my first baby buy :)

[jennievictora]

hope your ok if you want to talk send me a mesg on fb x

 

[lukasandy]

wow that's cute!

 

[mummy.wannabe]

Oh Kelsey sorry you feel like that, same as what jenn said, if you want to chat rant we can do on fb.
Really hope your ok x

 

[lola_90]

Hope your ok Kelsey, you will have a baby hun, never give up

We are all here for you to vent as much as you want, take care

 

[MissyMoo88]

Hello ladies,

How are we all?

Hope you're ok Kelsey keep strong my lovely, it'll happen. And each appointment you're a step closer.

Lola have you told your parents yet? How did it go?

Did you get the email you were waiting on Hayley?

When is it you hear bubs heartbeat Jennie? Have you heard it before?

Well I have 28 days til Isla's due date ... 36 weeks today (Sunday) I came at 36 weeks but no sign of Isla so she's not like her mummy lol. I'll be happy if she comes this time next week 37 weeks. I'm getting impatient now and reallyyyyyyy want cuddles. We're all ready for her now, I just need to iron all her clothes tomorrow and clean the car hate cleaning the car lol. I've had alot of pressure in my pelvis today, so hoping the hours walk yesterday has helped madam move further down!

3 weeks today and my mum and dad will be here

To be honest I'm dreading these next 3 weeks, I know I should be relaxing and enjoying the peace these last few weeks but I am soooo bored, lol.

Hope you enjoyed the weekend xxx

 

[mummy.wannabe]

Hey Cheryl

Still not had email yet. Still waiting on letter for next appointment to come through.

I'm finding everything hard to deal with, get emotional at everything at the mo, hubby can't stop saying sorry and it's his fault. Which isn't helping but he feels so guilty.
I'm struggling with the wait now, thinking if we get told told how long ivf will take is going to kill me.

Bet you are getting impatient, there must be so much build up and you just want to see her.

Wow 3 weeks for your mum and dad, how long they staying?

I think she will be a little early For you. Fingers crossed x

 

[jennievictora]

you must be dying to meet her hun i cant wait meet bean and iv got ages yet lol keep us updated chick hayley hugs your on the right track keep positive x

 

[mummy.wannabe]

Thanks I know I'm on the right track but it's doesn't stop it being frustrating.
Just hope we meet the right criteria when we go back to hospital.
I've had a very emotional day and had a very anxious feeling in my tum allday, not sure what that is, might be stress, see how I feel tommorow x

 

[lola_90]

Hey everyone

Cheryl, you will meet your little girl so soon, that's fantastic about your parents coming out so soon!

Hayley, hope your ok, don't stress yourself out hun

Kelsey - hope your feeling more positive about ttc

Jennie - That's great your going to hear the heartbeat soon, i am so tempted to buy a doppler but know i would probably scare myself if i couldn't find the heartbeat!

Yeh I told my mum first and she was just really shocked, and my dad was just really disappointed with me as i am still at uni etc. Spent the whole weekend in tears and feel rubbish to be honest! But i know they will come round eventually, it will just take a while! Eugh don't even want to think about it, as it has stressed me out so much. But I am glad they know now, just got the rest of the family and my brothers to tell, but don't think I will do that until after my 20 week scan.

Hope everyone has a good week

 

[mummy.wannabe]

i forgot about you teling your mum and dad. Bet your glad yuove done it now. my hubbys sister fell pregnant at 18 and his mum and dad were so upset for along time but they eventually came round and as soon as the baby is born they loved him so much, babies bring family together believe me, my neice certainly has in our family.

your parents will come round, prove you can stay ay uni and still get your degree.
what are you studying?

ive stll got the anxious feeling in my tum, its annoying now but hopefully it will be by tomorrow x

 

[lola_90]

Thanks I know hun, I feel a lot older than 21 though! My mum was the same age when she had me as well!

Yeh I worked so hard to get to university, definitely not going to quit, but am taking next year out as due sept 13th and start back at uni on the 29th so don't think that will happen! Especially if i go overdue!

I am studying primary education so going to be a teacher and specialising in early years 3-7, am on placement at the moment and it is so knackering - 12 hour days are not fun!!! So emotional at the moment so i hope i don't blub in school tomorrow!

I don't really feel much better. If i'm honest, i feel worse. I feel like i have really disappointed them and let them down. It's horrible It feels so much more real now!

Can't believe I am 1/4 of the way through my pregnancy already!

