S T M ( Single Teen Mummy & Mummy-to-be's )

ok so i just found out today by the specialist... yes my doc finally let me go see him... that i can have my babies on christmass i really want to but am worried because i dont want to ruin xmas for my family seeing as my mom is going to be with me when i deliver i came up with a plan that we could do christmas a day early also i think it would be alot safer and so does the special doc because just waiting to two extra weeks i will have an EVEN higher chance than i am at right now of losing them =( so i say safer that they are born and in the NICU being taken care of then in the womb and possibably dying


:happydance:You guys i really am excited i want to have my babies and i want them to be my little christmas babies they were sent to me to save me like god sent jesus to save the world :happydance:

sorry to sound so religious it is just how i feel they were ment for me to save me


OMGG!!!!
Xmas Babies yayyy! :pink::pink::pink:
so excited now about christmas heehee! i just wanted it to come and then go tbh so january would come quicker and all stress of christmas would pass moneywise! but now im looking forward to hearing from you and seeing your lil ones!

:cloud9::cloud9::cloud9:
xx
 
:happydance: Yay! Xmas bubba's!! :pink::pink::pink:
What an expensive time xmas will be in years
to come!! :haha:

I've come back from the physiotherapist today as I had
bad back pains and found out I've got SPD! :nope:
(SPD = Symphysis Pubis Dysfunction)
Been given loadsa diff pelvic floor exersises to do and a
lovely orthopaedic maternity belt to wear when walking
around. Oh how attractive I must look! :haha:

Anyone else got this?

xXx


I dont know much about SPD but a few people in third tri have got it who i speak to alot doesnt sound very nice :( :hugs: xx
 
:happydance: Yay! Xmas bubba's!! :pink::pink::pink:
What an expensive time xmas will be in years
to come!! :haha:

I've come back from the physiotherapist today as I had
bad back pains and found out I've got SPD! :nope:
(SPD = Symphysis Pubis Dysfunction)
Been given loadsa diff pelvic floor exersises to do and a
lovely orthopaedic maternity belt to wear when walking
around. Oh how attractive I must look! :haha:

Anyone else got this?

xXx


I dont know much about SPD but a few people in third tri have got it who i speak to alot doesnt sound very nice :( :hugs: xx

Yeah it does really hurt. :nope:
I've looked into it and things and I guess it all makes sence.
Just wondering whether anyone else has had it so they can
give advice on how to make it less painful to walk!! :haha:

x
 
If no-one has it in this thread ask in third tri? i think alot of people will be able to reply :) xx
 
Is anyone on income support?

if no-one is then never mind ill just say what i was going to anyway lol..

I was on JSA to start with cause i was still able to look/find work and then when i reached my confinment date as they call it (where you cant physically look/find work no more) i moved onto income support.. but when youve had the baby does anyone know what happens as in how long do you keep getting it for or does it stop :wacko: i would guess it stopped after a certain time and then id have to go back onto JSA when im able to look for work again :shrug:

Basically wondered if anyone knew when this would be ..x
 
Oh thats not good!
i wish my mamar would go on holiday for a month or something when i pop! dont want to sound horrible but my mamar does my head in shes too fussy and she just drives me up the wall .. like she came over other week and there was 2 teddies on the table that i needed to put away in babies room .. and she started teasing my dog saying 'what are these do you want them' ..putting them near him getting him all excited and wound up and then she said 'no you cant have it' .. my grandad ended up having a go at her when they went home cause were teaching the dog whats his and what isnt for when baby arrives. stupid women :growlmad: shell never learn and shes how old! plus shes one of them people who will randomly come over and not ask me first and if i dont answer the door she starts tapping on the windows :growlmad: shell just end up waking baby up and ill flip in end :haha:

luckily im moving away from them so theyd have to get a bus or 2 to get to me just i wish they would ring first to let me know at least soon as babys here shell do it more cause shell use the excuse she wanted to know if i need any help with the baby and my dads even said ill need time to bond with him on my own for awhile .. when he gets to like 1/2 she wont be interested in him thats my biggest problem she just will be cause hes little and newborn ..

