Good luck! I personally am not sure about swaying, as I had 2 boys on a girly (as I later discovered) diet and wearing rose quartz bracelets, and then 2 girls without any change to diet or lifestyle, and now having a boy, again no swaying. The only thing that did "work" for me was probably coincidental, but I will post here as it would be interesting if it is the case for anyone else. According to this calculation method, you can conceive boys or girls on certain months you need to add up - month of conception - mother's age (full years) - father's age keep adding up until you get a number under 10 odd number - boy even - girl example mother 25, father 31, month of conception - June 25+31+6=72=7+2=9 -boy For me personally it worked with all of mine and a lot of my friends have said the same. I am not saying it always works though, just a bit of fun.