PAL Summer 2011 Babies - From 1st tri to MC and back again in one go.

[SassyLou]

Thanks guys x

Sarah I'll try and get the msg to show, my fb has been really weird it tells me I have a msg but when I go to my inbox no matter how much I refresh it doesn't show me any mew msgs!!
I hope your appt goes well tomorrow, I'll be thinking of you
I knew about the reading and running, it's so ridiculous that some grown women don't know how to behave as such... I mean how can you bring up a child to know right from wrong if you're behaving like that!!

I love all you girlies

Thanks, you're so right about the reading and running.
Will send message to BNB inbox.
Love you too, all of you xxxx

 

[Pippin]

Emma - glad you're ok.

Pip - will definitely visit and you're right hopefully will be growing another bean.

Eve - sent you a message on FB

AFM have appointment tomorrow at another hospital to check if everythings ok, couldn't stand the thought of going back to the one where they lost Archie. Hoping will get all clear, already doing temperature

Don't know if you're all aware, I know Sequeena is, that there's been a few times where people have read in loss forums then run to 2nd tri and posted about how sad it is , how much its worried them, but never posted hugs or anything in loss. Its really upsetting people in loss forums. There's one lady, Hayley, who's been supportive with me (they all have but Hayley in particular), she was obviously upset again. I think it feels like people are coming in gawping then gossiping elsewhere if you get what I mean. Anyway I was really upset for Hayley and angry about what someone had written. Went upstairs and when I came down Rob has posted in stillbirth, SIDS and neonatal loss section. Please have a look I'm so proud of my hubby he's wonderful.

Yep I read that in second tri and I was like silly cow kinda deserved all the responses she got and the thread was quickly closed. I found it after it had been closed otherwise I think I would have joined in. Then someone said how mean people were being recently and that was closed as well. If people don't want to see it why do they go in there???? I don't understand people sometimes. I do understand people not posting as sometimes you really don't know what to say or you need to think about it then post later to get the right words, but to run and post else were is asking for trouble. Honest some women are just a bit silly and dumb! Going to go read your DH's post. xxxx

 

[LuvMySoldier]

Hey ladies... i know i don't really belong in here anymore but i've been reading in to see how y'all have been.

Sassy Archie is a beautiful perfect little boy!

Aaisrie sorry you have the hyperemesis back

Pip congrats on your little girl!

And hello to everyone else =)

I have my first fertility specialist appt tomorrow afternoon... i am so nervous/excited hoping he can get the ball rolling to some answers!

 

[heyyady]

I'm having a hard day- I have gotten to the point where the pelvic pain is almost unbearable and the only relief I get is sitting in the hot tub (Under Dr's supervision) or lying in my recliner. I still have soo much to do, and can't stand not getting out of the house! Today I loaded 1/2 the dishwasher, made rice pudding and made 1/2 of dinner and I'm all in. The pain is radiating around the inside of my legs and down almost to my feet. I know I have to take it super easy from here on out as to avoid being put on bed rest for the duration, but I'm just having a hard time accepting it all today. There. Rant over.

 

[Pippin]

I'm having a hard day- I have gotten to the point where the pelvic pain is almost unbearable and the only relief I get is sitting in the hot tub (Under Dr's supervision) or lying in my recliner. I still have soo much to do, and can't stand not getting out of the house! Today I loaded 1/2 the dishwasher, made rice pudding and made 1/2 of dinner and I'm all in. The pain is radiating around the inside of my legs and down almost to my feet. I know I have to take it super easy from here on out as to avoid being put on bed rest for the duration, but I'm just having a hard time accepting it all today. There. Rant over.

Ahhh love that must be really hard, have they not given you any pain killers to take? My doctor gave me some for my back which were stronger but still safe. Might be worth asking again or crutches might help? Try not to get too frustrated it'll make it worse

LMS good to see you hon and thanks. Hope it goes well at the specialist. Let us know how it goes. X

 

[Barbiebaby]

Love my Soldier I hope you get on ok at the specialist. x

Heyyady I did post saturday about similar pain, I know how you feel. x

In case anyone is interested I got on ok at the hospital Saturday night, dr wants me to go for another scan tomorrow to make sure baby is ok. They think it's sciatica but keeping an eye in me as can't rule out PGP.

 

[Pippin]

Love my Soldier I hope you get on ok at the specialist. x

Heyyady I did post saturday about similar pain, I know how you feel. x

In case anyone is interested I got on ok at the hospital Saturday night, dr wants me to go for another scan tomorrow to make sure baby is ok. They think it's sciatica but keeping an eye in me as can't rule out PGP.

I'm interested hon! Glad they are going to check the baby out and I feel you on the back/leg pain. I think they ruled mine out as not being sciatic but I know what it feels like and it's horrible. Hope they can help. I had quite strong pain killers have they given you any?

 

[Barbiebaby]

Ah thankyou Pip. He has given me a prescription for a painkiller, think it has codeine in? but said cold and hot packs can be more effective and also stretching exercises, seeing midwife tomorrow too and he said she will refer me for physio. My DH gave my bum cheek a good massage and that helped a bit. I think I will hold off on the tablets until its unbearable again. Hot water bottle has helped loads!

