*** Positive Mental Attitude TTC - Anyone joining us? ***

[lilesMom]

i honestly did hon and i talk myself out of um cos i thought it was way too early to have any. i was really gassy and my boobs felt sensitive, not sore , i was just more aware of um and i started gettin a pully felling in my lower tummy at about 7 or 8 dpo. oooohhh fingers crossed, u want me to do ur angel cards? x

 

[lilesMom]

oh smiler i have a really good feeling about u, i so hope its right, i just pulled 3 cards, hope u dont mind but u said ur MIl does so i knwo it wont freak u out its all good, 2 of ur 3 cards are ones i kept gettin around my bfp xx
il post um there now

 

[Hopeful335]

Smiler i told him Monday night-he was so exited and not at all negative or anything. He's just a bit worried about me now. He says he's going to wrap me up in cotton wool!

So glad you've ov'd yey!! At least clomid seems to have worked! I always think tww is okay-better than waiting to ov when you're irregular!

I was so happy about this pregnancy and so positive and now I'm getting myself all panicky again and worried-did another preg test again to check I wasn't losing it! But then it was a weak positive so now I'm all worried! Got my positive at dpo10, am now on dpo 13 still weak. Last time I didn't even get a positive until dpo16 and it was weak then but what if it goes the same way? I can't face another. I'm so scared!

How's everyone else? x x

 

[lilesMom]

1) Family : this situation is rooted in an emotional experience with a family memeber that we can help u heal , in your mind and heart surround this person and urself with calming blue light and many angels. be open to the gifts of this situation adn feel the peace. a new addition to ur family is entering. release old unwanted hurts and forgive urself and ur family

2 Play : set aside ur worries and work and indulge urself in play and treats . playfullness will lift ur spirit and energy so u can return to work renewed. you have been working and worrying a lot and it is draining u, make time for u and laughter. release any guilt about having fun to the angels. you deserve happiness, pleasure and enjoyment .

3) Energy work : u got this card cos u would benefit form energy work such as reiki or qi gong. or u could be guided to learn energy work urself. you r sensitive to energy so clear ur self and ur home by imaginging it and you bathed in purple and white light .

 

[lilesMom]

Smiler i told him Monday night-he was so exited and not at all negative or anything. He's just a bit worried about me now. He says he's going to wrap me up in cotton wool!

So glad you've ov'd yey!! At least clomid seems to have worked! I always think tww is okay-better than waiting to ov when you're irregular!

I was so happy about this pregnancy and so positive and now I'm getting myself all panicky again and worried-did another preg test again to check I wasn't losing it! But then it was a weak positive so now I'm all worried! Got my positive at dpo10, am now on dpo 13 still weak. Last time I didn't even get a positive until dpo16 and it was weak then but what if it goes the same way? I can't face another. I'm so scared!

How's everyone else? x x

god i know the feeling hon, some days im fine and other days i wake up in awfull mood convinced im gonna lose it again. i try my best to focus on the better days and the good stuff all we can do is hope that all goes well.
its should still be weak pos hon, u havent even hit 14dpo yet, most people wouldnt even have a pos by now so we r lucky. i am 5.5 weeks now and it is stronger, for first week i counted it good that the line was just still there. maybe u just drank more r something and pee was diluted xxxxxxx fx for u honey xxxxxxx

 

[Smiler82]

1) Family : this situation is rooted in an emotional experience with a family memeber that we can help u heal , in your mind and heart surround this person and urself with calming blue light and many angels. be open to the gifts of this situation adn feel the peace. a new addition to ur family is entering. release old unwanted hurts and forgive urself and ur family

2 Play : set aside ur worries and work and indulge urself in play and treats . playfullness will lift ur spirit and energy so u can return to work renewed. you have been working and worrying a lot and it is draining u, make time for u and laughter. release any guilt about having fun to the angels. you deserve happiness, pleasure and enjoyment .

3) Energy work : u got this card cos u would benefit form energy work such as reiki or qi gong. or u could be guided to learn energy work urself. you r sensitive to energy so clear ur self and ur home by imaginging it and you bathed in purple and white light .

Oh wow thank you so much for this lilesmom The bit about family really brought a tear to my eye, and they all make sense in their own way Which two did you keep getting around your bfp?

I don't want to read too much into these things, but when we were away I was shuffling cards and dropped one, and MIL said the card I dropped meant something good and something unexpected. So even though we are TTC I had written off this cycle by that point, so who knows....spooky

Re symptoms my lower tummy is feeling a bit full, iykwim. Like I would feel a few days before AF, certainly not this early.

STOP IT Smiler!! Stop it with the symptom spotting!! I just don't want to gear myself up for a big disappointment

 

[Smiler82]

Smiler i told him Monday night-he was so exited and not at all negative or anything. He's just a bit worried about me now. He says he's going to wrap me up in cotton wool!

