*** Positive Mental Attitude TTC - Anyone joining us? ***

[Smiler82]

Thanks lilesmom No, I didn't get my cards read in the end. I thought about asking MIL to do it but you pick your own cards and I kind of wasn't in the right mood, if you see what I mean. I really didn't want to hear any bad news so I thought best not to pick my cards when feeling a bit mizzy!!

Really glad to hear that things are all looking good with you and the consultant isn't too worried. I think that is sometimes the prob with GPs, they know a bit about everything but nothing in great detail, so when you have something wrong and you research it yourself, you end up learning more than them sometimes! I've often had to tell GPs about stuff to do with PCOS and they say "well I've never read that so I don't think that's right" but then when I spoke to a consultant they tell me I'm right and the GP is wrong. A bit worrying!!

 

[lilesMom]

yeah ur right babe, as my mom would say 'jack of all trades and master of none ' ha ha
she muddled me for a bit though
hope ur feelin bit better hon i know each set back is a bi**h but u will get there soon hon xxxxxxxxxx keeping my fx for u xxx

 

[Smiler82]

Ha yeah your mum is absolutely right

I had a really big temp rise this morning, I hope it was for real!! May be because I was all snuggled up in my winter duvet Feeling a bit better today ta. Done some artsy crafty stuff that always makes me feel better

How are you feeling? Have you found anywhere for private scans? I'm not even pg and I know where to go if we want one haha

 

[lilesMom]

thats great hon, both on temp and on feeling better
yeah i now where i can go, im wavering now about early scan , i have tilted uterus i was told and it can make early scan difficult, they cant see properly sometimes til later and cant get the heartbeat as easily. if i went for scan and they couldnt see or hear heartbeat cos of it, i be even more freaked il see when it comes closer to it how i feel, il prob change my mind a billion times before it anyway

 

[Smiler82]

Ah yeah that would freak you out totally eh. I guess it may depend on how long til your first scan at the hospital - I remember they told me before the first scan can be anywhere between 11 and 14 weeks. I think waiting to 14 weeks would be really hard so maybe a week or 2 before just to check. Would that still be too early for you, did they say how big the baby needs to be before they can see them clearly considering your tilted uterus?

 

[lilesMom]

it depends on the person , usually as the baby grows it just pushes the uterus out and it corrects itself can happen anytime really, but usually about 10 weeks ish, i still havent gotten my scan date, usually about 12 weeks here but can be bit later my last one i would have been 12.5 weeks. il prob end up goin early all right. ill never be able to wait that long

 

[lilesMom]

i got a letter from the hosp, they r giving me an early scan, i am so happy whoop.
16th oct they usually dont, so im delighted

 

[Miss cat]

i got a letter from the hosp, they r giving me an early scan, i am so happy whoop.
16th oct they usually dont, so im delighted

That's really great, best of luck, that's a day before mine! X

 

[Hopeful335]

Lilesmom that's great!! After my second mc they've said to ring epu and they'll get me in for an early scan. She said not to go to doc but ring them direct-which is good of them! The best of luck to both of you-Lilesmom and miss cat-you deserve it!!

Smiler how are you today? I'm 10dpo on my 1 time trying and seeing what happens! I swing between feeling certain I'm pregnant and then like I'm not at all!! Had some nausea but then again also felt a bit I'll-that's gone now, pulling feeling in uterus but can't remember if I had before, temps are up but after comparing charts not quite at last 2 pg levels yet (but then again they weren't at 10dpo last time), little or no creamy cm which I got last 2 times but didn't write down when it started and can't remember how early!! Know I'm not as knackered as last 2 time which were my biggest signs but last time I was less tired than first so who knows. Maybe I'm just being too optimistic and I should just get my head round that I'm not and wait for nxt time. I don't know I suppose we have to have PMA or where would we be!!??