 

[jennievictora]

yeah iam tempted with a doppler but i dont want to panic if i cant find heatbeat x

 

[MissyMoo88]

Aww Hayley, I know it's frustrating but try and keep positive

Lola, try not to stress with your parents, it's not good for you or bubs. Your parents will come round! Do they have any grandchildren already?

I wanted a doppler but hubby wouldn't let me, said I'd be on it all day, everyday lol and if I couldn't find the heartbeat I'd just stress myself out which is true. A few times it's takeen a few seconds for the midwifes to find her heartbeat and I've worried then so I feel better for not having one.

I woke up at 5am with dull backache and hip pain, as you know I've had ligament problems since 13 weeks but it's only usually when I strain myself but yesterday and today they've been very painful. I've red up that dull backache could be pre labour ... I hope so ! But my friend has been in pre labour for a week and a half now ... Oohhh she's just this very second text me, she's just lost her mucus plug. She's 38w3d, ooo I hope this is it I want cuddles with her little boy lol. Anyways, I went for an hours walk today and spent about 2 hours sat on my ball. I did all Isla's ironing today so now just the car to do Wednesday and we are ready

Ooo and my parents will be here for 2 weeks then 4 days later hubbys mum and dad arrive for 19 days. But then my parents and brother will be back a few weeks later for good

Any plans for the week ladies? xx

 

[mummy.wannabe]

Hopefully ul start off soon Cheryl. Bet it's a lovely but scary feeling.
Are you worried about the pain?
You decided what pain relief you will have?

Hubby rang doctors and they said it was still very low and to come to see his doctor.
He hasn't told his doctor about it all yes as he was referred by my doctor for the SA.

So it will still be ivf and just waiting for hospital appt.
Ive been fine today so all the crying is out ha

 

[MissyMoo88]

Erm, I've not really give the pain much thought. Because I don't know what's coming I think it's best not to put too much thought into it and stress myself out. I really want a water birth but on the labour ward there's only 3 rooms with baths and only 3 accredited midwives to do water births so it all depends on that I guess. But if I am in too much pain I'll have an epidural, I'll prob opt for one if I can't have a water birth. I'm going to try and stay at home as long as possible though. And if me and bubs are ok I don' want to do the 48hours in hospital after the birth, I want to come home and get settled etc.

Awww sorry that his SA was low again hun. Has he booked in to see his doctor? Do you not know when your next appointment is? Is it 100% you'll have to do IVF?

xxx

 

[mummy.wannabe]

The only thing is if you have an epidural you'll have to wait til it wears off and your checked and discharged.
Also depends when you give birth. If its early in the day you have a good chance of getting out that evening.
Hope your not in long.
I wouldn't want to be in hospital long.

Yes law has got a doctors appt next week. Still haven't had a letter from hospital yet.
I think it will defo be ivf as don't see what else can be done x

 

[jennievictora]

heard beans heartbeat today so amazing the midwife picked it up as soon as she put the thing on my stomach and heard the baby move x

 

[starryeyes]

Aww, i love looking at all the tiny baby clothes in shops

 

[kelsey111]

Sorry to hear ur hubbys sperm test isnt any better hayley here if u need to talk.

well just come off my period so on to month 20 5th march got hosp app. i feel like that day is going to maybe change the rest of our lives, you no if they say ivf or try james on differant things, tbh im 20 next month and i always thought i would of had 1 child by now and poss be pregnant with our second! oh how things change a! :'(

in the uk they like u to stay in for 24 hours really, but ovi up to the person having the baby ,

good luck with the birth cheryl cant wait to see pics and hear all about it

aww jenn that must be amazing! so happy for u

 

[mummy.wannabe]

I've had a bit of an emotional week, if it's quiet at work I think about it more and get upset.
Seeing my hubby with her neice and nephews upset me last night, I've cried at night until my eyes are so sore I fall asleep. I've been like it now since sat morning , and feeling very depressed!
I hate it! I don't know what to do with myself.
Law feels so bad that it's him. And my crying is upsetting him. But I just can't help it. Feel very sad.
We're month 19 Kelsey and its depressing to say the least.
Reading on forums upsets me but I can't stop reading them if you know what I mean.
Hopefully it's just a little blip and I'll be ok soon.
The not knowing what next is killing me.
Some doctors will make him have further tests and others will say start ivf ASAP. Just depends who we get.
Hope yours goes ok Kelsey. Just prepare yourself. We were upset because we were told in the doctors office and was such a shock. But you've heard it now so can prepare yourself.

Still waiting on hospital appt! Getting annoyed x

Sorry for the negative post everyone x