So glad you've ov'd yey!! At least clomid seems to have worked! I always think tww is okay-better than waiting to ov when you're irregular!

I was so happy about this pregnancy and so positive and now I'm getting myself all panicky again and worried-did another preg test again to check I wasn't losing it! But then it was a weak positive so now I'm all worried! Got my positive at dpo10, am now on dpo 13 still weak. Last time I didn't even get a positive until dpo16 and it was weak then but what if it goes the same way? I can't face another. I'm so scared!

How's everyone else? x x

Oh bless your DH I am sure he will treat you like an absolute princess

I can totally see why you would be freaking out right now but it really really does not have to mean anything bad. This is really great website and has answers to lots of questions like this:
https://www.peeonastick.com/hptfaq.html#8

Qs 8 9 and 10 and 23 are quite helpful and interesting, like food can even affect your test, something I didn't know.

Sending massive hugs to you and huge amounts of PMA.

 

[lilesMom]

1) Family : this situation is rooted in an emotional experience with a family memeber that we can help u heal , in your mind and heart surround this person and urself with calming blue light and many angels. be open to the gifts of this situation adn feel the peace. a new addition to ur family is entering. release old unwanted hurts and forgive urself and ur family

2 Play : set aside ur worries and work and indulge urself in play and treats . playfullness will lift ur spirit and energy so u can return to work renewed. you have been working and worrying a lot and it is draining u, make time for u and laughter. release any guilt about having fun to the angels. you deserve happiness, pleasure and enjoyment .

3) Energy work : u got this card cos u would benefit form energy work such as reiki or qi gong. or u could be guided to learn energy work urself. you r sensitive to energy so clear ur self and ur home by imaginging it and you bathed in purple and white light .

Oh wow thank you so much for this lilesmom The bit about family really brought a tear to my eye, and they all make sense in their own way Which two did you keep getting around your bfp?

I don't want to read too much into these things, but when we were away I was shuffling cards and dropped one, and MIL said the card I dropped meant something good and something unexpected. So even though we are TTC I had written off this cycle by that point, so who knows....spooky

Re symptoms my lower tummy is feeling a bit full, iykwim. Like I would feel a few days before AF, certainly not this early.

STOP IT Smiler!! Stop it with the symptom spotting!! I just don't want to gear myself up for a big disappointment

the first 2 honey , i kept getting them for about a month before my bfp and didnt make proper sense cos i wasnt even ttc yet, now it does, xxx
mine felt the same, i was feeling like really mild version of af feeling but i tried to convince myself i was imagining it, its hard to draw that line between gettin hopes up too high and keeping up some hope xxx i know the feeling.
fx sweetie xxxxxxxxxxx
when would be end of TWW? xxx

 

[Smiler82]

Yeah, it is a really fine line eh

Well it depends if I'm 7dpo today or 4dpo...I think I will test on Saturday 13th, as I will either be 13dpo or 16dpo so hopefully able to get an accurate result. I was having quite a lot of mild achyness yesterday but has tapered off today. DH is loving the fact that my boobs are massive! But that often happens during/after ovulation so can't rely on that. Other tiny things make me hopeful but then I always remind myself of how with my first 2 pregnancies I didn't get any noticeable symptoms til 6 weeks, so I shouldn't get my hopes up too much.

Hmm so you got the cards a month before your bfp so I guess it could be another month for me too?

Hopeful - any news? How are you doing hun, have been thinking about you, hope everything is okay xx

 

[lilesMom]

not too much time but will prob feel like forever for u xxx
yeah i meant the month that i did ttc, see we didnt decide to go ahead with ttc till i got liver U/s results which was on day 12 so i didnt know i was ttc till it was BD time i had been getting the cards since af that time and thought they didnt make sense cos i didnt expect to ttc till following month at earliest but it did make sense i just didnt know it
but timing isnt exact could be next month too chick xxxxxx
fx for now xxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[Smiler82]

Thanks lilesmom Am trying to be calm about it but forgot how frustrating the 2WW can be!! Time is dragging I am telling myself not to get hopes up for this cycle, maybe next. That is what I was thinking all along until last week, so must get back into that mindset I have been cramping so much though, I don't know what that's all about. It kind of feels like I might have some big cysts or something?? I just keep feeling quite heavy down there - lying in bed last night I was quite uncomfortable as it kind of felt like I had something inside that was weighing my insides down and putting pressure on my lower back. I can't imagine that being a symptom of pregnancy at this stage, which made me think maybe cysts instead. So trying to go with that theory instead....just can't wait for this next week to be over!!!

How are you doing anyway, you feeling ok lilesmom?