Sorry for blabbing on :haha: you got me ranting about my mamar Jas lol!
aha bek
dya actually say mamar?
like how they do on nanny mcphee :o?

aww.. well ur have to put it nicely across to her if u no what i mean?xx
 
we..
im claiming some employement benefit?
i have to supply a sick note for this back of mine! every month to get 100 every 2 weeks..
not sure what will happen after..
but theres this scheme called "building blocks"
they did it in america.. for teenage moms so they dont feel alone
and help them when they want to start working again,
i want to go back into a salon wen bubz is about 9months old and just do 2 days a week..
because u can still claim tooo?
think that will be my best bet for a year or 2 then i want to go back full timee :\
whats everybody elses plans?!
 
Oh thats not good!
i wish my mamar would go on holiday for a month or something when i pop! dont want to sound horrible but my mamar does my head in shes too fussy and she just drives me up the wall .. like she came over other week and there was 2 teddies on the table that i needed to put away in babies room .. and she started teasing my dog saying 'what are these do you want them' ..putting them near him getting him all excited and wound up and then she said 'no you cant have it' .. my grandad ended up having a go at her when they went home cause were teaching the dog whats his and what isnt for when baby arrives. stupid women :growlmad: shell never learn and shes how old! plus shes one of them people who will randomly come over and not ask me first and if i dont answer the door she starts tapping on the windows :growlmad: shell just end up waking baby up and ill flip in end :haha:

luckily im moving away from them so theyd have to get a bus or 2 to get to me just i wish they would ring first to let me know at least soon as babys here shell do it more cause shell use the excuse she wanted to know if i need any help with the baby and my dads even said ill need time to bond with him on my own for awhile .. when he gets to like 1/2 she wont be interested in him thats my biggest problem she just will be cause hes little and newborn ..

Sorry for blabbing on :haha: you got me ranting about my mamar Jas lol!
aha bek
dya actually say mamar?
like how they do on nanny mcphee :o?

aww.. well ur have to put it nicely across to her if u no what i mean?xx

Erm.. lol wel its said like mom-arr if that makes sense lol
 
I plan on going back to high school ( I'm 19 but I haven't got my high school done) then
I'm hoping to go to college next winter but I'm not sure

I'm trying to get the xmas decorations up today. lol they are in the basement so I'm slowly getting them upstairs! lol.

hows everyone today?
 
Oh thats not good!
i wish my mamar would go on holiday for a month or something when i pop! dont want to sound horrible but my mamar does my head in shes too fussy and she just drives me up the wall .. like she came over other week and there was 2 teddies on the table that i needed to put away in babies room .. and she started teasing my dog saying 'what are these do you want them' ..putting them near him getting him all excited and wound up and then she said 'no you cant have it' .. my grandad ended up having a go at her when they went home cause were teaching the dog whats his and what isnt for when baby arrives. stupid women :growlmad: shell never learn and shes how old! plus shes one of them people who will randomly come over and not ask me first and if i dont answer the door she starts tapping on the windows :growlmad: shell just end up waking baby up and ill flip in end :haha:

luckily im moving away from them so theyd have to get a bus or 2 to get to me just i wish they would ring first to let me know at least soon as babys here shell do it more cause shell use the excuse she wanted to know if i need any help with the baby and my dads even said ill need time to bond with him on my own for awhile .. when he gets to like 1/2 she wont be interested in him thats my biggest problem she just will be cause hes little and newborn ..

Sorry for blabbing on :haha: you got me ranting about my mamar Jas lol!
aha bek
dya actually say mamar?
like how they do on nanny mcphee :o?

aww.. well ur have to put it nicely across to her if u no what i mean?xx

Erm.. lol wel its said like mom-arr if that makes sense lol

haha thats soo poshh :D
its like nanny mcphee
its cuteeeeeeeee awww :D xx
 
I plan on going back to high school ( I'm 19 but I haven't got my high school done) then
I'm hoping to go to college next winter but I'm not sure

I'm trying to get the xmas decorations up today. lol they are in the basement so I'm slowly getting them upstairs! lol.

hows everyone today?

aww we put the tree up a week ago i think it was..
how old do you finish school there then?X
 
