Recurrent Miscarriage Thread

[LeeC]

Thanks Rabbitchild, how are you?
What feels right today, is looking forward to a large glass of wine tonight, it's been a while lol...

 

[LeeC]

And as for my mental health, well yeah, the least said about that the better, all this waiting, waiting and more waiting....... it's enough to drive anyone crazy eh!!!

 

[petitpas]

Lee, someone mentioned to me today to maybe stop ttc for a while for emotional reasons. I told her I could cope better with the idea of trying and possibly losing than passing more due dates and still not being properly pregnant. A loss is still a loss and to me personally spacing them out is just prolonging the agony.
It really insults me when people have a non medical opinion on taking a break. For goodness sake!
Unfortunately my own gp is also full of useless advice and I circumvent as much as possible (for example, he denied me heparin in my first pregnancy despite my haematologist requesting it for my own safety). Is there any way you could see a specialist and get them to prescribe you something?

 

[Rabbittchild]

I'm with you Petitpas, not being able to TTC and have that hope kills me I would only take a break if there was a physical reason why.

AFM - am freaking terrified bfp today

 

[LeeC]

Thanks Pepitas and Rabbitchild.

I completely agree, some of these gp's make me wanna SCREAM!!!
The gynae who I seen after my op said to try asap becuase of my age (38 this yr) and previous track record of multiple m/c's... not very sensitive, but I think he had good intentions.

This is exactly how I feel now, just waiting for AF is driving me nuts and the thought of not trying and more time passing is not a pleasant one. I'm just too impatient.

After recurrent m/c's it does get scarier each time, but nowhere near as scary as when I think about the day someone may say it's not going to happen so give up trying.

So for now, I'll have a 4 week break, then back to business.

I'm so glad we have each other to rant to on here, thanks again. Right, now where's my straightjacket!!!!

Big Hugs xxx

 

[LeeC]

OMG Rabbitchild, I just noticed your BFP.

MASSIVE CONGRATULATIONS

I know how you feel, so happy, yet so scared.

I am so happy for you, sending you loads and loads of positive vibes

xxx

 

[Rabbittchild]

LoL do we get a discount if we bulk order those straight jackets?

Drs are so bloody insensitive, whatever happened to teaching them about empathy, compassion and bedside manner?

Thanks LeeC - am petrified, about to start progesterone tonight and aspirin tomorrow. Thanks for the positive thoughts, will be needing them my viability scan is on the 16th of March - AGES away.

 

[9babiesgone]

congrats rabbit. I also got my over the last few days.


to all still trying! It is so hard!!

 

[Rabbittchild]

wow congrats 9babies that's great news. Wishing your all the stickiness!

 

[LeeC]

Congratulations 9babies gone.
Wow, all this great news is making me feel better today, as I know we all really deserve and want it so much.
I will celebrate for you both tonight.

 

[9babiesgone]

wow congrats 9babies that's great news. Wishing your all the stickiness!

Thanks! I am praying for your sticky bean that it sticks!!

Congratulations 9babies gone.
Wow, all this great news is making me feel better today, as I know we all really deserve and want it so much.
I will celebrate for you both tonight.

I hope you get your soon lee!!! YOu deserve it also!!

xxx

 

[LeeC]

Meant to say Rabbitchild, the progesterone got me further than I'd ever been last time, unfortunately though it implanted in the wrong place but has def given me hope for the future and I am 100% on progesterone and aspirin for my next BFP

What great news to start the weekend with xxx.

 

[LeeC]

Thanks 9babiesgone.

Wow, you ladies are def motivating me lol...
Just need 1 cycle then I will pounce on dh

 

[9babiesgone]

Thanks 9babiesgone.

Wow, you ladies are def motivating me lol...
Just need 1 cycle then I will pounce on dh

yay!! one more cycle! I am sending for that cycle!!!

I am glad I can motivate you.

 

[lynnb]

Congrats 9babies & Rabbitt, hoping you've both got extra sticky beans

Petitpas & Hopeful - sending you both lots of , I'm here if you need to talk

You can put me down for a straight jacket too

AFM, I'm just waiting for AF & test results, going back to work on Monday which I'm not looking forward to.

Off to open a bottle

 

[Chilli]

Sorry I've been awol for a bit girls - just in that horrible limbo waiting to see if I might actually get past 12 weeks this time. Had a scan yesterday and so far so good, but it's early days (7 weeks tom) so still very wary.

petitpas and hopeful- I am gutted for you both and just wish I had the power to make it different for you.

LeeC - good to have you back. My GP wouldn't prescribe pred or prog without approval from specialist and he's only doing it cos I begged him - can you see someone further up the food chain to give it to you? As for taking a break - I did last year for 6 months, it helped my sanity a bit - I think I'd reached breaking point, but there are still days I regret doing it and wonder if I missed a chance for a forever baby.

9babies and Rabbit - hope this is our turn to be the success stories! Many congratulations and hoping we all make it to the Autumn with big fat tummies!

Sorry if I missed anyone - there was so much to catch up on

 

[Hollybush75]

Congratulations for all the BFPs recently. I truly hope you all have your dreams come true. I hope to join you soon (5DPO today)

 

[petitpas]

More good news! Congratulations, 9babies!

Wow, I'm really pleased I stopped by here today. This thread has really cheered me up!

Chili, keeping my fingers crossed for you Fxfxfxfxfx

 

[Chilli]

I'm done girls - I started bleeding last night and that's it - no more, I can't

 

[petitpas]

Chilli this is awful news!
Have you gone back to hospital or do you have to wait until Monday?
Truly, my heart goes out to you!!!