@tdog good girl yes put that thermometer away and just say to yourself today I am pregnant. Easier said than done and you will worry esp after losses. It’s bad enough after one loss, but even more worrying when you have had 2 or more losses in a row.
When I was pregnant with H after the 4 losses in 7 months I was a complete nervous wreck.
and yeah it’s shit not being able to rely on lines getting darker. In the past with all my chemicals I only had faint lines and the only time b4 that I had mega blazing lines was when I lost my 1st baby at 10+4 weeks. But I only tested once back then and it was when AF was late. I was already 6 weeks when I found out.
But with all 7 chemicals I only had faint lines. That either got a bit darker or didn’t progress at all.
So because at that point my healthy pregnancies lines got darker every day I always thought lines getting darker meant all was well.
Until I was pregnant with Harley and a lady said to me why do you keep testing. And I said because I’ve had a lot of losses and I want to see lines getting darker. When she said lines on a test won’t tell you if your pregnancy is viable I felt so hurt.
So then with the miscarriage and my lines got darker and darker every single day. And they progressed so so quickly I really got excited and couldn’t believe my luck falling on cycle 4 ttc. Then at 18dpo my lines just started getting fainter and every day got fainter and fainter. I felt absolutely crushed and cheated with those dark lines.
And now 5 months later and no pregnancy since. I know my fertility has declined.
remember I’m older and women my age have more chance of miscarriage. I think this is your rainbow.