Have u tried looking into at home freezing of his sperm? That way u guys can DTD but u could also have some for when he is not home when u need it
. I know ive read about this and it can be done but I can't remember the exact process. If u ask Dr google, there will be many answers on this if its something u and ur dh are willing to do that is. Sometimes I have my dh do his business in a cup if he has to work really early on O day lol
it hasn't worked yet but I also just found out my only tube is blocked last week
. Hopefully some enzymes will fix it up!
anways, even if u cant keep some frozen for if u need it when u dont have direct access, it still only take that one time! I'm sure after a couple months (hopefully sooner!) you'll end up having time with DH the day or two before O and that's actually perfect timing. U should also let him know to do his own form of release at least once a wk in between because ive read many articles/studies about bding every 5 days (even when not fertile) to keep the sperm fresh and healthier. Of course u can bd way more then this if u guys get the chance at some point but the every 5 day "release" will def help out the sperm count. My OB told my to make sure when dh and I go in for his SA at some point for us to bd 2 days before the test...idk if that gives better results or something...? Lol idk. Sry this was so long, just tryin to figure out some little tips to help u and ur dh make the most out of ur time together
good luck hun and my fingers are crossed for u! Ur very strong just being an army wife and you'll get through this and have ur bfp in no time! GL hun!