Moving forward after 8 years ttc . 92 pounds lost so far 8 to go :)

[Viking15]

Northstar, I'm glad to see you. I hope you are well.
Brave, I can just imagine how it feels. I witnessed my husband go thru his father's death. Take your walks. Enjoy Buddy. It's ok to be sad.

 

[NorthStar]

T, I hope this week is kinder to you, and you manage to get out with Buddy for some nice walks.

I'll be offline, travelling for a few, but thinking of you.

 

[Jax41]

Hey lovely T, you've been nudging the back of my mind for weeks and I'm so sorry you're feeling yuk. It'll take time but it will pass... Stay strong honey xxx

 

[threebirds]

Love & hugs T xxx

 

[Bravemom]

Thanks girls . Dads service is tomorrow morning . I'm a mess . Keep breaking down . So much going on in family as well . My dads ex trying to seize his estate and life insurance etc . Crazy crazy stuff talk soon

 

[Butterfly67]

if she's an ex then surely she's not entitled to anything. Sorry you have to deal with this cr@p T xx

 

[LLbean]

Wow... I swear you see some peoples true colors in times like these. I'm so sorry at, hope things get better soon. Hugs

 

[Bevziibubble]

I'm so sorry that you're going through this.

 

[No Doubt]

Sorry hun. Just try to focus on your dads service right now. Everything else will get worked out.

 

[Bravemom]

Funeral was awful but everyone said dad would have been proud of us ❤feel a physical and emotional wreck if honest .things can only get better . Bright and sunny day today . I've been cleaning for last few hours . Made banana bread and pancakes with girls . Feel like I could sleep .

 

[Sparkly]

So sorry that you are going through this honey xx

 

[No Doubt]

So sorry hun. I'm glad it's over though and you can begin to move forward. Just take the time you need for yourself and leave the rest until you can.

 

[Bravemom]

Thank you . This won't ever go away and I will never get my dad back but I hope time makes it easier

 

[NorthStar]

Hoping that with the passage of time you can remember more of the happier times with your Dad love

Are you walking again T? We've had some nice weather these last few days and we've been getting out as much as possible never know when it will turn.

It cheered me up a bit, I've not been enjoying life as much in recent months but when the sun is shining it can help (especially for those of us living in Scotland/Ireland where we can't take the big red ball in the sky for granted).

 

[Bravemom]

I've walked the last few days . Getting out really helps and I feel my dad close to me . Great news as Lucy got an A B B C in her exams kids are all loving school too which is a big load of my shoulders . Paul is 50 next year . Ideas for his birthday most welcome s I hope the next few months are kinder to you and all of us

 

[NorthStar]

Glad to hear you are getting out for your walks, and that is helping you emotionally Well done to Lucy on her exams, is that her going into fifth year now?

Paul's 50th is a big occasion, you could plan something really fun. What does he like, and what time of year is it? The kids will want to spoil him not doubt so a family breakfast (at a nice hotel with champagne!) and then a big day out doing something off the bucket list. You could whisk him off to London in the afternoon for a night out.

 

[No Doubt]

I'm horrible at this, but what about a party for him so he could celebrate with friends and family, then you and him could do a night or weekend alone.

 

[Bravemom]

I love all of those suggestions . He hates me spending big money on him but hes been amazing since my dad passed And i want to spoil him. our relationship is stronger in so many ways too . His birthday is January . Yes Lucy fifth year . Crazy isn't it . They've all grown up so fast . Will have to post you a pic soon . Daniel is going thru puberty and has a really deep voice and has grown loads over the summer but he's still my baby boy ❤

 

[No Doubt]

That's really good hun! They one of the hardest times on a marriage is when parents pass, so it's good that you and P and rock solid right now. I know it helps loads. Wow...time does fly. Can believe she's almost five. I wasn't here when she was born, but man o man! And your son coming into himself...crazy talk!

 

[Bravemom]

Ebony my baby is nine . Lucy is 16 and dan almost 14 . Vicky 12 this month . Yip p has been great . He doesn't want to leave me alone but honestly ok alone as I can rest or stay busy wen I feel like it . How's you and ds ?