Not really saying much to hubby this tww is like the elephant in the room! He's not always easiest person to talk to about this stuff but this time it's harder than ever! Thanks for listening ladies-any thoughts?? x x

 

[Smiler82]

Hey,hopeful good to hear from you First cycle after a loss is so hard eh ) Has your OH said much about how he feels re the loss? He might be sad, worried for you, hopeful all at the same time...I know mine never wants me to get my hopes up too much. He is so good trying to be strong for me In never really know what he truly thinks in the 2ww. They just don't talk as much do they. Good luck tho, not long til you can test x

I'm pretty disappointed, still no OV Temp dropped again, thought I o.d CD 27 but no. CD 31 today, clomid clearly not working!!

 

[lilesMom]

hopeful that could be a good sign hon, both times i got bfp i had pulling in my uterus at this time, fx for u honey xx big hugs xxx

oh no smiler, stupid clomid, hope it works next cycle hon xxxxxxxxx

 

[Hopeful335]

Rubbish Smiler! I'm really sorry. I know what it's like to ov late and be waiting I'm just gutted clonus hasn't worked-yet! Until my first mc I ov'd all over place! I could be anywhere between cd21 and cd42!! Since mc I've had cd13, cd18 and cd19 so they've got better bizarrely! Fx clonus works-I know a girl who was on it and it made her so reg she's had triplets!! Honestly! No pregnancy after yrs of trying then triplets-2boys and a girl! Keep PMA-we have to-it's hard though I know!!!! x x x

 

[Smiler82]

Thank you hopeful Wow your cycles before your mc sound like mine! Have you got PCOS too? My ovulation ranges from CD25-CD50. I had a big temp rise today but I just don't know if I can trust it! If you look at my chart you'll see the last 4 days have been crazy temps! They're often rocky but this is just ridiculous...but oh my gosh, triplets!!! That's just scary

How is everything with you, hopeful? You and your OH doing okay?

 

[Hopeful335]

Hey Smiler, I had loads of blood work done, hormone tests etc and they ruled out pcos! Just said I was irregular. Had a look at your chart-it's a strange one-could be fall back as there is a temp rise-I've had fall back before but it's a nightmare as ff makes you wait like more days to confirm! keep us updated! X

Had to share my (fingers crossed) good news! One time and it worked! I couldn't resist testing at 11dpo -after last times 16dpo weak positive-but it was positive of cb digital and Internet cheapy!! Yey. I truly do have a good feeling about this time!! Haven't told dh yet-know he'll be terrified for us, particularly as its so quick!

Just proves once did it! Was on dh birthday which was nice too and ff gives due sat as 13june, day I found out about mmc-I thin that's a good omen??

X x x

 

[lilesMom]

oh yey hopeful, i was hoping it was, best o luck for sticky bean xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

smiler hope that temp rise is good news for u too hon x

 

[Smiler82]

Oh wow hopeful that is amazing news xxxx you told DH yet?

 

[Smiler82]

Me again ladies

how is everyone today? I am a bit happier as I'm pretty sure I o'd now Just not sure which day!! Possibly CD28 or CD31. If it was 28 then we are in with a chance....if it was 31 then definitely not!! So am in the 2WW now, but just not sure where exactly

Hope you are all ok xx

 

[lilesMom]

hey hon if it was 31 u still have a chance from bd on 28, spermy can live for up to 5 days and its more important to bd before Ov than after. best o luck sweetie, so glad clomid worked xxx

 

[Smiler82]

Thanks Lilesmom Yeah I guess there would still be a bit of a chance if it was CD31 but not as high a chance as if I o'd on CD28. We had sex on CD 24,25 and 27, but then we didn't have sex again til CD32 as DH was away for work.

I really don't want to start reading into symptoms at this early stage but my boobs are big and quite sore, and have got awful heartburn which in turn is making me feel a bit sick. Did you have any symptoms as early as 6 dpo? Usually I would tell other people that 6 dpo is far too early to have symptoms but of course when it is yourself you spend ages thinking about it