo]

Maybe he's a grown man, he knew perfectly well how babies were made! It's got to be a shock, and it might take him a while to get his head around it, but really he has no option.

Is your cycle regular? From the bfp line and the digi I'd say you were more than 3wks! Could you have ov'ed early?

 

[maybebaby3]

My cycles about 26-32 days

 

[Mork]

Big hugs maybe, what everyone else has said is right - Dan needs to man up and accept his part xxxxx

 

[hope&faith09]

Aww maybe - congratulations. He will seriously just have to pull himself together. Just remember that a baby is the most beautiful thing and your children are so gorgeous you are blessed to extend your family ... If he can't see that he needs a good talking to.

Lots of hugs xxxx

 

[maybebaby3]

Thank you all for your support and lovely words