Aidan's Mummy
Mummy to Aidan and Oliver
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No one is doubting you as a mum but when you said he was 18 alarm bells rang. I would hit the roof if that was my daughter
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I'm on the fence on this one. Historically speaking, the age difference is nothing. Physically, no harm comes to her simply because he is 18. It is only our culture that makes us wonder if the relationship is moral or not. But i think if her parents are okay, her safety is probably not in any danger.
Honestly, I cant say anything because my fob is a piece of dog doodoo, and he's 18. Where her fob is handling everything maturely and responsibly.
While there are many terrible people out there, there is the chance that her OH is a genuinely good person. so we should not put him down.
When i was 13 i was seriouslly taken advantage of by a man much older than me who was 18,
at the time i thought i was so grown up and that he was the best thing in the world its only now that im older i can see what an evil evil person he was.
I thank god that my dad dealt with it and i never saw him again i remember how upset both of my parents were and i have been traumatised by it to this day,
Im sorry but what man of 18 in there right mind would go out with a 13 year old girl? Not only that but ask them to marry them and have children?
Are you sure your parents know about all of this? I find it hard to belive if it was my daughter the police would be involved.
When i was 13 i was seriouslly taken advantage of by a man much older than me who was 18,
at the time i thought i was so grown up and that he was the best thing in the world its only now that im older i can see what an evil evil person he was.
I thank god that my dad dealt with it and i never saw him again i remember how upset both of my parents were and i have been traumatised by it to this day,
Im sorry but what man of 18 in there right mind would go out with a 13 year old girl? Not only that but ask them to marry them and have children?
Are you sure your parents know about all of this? I find it hard to belive if it was my daughter the police would be involved.
Yes. They have considered letting us live in the same house before. Many people have approved of our relationship because he is NOT a bad man.