*** Positive Mental Attitude TTC - Anyone joining us? ***

[Smiler82]

Ooh your family sound a bit psychic eh Have you told your OH they had the baby dream again, just incase you get pg and he thinks you blabbed the news to everyone

How long til you test?

 

[lilesMom]

no i havent told him cos he will just say i told um again he wont believe it anyway. oh i did tell him about a week ago before i thought it might be us when we werent trying. its weird u know the way the docs date the pregancy from first af , they seem to get the dream then too my sis said its usually at least a month before she finds out who its for, sometimes more if people dont tell early. most o my family do tell early though cos my mom and sis will hve people told if not
my af is due 23rd , il try not to test before then cos i dont wanna be dissappointed

 

[mommylov]

Just sending to you ladies!!

 

[lilesMom]

thanks amy, right back at u xxx

 

[Smiler82]

How you feeling this week so far lilemom? This is going to feel like a long week eh! Good idea not to test early. I'm a bit naughty for that, I usually let myself test at about 12 dpo. I'm hoping I will ovulate in the next couple of days. Getting nervous in case it doesn't happen

 

[lilesMom]

hi sweetie, time has slowed to a near stop ha ha
oh well at least im able to be int he tww this month, its abonus
um.... itested yest, i knew it was gonna be bfn, it was far too early , but i did it just in case i might get early good news ha ha , im swinging between being convinced i am to not having a clue if i am ha ha , so heres hoping and fx
12 dpo would be the 19th for me , il prob test in a few days again, il try to wait till sunday but i prob wont. i have a loads o test strips in my bathroom begging me to use um
fx for ur Ov chick, xxx loads o BD and fx for bfp xxxxxxx

 

[Smiler82]

Haha you naughty girl!! That was v early It's so tempting though isn't it, I know. I had a drawer full of internet cheapies and I got through them fairly quickly It's like having chocolate biscuits in the cupboard when you're meant to be on a diet

 

[lilesMom]

exact same ha ha. its far too tempting, i knew it had to be bfn but i still had to, i feel better now cos its not forbidden anymore i know i can test but also know its pointless when did u get ur bfp before, did u ever get it earlier than af?
i dont know if im convincing myself r what but my tummy feels weird, but i am just off antibiotics so could be that, i hope not any sign of Ov for u? do u use opks all the time? xx

 

[lilesMom]

how is every1 else?
hopefull big hugs hon, hope ur aright xxxxxxxx

 

[Smiler82]

exact same ha ha. its far too tempting, i knew it had to be bfn but i still had to, i feel better now cos its not forbidden anymore i know i can test but also know its pointless when did u get ur bfp before, did u ever get it earlier than af?
i dont know if im convincing myself r what but my tummy feels weird, but i am just off antibiotics so could be that, i hope not any sign of Ov for u? do u use opks all the time? xx

Well glad you feel better With my first pregnancy I'd only just starting charting and had no idea what I was doing, and as I'm used to having really long cycles I didn't actually test til I was 6 weeks! With my 2nd I knew my charts etc a lot better, and I was very good and didn't test until 17 dpo. I had quite a few clues with that pregnancy, I know it sounds a bit strange but because I felt like I was pregnant, it made not testing easier if you see what I mean. I also was not expecting to have fallen that cycle so I wasn't as desperate as I am now!!

No I don't use OPKs, you can't get accurate readings with PCOS. I was going to start using them now I'm on clomid but I didn't order any in time for this cycle. I've been having some pain on my lower right side the last few days but not sure. I thought ov pain would only last a day or so, not 3 or 4. Can't tell by CM either as we are using PreSeed and DTD loads, so it's too hard to tell!!

How does your tummy feel, do you feel sick? I never felt sick in the 2WW but I remember with my last one, my tummy just felt a bit sensitive and I didn't like it when DH put his hand on it, or when I was leant against the sink in the kitchen, things like that. Hope it is a good sign for you

 

[lilesMom]

yeah 3 r 4 days sounds a bit long alright but im not sure really, i only ever got Ov pains for 2 cycles after d and e , they r gone again i didnt get um this cycle .
but i used to never get um so im not worried, i got my other Ov signs that i usually get

hope it is ur Ov and u catch this month xxxx

my tummy doesnt feel sore r anything , just a full feelin where i get af pains, i remember this feeling from being preg last time but i dont know if it has to do with my now leaving kidney infection, i think i may be pregnnat but i really dont wanna get my hopes up too high , cos i could just be convincin myself !!!

 

[Hopeful335]

Hey ladies. You all sound busy. I'm okay. Not tearful or anything like last time just fed up!! With the mmc because id got to 12 weeks thinking I was okay think I'd got attached-not so this time, I didn't have time and didn't let myself! Just can't bring myself to really think about it too much.

