my first baby buy :)

[mummy.wannabe]

Ohh Cheryl, some people don't realise how important things are to others,
Just get Steve to tell his Mum or brother that it's important he brings the clothes as otherwise Isla won't have enough newborn stuff.
I'm sure they let you go a tad over coz a lot of people are under there weight.
We went over when back from oz, like you say he can get his clothes washed at yours.
Just get ste to remind him of that, people don't think.

Don't work yourself up or when he arrives it won't be a pleasant time for you, coz you'll have a grudge x

 

[kelsey111]

ah ok well hopefully his test results are a bit better.

ah cheryl i just dont no what peoples problems are get ste to ring and see what they say . xx

 

[mummy.wannabe]

Not long now kels!!! Xxxx

 

[jennievictora]

Hey all how is evrryone x

 

[kelsey111]

Hi, well bk from the docs

not very good news.

the doc broke it down like this,
- ur ment to have at least 50% mobility james has 10%
- ur ment to have something else thats 15 and he has 2
- and something else ment to have 2 and james has 0.5

sorry i didnt under stand all of the words he said lol

james has to go to an inferdility clinic

feel so sorry for him.

 

[jennievictora]

oh kelsey here you need to talk x

 

[mummy.wannabe]

Oh Kelsey I'm so sorry,
Men normally have 20 million sperm per ml
James must have 2, Lawrence has below 1.

If he can't improve the sperm you could have to go down the ivf route too.
But a lot of men can change there's.
Like law he's slim and looks healthy, so don't know why young men have such low sperm count.
Laws mum thinks he had measles and that can case it from a young age.

Take awhile to take it all in, it's a lot to get your head round
Just remember I'm in the same boat and can help you with info you don't understand if I can x

 

[kelsey111]

thank u noth of u.

yep bit of a shock even tho i had prepared my slef for bad news.

just not sure what to think or say tbh. what did the doc say to u hun when u got the results. to take anything ? or refure u to a specialist ? xx

 

[mummy.wannabe]

To take the wellman everyday and to take another test, as new sperm is made every 90 days.
And men's sperm count can drop for no reason and then go back up again

So don't dispair, it can change in some cases, law is due to re tear any day now and then when we get them back, if they haven't improved then, explain the ivf route in further detail x

 

[kelsey111]

Ah ok, we wasnt told to take anything jsut that he needs to see the specialist. james is healthy ect the doc was quite saprised that it was as bad as it was for such and active for person ect. :/ he said u need at least 50% mobile sperm and thats still on the border line.

jsut dont no what to do really we havent spoke much about it we just dont no wot to say really as we dont have the answers i spose. feel like ive planned my whole life around a baby now might not happern :/ still a chance i no but ive never been good at holding on to a tiny % of things.

so bloody annoying a! for us both xx

 

[mummy.wannabe]

Yes the mobility will help, as no matter how low the sperm, they know we're to go, laws mobility isn't good either.
You can defo have a baby Kelsey, that not the issue, you would just need help to get his sperm to the egg,
Laws would have to be injected into my eggs x

Law still won't talk about it much, but I think you have to, once he understands more he will talk about it x

 

[jennievictora]

you will both get your babies its just goin take a bit more work n time but belive me when you see the heart beating away on the scan you forget all about it x

 

[kelsey111]

yh just duno atm :/ ivf just scares me, just feel like our life is all turnt up side down now. doc said dont give up trying but its not going to be easy, wonder wot the specialist says xx

 

[kelsey111]

hayley - are u aloud to have ivf, only as ive been looking online and nhs site says u have to be trying for 3 years and both or 1 of u have to be infertile like no sperm or tubes blocked ect. and u have to be over 23. and u have had to be infertile for over 3 years :S

CONFUSED!!!

 

[lola_90]

Hello everyone

Cheryl, what a shitty situation! Doesn't make sense that he won't take all of it! How frustrating! Hope your okay

Kelsey - so sorry hun don't give up! You will have a baby, and new sperm is formed every 90 days, so his numbers might improve. Must be such difficult news. Hope your both okay

I am currently experiencing horrific morning sickness feeling nauseous all the time. Currently on a university placement at a school, so having to run out of the classroom constantly to threw up and wee is not fun! Still havn't got the date of my scan, but seeing midwife on thursday for the first time which is exciting!

Take care everyone

 

[mummy.wannabe]

Well I said we have been trying just over 2 years, because of laws low count the doctor just said ivf straight away, you could be waiting A year on the Nhs list x
He said as law is young and fit and has the low count we justify for ivf and we're both 26.

Don't know anymore, but will be told end of feb, so unless you find out before I'll let you know what I'm told x

Oh Lola bless, doesn't sound fun but I'd love to be in that situation x
Hopefully ul find out your scan date, bet your excited for that x

 

[kelsey111]

ok hun thanks for that, think ill stop reading stuff on the internet and just wait to see the specialist soon. were waiting for a date .

aww lola sorry ur not having a great time, but im sure it will get better

jenn how u doing hun? whens ur scan? xx

 

[jennievictora]

hiya hun its best not to read on to much on net im really good thank my scan is 2nd of feb then get hear beans heart beat on 22nd cant wait for my scan x

 

[lola_90]

I know im sorry, you both want a baby so much and here is me moaning! Sorry!

It really is not a fun time! Have thrown up so much today it is horrible Midwife tomorrow though! Only my booking in appointment, but we are looking forward to it. Finally got my letter from the hospital and the scan is booked for tuesday. So I will be at least seven weeks then! My fiance is worried that it is going to be twins! Hopefully we will get to see baby's heart beating

Will let you all know how it goes

Take care

 

[mummy.wannabe]

I bet it's an amazing feeling to see your baby on screen for the 1st time.
You have lots of things to look forward to .

If you get a scan show us the pictures lola And jenn x