I thought those of us who have picky eaters and/or underweight children (who may or may not refuse food) could meet here and exchange ideas about what works for whom, how we try to sneak extra calories in our children's food, expand the food options, etc.
My three-year-old is not particularly picky (I don't think so, at least) but has always been skinny and is now underweight after an illness a good few weeks ago. Will eat most meat (not necessarily in large quantities), sausages, ham, most dairy (depends on individual type of cheese) but doesn't drink much milk, pasta (preferred choice), rice, cous-cous, sweet potato, small amounts of potato, polenta (only under duress), pancakes, bread/toast, eggs, broccoli, carrots, small amounts of salad leaves (usually has to be tricked into it), cucumbers, cooked tomato in sauces, most squashes, mushrooms, courgettes, aubergines (if cooked into something), leeks. Cabbage is hit and miss; soups are eaten with great mistrust. Fruit goes down well usually but some things go down better than others. Fish is mostly eaten fine with a bit of persuasion. Anything junk or sweet is, of course, met with great enthusiasm and loved instantaneously. Alternative grains have been met with mistrust and refusal every time so far.
We have seen a dietician and had positive feedback, but need to add extra calories wherever we can. So we put butter on everything (we always have, but are now even more generous), we never switched to semi-skimmed milk, we make milk smoothies with cream, avocado and fruit (offer as a drink first, then freeze and call it ice cream), add egg to most rice dishes and white sauces, offer more puddings and custard (custard is not met with approval, though). We often put whipped cream on cocoa on cold days, and on scones or pancakes. And still the weight gain is soooo slow, nearly nonexistent. My kiddiewinkle never stops, so every calorie gets burnt as soon as food is digested.
What do you do? How do you cope? I worry about stunted growth and development. I feel I am constantly offering food and hiding avocado in food. Which foods work for your child? What do you hide and how?
My three-year-old is not particularly picky (I don't think so, at least) but has always been skinny and is now underweight after an illness a good few weeks ago. Will eat most meat (not necessarily in large quantities), sausages, ham, most dairy (depends on individual type of cheese) but doesn't drink much milk, pasta (preferred choice), rice, cous-cous, sweet potato, small amounts of potato, polenta (only under duress), pancakes, bread/toast, eggs, broccoli, carrots, small amounts of salad leaves (usually has to be tricked into it), cucumbers, cooked tomato in sauces, most squashes, mushrooms, courgettes, aubergines (if cooked into something), leeks. Cabbage is hit and miss; soups are eaten with great mistrust. Fruit goes down well usually but some things go down better than others. Fish is mostly eaten fine with a bit of persuasion. Anything junk or sweet is, of course, met with great enthusiasm and loved instantaneously. Alternative grains have been met with mistrust and refusal every time so far.
We have seen a dietician and had positive feedback, but need to add extra calories wherever we can. So we put butter on everything (we always have, but are now even more generous), we never switched to semi-skimmed milk, we make milk smoothies with cream, avocado and fruit (offer as a drink first, then freeze and call it ice cream), add egg to most rice dishes and white sauces, offer more puddings and custard (custard is not met with approval, though). We often put whipped cream on cocoa on cold days, and on scones or pancakes. And still the weight gain is soooo slow, nearly nonexistent. My kiddiewinkle never stops, so every calorie gets burnt as soon as food is digested.
What do you do? How do you cope? I worry about stunted growth and development. I feel I am constantly offering food and hiding avocado in food. Which foods work for your child? What do you hide and how?