Moms of April/May/June 2010 babies thread! :)

[maybebaby3]

Emera hope your whole family is on the mend soon!

I just called someone who's selling a 5 bed HOUSE for £290,000 as they want to downsize. The wife is going to call me later to hopefully arrange a viewing! Houses at that price in gib is something you never hear about. They may be even interested in our flat as their children live in our estate apparently. Danny is totally anti moving but this is am bargain we must at least look at I think. It's probably needing lots of work but anyway we shall see. Probably will come to nothing but its worth a look I think.

 

[Mork]

Emera - hope roh is still improving, sorry to hear you are all ill
Maybe - oooh the house sounds exciting!!!! Fingers crossed! How are you feeling now - apart from the tiredness?
Hope you are all having good weekends xxx

 

[Sarahwoo]

Emera I hope you're all feeling better soon, poor Roh!! Temperatures are so scarey

Maybe wow five beds, that would be amazing! Fingers crossed!

Phew I've had such a busy day! I got soooo much done while Oliver was at my parents - his room is almost ready for the new bed! Then I'll just need a little more time sorting stuff out but I'm getting there!! Oliver is actually quite excited - I told him I'd make him some shape cushions and he's really excited about that I showed him a picture of the bed and explained where it would go and he said 'Oohhh a new bed for Oliver's room! A new bed for Oliver and mummy!'

Although I got lots done I really missed him today. Mum and dad are going to take him again in a few weeks so I can start sorting my office / store room out. He had an absolute ball though and really, really enjoyed it and so did my mum and dad, but I did miss him. I'm dreading him starting school.

 

[maybebaby3]

Well after the woman called me and arranged a viewing she then later called me back at 10pm and said that they had decided not to sell. What a waste of time! I'm hoping that this baby is a girl so she can go in with Erin as we are not going to be moving.

 

[Sarahwoo]

Maybe how annoying! It sounds likes she hadn't thought it through at all!!

 

[maybebaby3]

Yeah and in the end it turned out it was a flat, not a house

 

[maybebaby3]

So fed up of mil criticizing my parenting style. Owen was refusing to eat and then purposefully knocked the food out of the bowl all over the floor, table and chairs. I was really annoyed and had told him to sit down and eat or he was going to bed. So that's what I did. Then she came in and said I was really cold hearted letting him cry in his cot. She said how could I do that to my flesh and blood she said that he's not going to learn anything and instead I should have, wait for it, given him a good slapping! So basically I'm cold hearted for sending him to bed and having him complaining in his cot but I should've given him a good slap coz apparently he'd remember that better. And I am the cold hearted one?

 

[muddles]

My lovely nan is really poorly and isnt going to get better. Hospital dont know what is wrong and now they have stopped all medication and are just keeping her comfortable.

 

[Mork]

Oh muddles, so sorry hon big hugs to you xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[maybebaby3]

Oh muddles I'm so sorry to hear that

 

[hope&faith09]

Muddles - my thoughts are with you. X

 

[muddles]

Thank you lovely ladies.

 

[emera35]

Big hugs to you Muddles Thoughts, love and strength to you and your family. Xxx

 

[maybebaby3]

Muddles how is your gran? Xxx

 

[muddles]

Muddles how is your gran? Xxx

My Dad called this afternoon to say she passed away today. I'm devastated and I was hoping I'd get to see her I feel so guilty I should have phoned her more than once a month and I should have gone to visit her when she was in hospital the first time (October) All I did was send her a card telling her I was thinking of her and wishing her a happy birthday. Until the weekend I didn't know she was going to go so soon. No excuses other than I am rubbish I hope she knew just how much she meant to me.

 

[L-C]

Oh muddles I am so sure she did!! She would have known you have a lot on your plates with two little ones. I had similar with my Grandpa, I was going to leave it until the following week and missed seeing him. It's about the whole journey not just this bit, she really will know xxx Lots of love to you all xx

 

[Mork]

so sorry to hear your sad news muddles and rest assured your nan knew how much you loved her xxxhugsxxx

 

[emera35]

Oh Muddles, sorry for your loss
I was the same with my grandparents, i never called or visited as often as i intended to, life just gets in the way. My Nan passed very suddenly due to a fall, and my Grandad suffered strokes and then dementia, so although he was always pleased to see me, the last few times i saw him, he had no idea who i was at all. I always hope that they know how much i loved them, but i've come to the conclusion that its more important that i carry on living my life in a way that would have made them proud, because, in the end, that's their legacy. I'm sure they know how much i cared for them, and if i can honour them through living the sort of life they would have wanted for me, then i keep them with me always.
Don't regret not seeing her hun, i'm sure she wouldn't have wanted you to see her very ill anyway, and i'm sure your card meant the world. Huge xxx

 

[Sarahwoo]

I'm so sorry Muddles, I'm sure she knew how much you ment to her You're not rubbish at all! Please don't think that

 

[maybebaby3]

Muddles how is your gran? Xxx

My Dad called this afternoon to say she passed away today. I'm devastated and I was hoping I'd get to see her I feel so guilty I should have phoned her more than once a month and I should have gone to visit her when she was in hospital the first time (October) All I did was send her a card telling her I was thinking of her and wishing her a happy birthday. Until the weekend I didn't know she was going to go so soon. No excuses other than I am rubbish I hope she knew just how much she meant to me.

Please don't say you're rubbish. I'm sure your gran knew you love her and she knew that you had o and k to look after. I felt a similar way when my uncle passed away a month before Dylan was born. I only went to the hospital once a few days before he passed as I was scared of mrsa that was going around as I was 8m pregnant. Afterwards I felt really bad that I hadn't seen him more. He always had time for me. Anyway I'm digressing I'm sure that your gran knew that you were thinking of her and praying for her. Don't beat yourself up about seeing her not that often. I'm sure she knew how much she meant to you xxx I'm here if you need to talk xxx