Sorry I can't advise Maybe as O stopped bf when he was a little over 1, he had cut down his feeds to before bed and during the night, and when he finally cut his night feed just before his first birthday he lost interest in the before bed one so we switched to a beaker of milk and him sitting on my knee to read bedtime stories before bed, and as he got a little older I started to sit beside his bed after milk and stories and talk to him for a few minutes, once he was lying down. This time I'd like to let K wean herself but that's a long way off yet.