Hospital said there was no physical reason I couldn't try this cycle if I wanted as scan all clear, done naturally etc. Been using CBFM, OPK's and monitoring cm-think I'm getting close to ov but not 100% sure I want to. Do I wait another month and prolong this limbo, do I try and fail, do I try risk getting pregnant and miscarrying again but at least they'd investigate the-but what if they don't find anything???) or do I try get pregnant and go on to have happy pregnancy and wonderful baby?? Which is last is obvious one I want but not sure it's going to happen!!!

What about you all?? Lilesmom you think you ov and may be preg?? Smiler?? Where's bump2baby gone??? x

 

[lilesMom]

hopeful, if doc say no reason not to , then go for it. my sil had her second baby that she concieved right after a natural mc and she is over 1 yr now and perfect xxxxx
fx and big hugs to u hon. xxxxxxxxxx i really really hope u get ur sticky bean now babe xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
i left u a message before i saw this so u have answered my qs here xxxx
il keep my fingers and toes crossed for u xxxxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

just want to add my sil was told by docs u r really fertile right after natural mc , so i hope u catch if u decide to go ahead. dont pressure urself though , if ur head is melted and u need more time , take it, u will OV next month too xxxxxxxxxxxx
best of luck babe, big hugs xxxx

 

[Smiler82]

Oh hopeful I really feel for you, I totally sympathise with all the questions running round your head.

It's hard to know what is best to do, it's times like these we could really use a crystal ball and have someone just tell us what we should do. It really depends on if you feel strong enough to try again. Could you maybe NTNP so there isn't as much pressure? And just tell yourself not to get your hopes up this month. We all hate to not be pregnant after trying, but it's not 'failing'. It's not our fault if it doesn't happen, don't be too hard on yourself

Lilesmom is right though, they say you are more fertile for 3 months after a loss. So even if you don't fall pg this cycle, it won't be too long til you can try again. Take a deep breath hun and look after yourself xx

 

[Smiler82]

my tummy doesnt feel sore r anything , just a full feelin where i get af pains, i remember this feeling from being preg last time but i dont know if it has to do with my now leaving kidney infection, i think i may be pregnnat but i really dont wanna get my hopes up too high , cos i could just be convincin myself !!!

Lilesmom I am wishing you so much luck, I hope this is your lucky cycle.

I am hoping so badly that I am ovulating today...no pains or anything but my temp dipped this morning so maybe that is a sign. TMI here but also feeling quite up for it, if you know what I mean! Waiting for DH to come home, I hope he hurries up....

 

[lilesMom]

smiler i always get like that before Ov , its one of my Ov signs. our bodies know what they r at alright fx for u xxx that with ur temp goin down sounds great, BD like crazy xx best o luck xxxx

i def feel like somethings goin on, i so hope im right , i had my niece who is one in my arms today and she bumped my boob with her elbow and it really hurt! i never have sensitive boobs, please body dont be tricking me xx

hopeful we r always thinkin of u sweetie, loads of love xxxxxxx

 

[Smiler82]

Well I did have a temp increase this morning, but not sure if it was enough. Sometimes I only have a small rise, other times it's huge so it's hard to know. Will have to see the next couple of days...though we are going to the in-laws this weekend and I never sleep well on the camp bed!! So temps will prob be off for the next few days, which isn't ideal...will just have to keep on DTD just in case.

Aww I hope it's not your body tricking you either lilesmom...it's just so hard not knowing. When did you say you were going to test? Can't remember if it is tomorrow or the weekend!

Hopeful, how are you doing? I hope you haven't been driving yourself mad thinking of all the options, though I know it's hard not to. Hope you are ok

Everyone else ok??

 

[lilesMom]

fx for u sweetie, xxx
i test this morn but bf, last time i didnt get my bfp till day af was due which is sunday so stiil waiting thanks chick xx

 

[lilesMom]

well ladies, do ye want the good news or the great news



to all xxxxxxxx

its a faint line cos its 2 days early but by god it is there, whoop whoop.
i thought i was but was afraid to get excited



i did angel cards last nt and came up with the family card and first line of it is, there will be a new addition to ur family, i knew then and started bawling ha ha
thanks lile my love and thanks god and thanks girls for boosting me all the time through all the yuckiness, love ye ,
fx for many more to follow and happy and healthy babas at the end,
ps the only one who knows before ye is OH xxxxxxxxxxx

hopefull , i hope u can stay hopefull and that we will be bump buddies realy soon, love u hon, hope ur ok and i hope this doesnt upset u, i just had to share xxx. ye have been with me for the bad , i gotta share the good too, love and hugs babe xxx