I have been following your thread and have not said anything until now. I wanted to tell you my story a little.
First of all congrats. I think you will be ok this time around
I tell you that bleeding anytime during pregnancy sucks, cause you always think the worst. I do all the time. I wanted to tell you that as long as its not like a period with bad cramping, usually its fine. This time around I have had bleeding off and on periodically. This may be tmi, but after sex, or a bowel mostly, as well with the big O your uterus and cervix area, contracts. In pregnancy, this are extra sensitive and there is more blood flow to that area and the blood vessels can bleed alot easier. Also after a bowel sometimes, if you push too hard or even sometimes just a normal one can do it. It has happened to me several times and everytime I see that blood I panic and run to the bathroom constantly to make sure its going away. Last week me and OH
and that whole day I worried cause it didn't go away right away, but it wasn't like period flow, ya know. Just thought I would give you that lovely little tidbit of information
Everything is so scary right now. Try and relax, I know its hard with all you have been through. But the lady who does my nails told me this was the year of the dragon and that it was a great year to have a baby as the dragon is good luck.
So good luck to you. I wish you the best