I know it's cheeky and I suppose it's more of an 'emergency' scan at early pregnancy unit but I'm hoping to ask for an idea of the baby's gender tomorrow. I'm really nervous and hoping everything is ok. Not sure if I can feel movement or not, it mostly happens when I get into bed at night as I'm drifting off and then I'm not sure if I dreamt it!!!!

 

[Aaisrie]

LMS good to see you and I'm glad you're updating us

Heyyady I SOOOOOO know what you mean, after 9w of being able to barely get off the sofa it's the frustration more than anything else, total helplessness!

BB I'm interested, I hope they find out what's wrong, I had sciatica with SPD with DD and it was awful!!

AFM I just managed a piece of toast, on bag 4 of IV fluids, waiting to find out what my ketones were this morning. Feeling rough as. Mum brought Saraya to see me last night and she brought me 2 valentines cards she'd made chris is supposed to be coming down tonight with her and Patricia so at least I'll have something to look forward to.
X

 

[Pippin]

Ah thankyou Pip. He has given me a prescription for a painkiller, think it has codeine in? but said cold and hot packs can be more effective and also stretching exercises, seeing midwife tomorrow too and he said she will refer me for physio. My DH gave my bum cheek a good massage and that helped a bit. I think I will hold off on the tablets until its unbearable again. Hot water bottle has helped loads!

I know it's cheeky and I suppose it's more of an 'emergency' scan at early pregnancy unit but I'm hoping to ask for an idea of the baby's gender tomorrow. I'm really nervous and hoping everything is ok. Not sure if I can feel movement or not, it mostly happens when I get into bed at night as I'm drifting off and then I'm not sure if I dreamt it!!!!

That's exactly what they have given me. My physio starts 4th march. The painkillers work but left me spacey I took half dose of one tablet and it worked just as well. right better go to work

 

[Aaisrie]

So I took a bump pic today, 18 +1 by LMP and I'm including another with background bedpan just for Caroline!!

https://i369.photobucket.com/albums/oo134/Aaisrie/Noodle/be10353c.jpg

https://i369.photobucket.com/albums/oo134/Aaisrie/Noodle/f422fa64.jpg

 

[Pippin]

Gorgeous bump Aaisrie but a not so gorgeous bed pain

 

[sequeena]

Love the bump! Hate the bedpan those things really are awful!

 

[Aaisrie]

Come on girls, drip stand and bed pan - what could be sexier!!!

 

[Barbiebaby]

Come on girls, drip stand and bed pan - what could be sexier!!!

Good bump though. x

 

[Pippin]

Aaisrie

Just wanted to share my text with you from my brother when I told him we were expecting a girl (who has taken to kicking me lots today )

"SOOOOO happy for you all! Having a little sister is the best thing in the world, I should know. Sam's a lucky big brother! Made me very happy too. Will give you a skype later. Lots and Lots of Love XXXXXXXX"

I still cry when I read it

 

[SassyLou]

I think there's something in that bed pan
The bump is lovely Eve.

Pip lovely text from your brother xxx

LMS lovely to hear from you.

To the ladies who are in pain, really sorry hope it improves very very soon.

AFM been to the hospital, not the one where we had Archie couldn't bring myself to go back there. They've scanned me, everything looking good and a few folicles forming in my ovaries. Will never stop missing Archie and can never replace him but it looks like we're TTC again

 

[heyyady]

Pippin- what a sweet thing to say! I hope my son eventually feels that way about his sisters!

Eve- Lovely bump How is little one fairing?

as for the pain, it's better today, so I'm dealing better. I have had back/sciatic pain for years as I have a ruptured disk at L5S1 that constantly grieves me. But this pelvic BS is just too much some days! I am not on any pain meds as anything and everything puts me at a higher risk for pre-term labor and I'm just not willing to go there. So I take a Tylenol and sit in the hot tub, and cry it out. I slept last night with a hot pack on my lady bits but it did help me get some relief and actually SLEEP!

 

[SassyLou]

Pippin- what a sweet thing to say! I hope my son eventually feels that way about his sisters!

Eve- Lovely bump How is little one fairing?

as for the pain, it's better today, so I'm dealing better. I have had back/sciatic pain for years as I have a ruptured disk at L5S1 that constantly grieves me. But this pelvic BS is just too much some days! I am not on any pain meds as anything and everything puts me at a higher risk for pre-term labor and I'm just not willing to go there. So I take a Tylenol and sit in the hot tub, and cry it out. I slept last night with a hot pack on my lady bits but it did help me get some relief and actually SLEEP!

Oh gosh Heyyady thats really awful. I wish there was something I could say or do to help you with the pain. I know I can't do much but sending you lots of

 

[Pippin]

Sassy does this mean it's all systems go as of now Archie will always hold a special place but lovely to know you'll be giving him a sibling hopefully very soon


Heyyady hope you get some relief soon