I'm here for all of you. We can do this!! 
I'm so sorry maggz!Why is it so hard??? Never seemed that way when we're young and being taught to use protection because you will get pregnant without it.
I thought we'd get pregnant as soon as we tried because that's how we're taught it works. Makes me wonder how so many people get pregnant when they're not trying to? Obviously things happen, but really? How come we all are having such a hard time?
We all need to try to relax and let nature take it's course. I know that's easier said than done, but maybe we can all help eachother to try not to stress about it so much. Obviously we have to time BDing accordingly, but we should try to take all the craziness out of it. Sound good?
myself included!
You can tell your honey that you need to BD, but you're just going to lay there. Hahahahahaha!!! Kidding of course, hope you feel better. Lots of rest. Work can really be stressful. I hope it calms down for you. I LOVE my vanilla iced lattes in the mornings. I'm horrible!! 
I did cut back when we were TTC and I will again when my AF starts, but I've been drinking them every morning. I'm addicted for sure. I feel so bad you feel like crying today. I totally know how that feels. I have days where I could start crying so easily. It's not fun. I'm here for you and hopefully we can help cheer you up. 
Hang in there. 
The last couple of days my bbs have been sore like they get right around ovulation and I still have been having random EWCM, but not all the time. But last week I had the ovary pains and EWCM, so who knows? My CP is pretty high, firm and slightly opened. So I don't know. So with all that said, my AF could start in a week, or two weeks. Annoyed!!
I've learned a lot about myself, but even after doing it for 5 months, it's still totally confusing! 
I hope we all get there here soon as well. Then we can all be complaining about pregnancy stuff!
I stress myself out too much! my husband is so happy we are BDing much more than we usually do LOL!!! 
It's true, we stress ourselves out too much. My dh asked if I could dial down the crazy (he knows I'm on these forums every day lol) and just chill out about this whole thing. Which is right, but at the same time, if I didn't have you ladies to talk to I don't know where I'd be! In a straitjacket for sure 
) we need to relax a little, I think. I just wonder what that happy medium looks like, you know - staying positive, bd'ing and all that at the right time, testing at the right time, but still not getting too into symptoms and every little thing our bodies do. I hope we all find it and can start complaining about pregnancy stuff this cycle! try to do something that feels comfortable and see if resting during the day is enough to make you wanna dtd tonight 
If not then just wait a day, you don't necessarily have to bd on ovulation day since the sperm can live for a few days!
What do you ladies think?I'm sorry you're feeling like that starluck
But like Pearly and MrsR have been saying (and dh
Khatif, sorry that you're feeling sick
So I'm trying to figure out what to do. The place my DH and I rented for our vacation this next week has a hot tub. I know they say to avoid hot tubs while TTC, but we're not TTC until after my AF starts in a week or two, which means we can't start trying for 3 or 4 weeks. So, would using the hot tub in the evenings for 15-20min affect his sperm do you think for when we start trying again??? I'm worried about that.
as much as that sucks. try googling and see if you can find general guidelines about it.
I think I'll just not worry about the hot tub thing. I've Googled it and it says multiple things of course, but it also says that you'd have to expose yourself to the higher temperatures for significant amounts of time to do any damage. It says it may temporarly affect sperm because it won't produce once it gets over 98 degrees, but this is not a permanent thing. I'd hate to tell my hubby he can't enjoy the hot tub on his vacation. Maybe I should just chill out and not worry so much like we've been talking about!! I need to take my own advice obviously! LOL!! Plus it's not like he takes hot baths or is in a hot tub or sauna ever, so I would think he'd be ok if it were just in the evenings for 20 minutes or so??? Hoping I'm right. 
