Moms of April/May/June 2010 babies thread! :)

He came back, ate, gone in bath. Not spoken about it, or anything else really, and not even looked at test I left out. Going to give him space. See what happens. Keep you all posted :hugs: thanks for listening to me xxx
 
Maybe - you know where we are. Hopefully he just needs time to get used to the idea. X x x
 
Maybe congratulations. I can't believe the cheek of him, it took two to make the baby so he can't lay the blame on you-to quote Jeremy Kyle :haha: he should have ''put something on the end of it" if he wanted to ensure that you didn't get pregnant. Sometimes things are just meant to be, if you were meant to be a family of 6 then this baby would have found a way! I'm sure he will come round, he has 8 more months to get used to the idea. Another one who is here if you need to talk :hugs:
 
Thanks girls. He didn't come to bed last night. I'm not going to mention it for a few days. Did another digi this am. Still pregnant 2-3. Not going to tell anyone else at the moment. First day back at work today. Off to prepare kids packed lunches now. Hope you all have a good day xxx
 
Give him time to stew, sulk etc maybe and then when he is ready you guys can talk and hopefully celebrate together eventually. Big hugs and again-another pair of ears!!! Xxxxx
 
Maybe - hope work is ok today. Was thinking about you last night ... How do you feel about being pregnant? Take dan out of the equastion and try to think about yourself ( just give him time) just try and remember the excitement you feel, nervousness, but overall the overwhelming love you will have for that tiny bean and how much love they will have for you. You are an amazing mum already one more will just bring more love to your family.


And emera I just wanted to say how gorgeous your babies are!

Muddles - hope your little ones are better soon - its horrible when they are poorly, my 2 keep passing things between them. X

Sarah - Oliver is so gorgeous - maybe you will get broody maybe not. If its ment to happen you will probably just find yourself pregnant and embrace it or you will just have Oliver to devote your time to ( and who wouldn't want to look after that cheeky smile ! )

You are amazing women - I can't believe what a wonderful supportive group this still is even though our 'babies' are 2 1/2!
 
OMG!!!!!! Got half way through a post yesterday and not had a chance to come on and missed all this......

:hugs::hugs::hugs: Maybe, I'm so cross with Dan. What planet is he on! Maybe like H&F says, conisder how you feel about it yourself and then think about him. I really hope what he said about the MC was a heat of the moment thing and that he'll come round and at least realise his part in it......
You will be fine, I believe in fate and so this must be what's right for you xxx

Emera you have the most beautiful children! When are you moving?

How is everyone else getting on with their babes. Mine started so well but seems to be sleep adverse. I know I should spend more time working on naps but I find it impossible with Will shouting his head off, so we tend to go out and about. CC seemed to be working a dream, she goes off with less than a minutes crying at night now, but will only sleep until 10 pm, which doesn't seem long enough, I would have thought at this stage she'd be going until midnight before a feed. The past two nights she has spend the whole night trying to settle but crying, almost like in pain. I had put it down to teeth but there is nothing there. Think I'm going to call the Dr this morning to see if someone will check her ears. What do you think??

Sarah, I'm so not having any more I loved mine dearly but two is for me!! Evveryone is different, you'll know if and when the time is right xx
 
Maybe, I agree don't bring it up with Dan, let him talk to you when he's ready, you have months to get used to it together, so just leave it for now and let him be miserable if that's what he wants to do. :shrug: You focus on yourself and getting your head around it and being calm and used to the idea, so when Dan finally wants to talk about you can be the grown up about it (as I suspect he'll be all childish and tantrumy about it!). Big hugs to you honey! :hugs:

LC, our flat will be going on the market next week! :wacko: Hoping we get some activity quickly as we found somewhere we want to buy!
 
L-C - I am loving having two ... hard work but brilliant. We don't do naps - Eva generally sleeps while we are out and about, she doesn't like going in her basket during the day. At the moment she feedsin the evening at 7 then 8.30/ 9 ish then between 10 and 11 and then at around 4. We are really struggling to get her out of her basket though she will go in the cot but cry if she is left but will self soothe in the basket. Not sure how we are going to move her but she will be far to big for her basket soon.
 