Hopeful - how are you my dear? Any news from you? I really hope you are ok xxx

 

[lilesMom]

yup i only had one tww this time but it was more than enough, i drove myself crazy for it and tested all the time even though i knew it was far too early finally got faint bfp at 12dpo, but boy was it faint but it was there woo hoo.
yeah sometimes ur beter off thinkin like that , it is so hard to wait but thank god its not that long to wait it feels like ages but then when u look back on it u think it was ok actually, weird xxx
im grand babe, super tired today, ive slept 15 hrs
thanks god im not working , i wouldnt be able
got acne too doh but all good signs that something happening so def not complaining. its weird that b2b has dissappeared, i hope she is ok.
hopeful hi hon, hope things goin well xxxxxxxxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

i just went on b2b page to leave a message , she hasnt been on since sep 13th so she just must be gone. hope she is ok, x

 

[Smiler82]

Yeah I know, I try and say to myself that in the grand scheme of things, a week really isn't that long! When you're in it though it really does drag...

Blimey, 15 hours!! Last time I was pg I was working and it really was a killer. I had 1.5 hr commute, and I used to fall asleep at my desk You feel so drained eh. Part of the reason why I've stayed working for myself at home is the hope that if I do get pg, I can just nip off for naps whenever I need it! And no more early starts for the train

Yes I was thinking about b2b as well. Maybe she just needs some time away, these boards are a great support but at other times you sometimes just need a break from all the ttc chat.

Hopeful if you are out there do let us know how you are xxx

 

[lilesMom]

its weird all week i had loads of energy and hadnt felt as good in a long time, my tummy is abit upset too so maybe im sleeping something off least i can.
working from home is ideal for u , no commute time and hurray for sneaky naps h aha

yeah hope its just she wanted to focus less on ttc

 

[Hopeful335]

Hey ladies I'm okay. Feeling fairly positive. Had nausea every morning and one or two mid day episodes, sore boobs, tiredness and am getting spotty-all of these I experienced first time (not last) except the nausea so I'm taking them as good signs. I'm not being sick but who would have though gipping and feeling rotten was good but I'd take andorr if I can get to the end of 9 month with a healthy baby!!! Much more positive than last time. DOne a few tests and unlike last time lines are getting darker!! Yey. No more gonna stop driving mysf mad!

Smiler tww is worse when you have long cycles I think! This one and last 2 for me have been shorter, 29-35 days ish so tww doesn't seem as bad. When you get to cd30 no ov/I used to get so fed up!!! Hang in there! I've had positives at dpo13, dpo16 and then this time dpo10-very weak on Internet cheapy but there was a line! Fx x x x x

I went on b2b and noticed she'd not been on since 13th-hope all okay? And no more bad news!!

Lilesmom I'm knackered. Apart from that how you feeling? How far along are you??? Symptoms?

Miss Cat are you still there? x x x

 

[Smiler82]

Ah great to hear from you Hopeful I'm so pleased you're feeling ok, was getting worried about you! Think it is a good idea to stop testing now!! Have you booked an appointment with your doctor?

Ha yeah I get SO fed up with all of the waiting, waiting to ovulate, waiting to test, it's so crap! I will see how this week goes but based on how I'm feeling yesterday and today I don't think I'm pregnant this time. That's bad PMA I know haha But I've had stuff going on to keep my mind off it and surprise surprise, when I'm not thinking about it I don't have any symptoms. I have got some Internet cheapies left though so I fully expect to crack at some point and test anyway!

 

[lilesMom]

Hey ladies I'm okay. Feeling fairly positive. Had nausea every morning and one or two mid day episodes, sore boobs, tiredness and am getting spotty-all of these I experienced first time (not last) except the nausea so I'm taking them as good signs. I'm not being sick but who would have though gipping and feeling rotten was good but I'd take andorr if I can get to the end of 9 month with a healthy baby!!! Much more positive than last time. DOne a few tests and unlike last time lines are getting darker!! Yey. No more gonna stop driving mysf mad!

Smiler tww is worse when you have long cycles I think! This one and last 2 for me have been shorter, 29-35 days ish so tww doesn't seem as bad. When you get to cd30 no ov/I used to get so fed up!!! Hang in there! I've had positives at dpo13, dpo16 and then this time dpo10-very weak on Internet cheapy but there was a line! Fx x x x x

I went on b2b and noticed she'd not been on since 13th-hope all okay? And no more bad news!!

Lilesmom I'm knackered. Apart from that how you feeling? How far along are you??? Symptoms?

Miss Cat are you still there? x x x

hi hon, glad alls goin well . im pretty much same as u, im wrecked, queasiness is settin in now too, acne and sore boobs on and off but im taking um all as good signs this time we must be one of few people who welcome feeling crappy ha ha xxxxxxx im 6 weeks tomor , so we rfairly close i reckon xxx

 

[lilesMom]

smiler best o luck for this month and next , i think one of um gonna be good for u xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[Smiler82]

Thank you lilesmom keep the PMA going for me xxx

Aww sorry you feel crappy hopefully is a good sign all is progressing well tho xx