New Year 2012 babies

[Traskey]

I've posted something for you on your thread

 

[Mrs_SomeDay]

Can I join in on this one too?
I will be CD12 tomorrow and go in for my follicle scan ... I am not to hopeful as my Dr. office has gone through some changes and not for the better With all the confusion going on, last cycle the called me on 14DPO asking why I wasn't there for an IUI WHA???
I pray this cycle workks so I don't have to deal with them any more!

 

[jfor3]

schoolteacher and Mrs_Someday - it seems like a real lottery when it comes to doctors doesn't it?

schoolteacher - can you change GPs to someone with a little more knowledge on the subject? All GPs have their specialisms and yours doesn't seem to know anything about fertility! Also, he doesn't seem to fully appreciate the emotional impact of what he's saying etc. I'd think about switching doctors to someone more supportive. Have you heard from ao30 she hasn't posted in ages?

 

[schoolteacher]

Hi jfor3!!!
good to hear from you, Your right I think I should change doctors im just a bit scared to ask! stupid I know.
I haven't heard from a030 since ive come back, I hope she is alright!?
DH is still really upset this morning, ive never seen him like this before, I really dont know what we are gonna do.
How ru doing? what cd you on now? is it 8?
im cd10. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[Bradpittswife]

It's crazy really how different everyones experience is considering we are all nhs patients and we all pay our taxes! It makes me so mad that treatment depends on where you live and who your doc is!
Schoolteacher I would deffo see about changing to another doc- even within your practice- I have the choice of about 12 different docs and some are much better than others!

 

[McMummy]

Hi

It's disgusting what a postcode lottery it is.... Wiltshire and Somerset PCTs don't fund treatment for couples that have children from previous relationships.
My friend's husband had a one night stand at 18 and got a girl pregnant and 13 years later it came back to haunt them as they couldn't get funding... they spent £15,000 on 3 attempts of IVF and now have beautiful twins (one of each) but it was so unfair on my friend as it's not HER fault he got someone knocked up many moons ago! Luckily they were in a position to fund it themselves (wasn't easy & took on a fair bit of debt) but if they weren't in a position to afford loan repayments etc she'd have been left with nowhere to turn

 

[Traskey]

Oh that seriously sucks! IVF funding is so unfair it's ridiculous. The hoops they make us all jump through. I haven't eaten food in over a month to get through their stupid rules. Yet how much money do they spend in a+e on a Saturday night with all the drunks injuring themselves or needing their stomachs pumped!

 

[McMummy]

Ah I know, it's sickening the money get spent on people that bring it all on themselves! lol

Isn't it Surrey that have put a stop to ALL funding at the moment, regardless of situation. Scary thought that other PCTs may follow suit. x

 

[Lisa84]

We get 1 free NHS IVF go and about 40 mins down the road they get 3!! How is that fair!!

What really winds me up is that they class IVF as like a lifestyle choice like cosmetic surgery on the NHS grrrr

ooo yh can i join by the way? I WILL be having a 2012 baby! xxx

 

[schoolteacher]

Hi all! interesting conversations about postcode lottery, it is really unfair!!!
McMummyttc-thats really rubbish what happened to your friend, like you say just because your partner/dh has had chn shouldnt mean the women with them with no chn should suffer. What about all the smokers and alcoholics that get help to quit or have costly operations when they need a new lung coz they've runied theirs!!!!!!!

 

[McMummy]

Hi all! interesting conversations about postcode lottery, it is really unfair!!!
McMummyttc-thats really rubbish what happened to your friend, like you say just because your partner/dh has had chn shouldnt mean the women with them with no chn should suffer. What about all the smokers and alcoholics that get help to quit or have costly operations when they need a new lung coz they've runied theirs!!!!!!!

Yep it's def not fair.... so many people abuse their bodies in diff ways then cost the NHS a fortune, no questions asked....

 

[jfor3]

Hi jfor3!!!
good to hear from you, Your right I think I should change doctors im just a bit scared to ask! stupid I know.
I haven't heard from a030 since ive come back, I hope she is alright!?
DH is still really upset this morning, ive never seen him like this before, I really dont know what we are gonna do.
How ru doing? what cd you on now? is it 8?
im cd10. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

I'm on cd 9 - I swear the weeks running up to ov are actually worse than 2ww. At least I get to satisfy my urges to poas soon with OPKs! Hope you DH is feeling better, hopefully a change of doctor may seem like a fresh start for you both. x

 

[schoolteacher]

Thanks jfor3! yeah I hate waiting to ov, but I hate the 2ww too! However like you I do like poas on opk!

How is everyone else doing? xx

 

[Rivetkitten]

The two week wait is such a long, long time. I have another day of baby talk and dividing up of all my precious baby items tomorrow, with my inlaws cackling over the impending arrival of SIL's baby. I'm thinking large doses are alcohol are in order...but no...I'm in the two week wait... /head desk/

 

[jfor3]

Dividing up baby stuff is so depressing - not only are you reminded that your baby isn't actually a baby anymore but also that you're not requiring said items any time soon. Yuk sorry hun - surely one glass of vino wouldn't hurt or failing that chocolate!

 

[Kimbre]

hi! may i join all of you!

this post made me smile, and i needed that. we have been trying since march 2010! and still no BFP.

i thought last cycle was it, but NO.

but that would be so cool to have a new year 2012 baby!

baby dust to EVERYONE!

 

[Mrs_SomeDay]

Hope everyone is doing well!

Yesterdays scan was good I only had 1 follicle I was hoping for more but it was 26mm I am hoping that's not too big. Got the trigger right then and have a nice welt preventing me from bending at the waist.

My IUI went smoothly no spotting this time YAY!!

They had me come in at 26hrs does that seem too soon after trigger?
I was guessing with my follicle being so big they wanted to do it early in case it went on its on own. What do you ladies think?

 

[Rivetkitten]

I am pretty sure I'm out this month... Boobs don't hurt today. That's always a bad sign for this time in the month. Means no baby. I just don't know what to do anymore. I had several...read SEVERAL good sized follicles last month, all ready for this month. I definitely ovulated. But ... nothing. Then there was the awful, awful Easter meal yesterday...that had me almost in tears. I dunno how I made it through.

There is honestly no reason for this other than some higher being doesn't want us getting pregnant and I've had enough.

 

[1hopefull]

I am pretty sure I'm out this month... Boobs don't hurt today. That's always a bad sign for this time in the month. Means no baby. I just don't know what to do anymore. I had several...read SEVERAL good sized follicles last month, all ready for this month. I definitely ovulated. But ... nothing. Then there was the awful, awful Easter meal yesterday...that had me almost in tears. I dunno how I made it through.

There is honestly no reason for this other than some higher being doesn't want us getting pregnant and I've had enough.

I am so sorry hun. You are only 9dpo so it is too early to tell for sure. I don't get it either, egg + sperm = baby right? not so much for us. we will be Mom's one way or another. hang in there. it is easy to get down but that's why we are here for you. vent all you need. i am here to listen.

 

[jfor3]

I am pretty sure I'm out this month... Boobs don't hurt today. That's always a bad sign for this time in the month. Means no baby. I just don't know what to do anymore. I had several...read SEVERAL good sized follicles last month, all ready for this month. I definitely ovulated. But ... nothing. Then there was the awful, awful Easter meal yesterday...that had me almost in tears. I dunno how I made it through.

There is honestly no reason for this other than some higher being doesn't want us getting pregnant and I've had enough.