If anyone is interested, this is the house we are hoping to offer on. Keeping my fingers crossed it doesn't get snapped up!

https://www.rightmove.co.uk/property-for-sale/property-39000761.html
 
sorry lovely ladies, Im rubbish at keeping up! I just dipped in to say maybe - we are in the same boat. FOB doesnt really want mine. :hugs::hugs::hugs: we've been through a roller coaster of emotions and are on the verge of splitting. He left me alone and bleeding this weekend. I had an emergency scan. The baby has grown but my sac is small. I really need him and he's 75 miles away :-( you'll be OK, youre a strong woman and we can support each other. I bet we'll end up due around the same time :flower::flower::flower::flower: I have another scan next Friday.

emera - beautiful photos of your beautiful children :flower:
 
Amy, big :hugs: to you! I'd say the same to your man, it takes two to tango, so deal with it! hope everything is ok xxxx
 
We're going to need that shed again for these men aren't we :grr: :grr:

Amy I'm so sorry you're getting less support than you deserve, what it with these spineless men!

Emera I LOVE that house! It's so full of character! It looks like a great price too, fingers crossed for you!!!

We went to a new play group this morning, I met up with a girl I used to work with and her two kids so I knew someone :haha: It was pretty good and the children enjoyed it, so we're going to go again next week and probably make it a weekly thing :) Oliver doesn't really see loads of kids in a group settin like that, it's more that he sees them one to one when we're on play dates etc, so I'm hoping it might prepare him for pre-school. Some children are so boisterous though! They made Oliver look like a little angel :rofl: he did cry when they put the toys away for snack time though!

More hugs for Amy and Maybe, thinking of you both :hugs:
 
Emera what a gorgeous house!!!

Sarah glad you enjoyed the playgroup!

LC I always said I only wanted 2 :rofl:

Amy I'm so sorry fob is not being supportive about baby either :hugs: bump buddies?! :)

Dan still not talking. He's in bed at the moment, hiding there! I'm off to take kids to park!
 
Amy huge :hugs: for you!! I really hope he comes round, you deserve so much more. How do you feel about it??

Maybe - Please don't go saying things like that, my DH will be in the Dr's tomorrow lol. I really hope he comes round quickly for you, you deserve so much better. He's the one missing out, camping out in his pit like a spoilt teenager.

Emera - I LOVE the house, fab price, really hope yours sells nice and quick for you.

Sarah - Will is well socialised but is still quite sensitive, in group situations and gets upset by more boisterous kids. He is full of beans though!

I've had a funny day really. Took Ava to the Dr, her ears seem fine, so the constant screaming over the past two nights must be her teeth. My friend popped over, she has the most chilled out two boys but hanckers for a girl. She had to stop bfing her second at 6 m as she was planning on a 3rd but two big babies and lose ligaments meant she had to have a rethink. We were chatting about Ava's sleep and she thinks that I'm not giving her enough with just breast milk (3 meals a day but still early days). She says I should consider formula. Not had much sleep the past couple of nights and I know ava's not hungry, its something else, can't explain but I know. She never wakes up starving and can go 4-5 hours during the day. Three nights ago she did great I know she can do better. So not sure if it was me but I ended up feeling like poo poo and could bearly speak to her. I really think that hers have been naturally good sleepers and have self sooothed easily. Others just don't but that surely doesn't make me a bad Mum or my kids defective?? Her little boy can sing the alphabet, which is awesome and I say that loads. Will is no where near but his speach is coming along slowly but surely. I suggested that Will wasn't behind but that her lad is way ahead. I thought a compliment. She said I think they're just at other ends of the spectrum, which I felt was implying that Will is way behind, if hers is miles ahead?? Do you think I'm being tired and over sensitive?? Which is quite possible.......
 
L-C your friend just seems really insensitive tbh :hugs: A lot of people automatically think bad sleeper = feed formula, they must be getting hungry and it's just not true! There is so many things it could be! It sounds daft but Oliver went through a terrible phase with sleeping until I stopped putting him in a baby grow! I put him in 'proper' pjs and he slept so much better! Babies are funny things :hugs:

I'm sure will isn't behind! Kids just do things in their own time :hugs: it was pretty insensitive of your friend to say it how she did :hugs: Oliver's speech is quite forward for his age, but in other things I'm sure other kids are storming ahead :shrug: They are just all different! :hugs:
 
Thanks Sarah, I,m not worried about Will he is very switched on he understands everything and surprises us all the time, he recognises cars from their badges. He's always pointing out Nannies car VW and Gradndads Ford. I'm loving his quirkiness and the funny improvisations that he makes, it'll be over all too quick. He also doesn't miss a please or thank you, even during a strop, he'll say, no thank you mummy, ha ha! Just wish I wasn't made to feel bad by others really, especially when I am complimenting them. xxxx

Ava has already stirred and has gone off so I'm not expecting lots of sleep tonight, I'm off to bed xxxxxxx
 

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