Oh thats not good!
i wish my mamar would go on holiday for a month or something when i pop! dont want to sound horrible but my mamar does my head in shes too fussy and she just drives me up the wall .. like she came over other week and there was 2 teddies on the table that i needed to put away in babies room .. and she started teasing my dog saying 'what are these do you want them' ..putting them near him getting him all excited and wound up and then she said 'no you cant have it' .. my grandad ended up having a go at her when they went home cause were teaching the dog whats his and what isnt for when baby arrives. stupid women :growlmad: shell never learn and shes how old! plus shes one of them people who will randomly come over and not ask me first and if i dont answer the door she starts tapping on the windows :growlmad: shell just end up waking baby up and ill flip in end :haha:

luckily im moving away from them so theyd have to get a bus or 2 to get to me just i wish they would ring first to let me know at least soon as babys here shell do it more cause shell use the excuse she wanted to know if i need any help with the baby and my dads even said ill need time to bond with him on my own for awhile .. when he gets to like 1/2 she wont be interested in him thats my biggest problem she just will be cause hes little and newborn ..

Sorry for blabbing on :haha: you got me ranting about my mamar Jas lol!
aha bek
dya actually say mamar?
like how they do on nanny mcphee :o?

aww.. well ur have to put it nicely across to her if u no what i mean?xx

Erm.. lol wel its said like mom-arr if that makes sense lol

haha thats soo poshh :D
its like nanny mcphee
its cuteeeeeeeee awww :D xx

Its not posh :blush: wel i dont think it is lol my mum wants to be called Nanar when babys born :haha: she thinks everything else sounds old :huh:

and i put my christmas tree up last weekend :D not much point though there not be owt under it this year ardly lol x
 
Oh thats not good!
i wish my mamar would go on holiday for a month or something when i pop! dont want to sound horrible but my mamar does my head in shes too fussy and she just drives me up the wall .. like she came over other week and there was 2 teddies on the table that i needed to put away in babies room .. and she started teasing my dog saying 'what are these do you want them' ..putting them near him getting him all excited and wound up and then she said 'no you cant have it' .. my grandad ended up having a go at her when they went home cause were teaching the dog whats his and what isnt for when baby arrives. stupid women :growlmad: shell never learn and shes how old! plus shes one of them people who will randomly come over and not ask me first and if i dont answer the door she starts tapping on the windows :growlmad: shell just end up waking baby up and ill flip in end :haha:

luckily im moving away from them so theyd have to get a bus or 2 to get to me just i wish they would ring first to let me know at least soon as babys here shell do it more cause shell use the excuse she wanted to know if i need any help with the baby and my dads even said ill need time to bond with him on my own for awhile .. when he gets to like 1/2 she wont be interested in him thats my biggest problem she just will be cause hes little and newborn ..

Sorry for blabbing on :haha: you got me ranting about my mamar Jas lol!
aha bek
dya actually say mamar?
like how they do on nanny mcphee :o?

aww.. well ur have to put it nicely across to her if u no what i mean?xx

Erm.. lol wel its said like mom-arr if that makes sense lol

haha thats soo poshh :D
its like nanny mcphee
its cuteeeeeeeee awww :D xx

Its not posh :blush: wel i dont think it is lol my mum wants to be called Nanar when babys born :haha: she thinks everything else sounds old :huh:

and i put my christmas tree up last weekend :D not much point though there not be owt under it this year ardly lol x

it issss
have u watched nanny mcphee!
ur going to remind me of it now all the time :D aha
i just go MOM lmaooooooo =\

went to my dads sunday first time ive seen him since hes found out im pregnant.. seemed weird and i wished kieran had come with me like id been telling him to face it with me.. but was all gooooodo x
 
I plan on going back to high school ( I'm 19 but I haven't got my high school done) then
I'm hoping to go to college next winter but I'm not sure

I'm trying to get the xmas decorations up today. lol they are in the basement so I'm slowly getting them upstairs! lol.

hows everyone today?

aww we put the tree up a week ago i think it was..
how old do you finish school there then?X

16-17 I dropped out for a few years when I was younger and went back last year, and I was suppose to be done this year.

my mom wants to be called MiMi not grandma :wacko:
 
I plan on going back to high school ( I'm 19 but I haven't got my high school done) then
I'm hoping to go to college next winter but I'm not sure

I'm trying to get the xmas decorations up today. lol they are in the basement so I'm slowly getting them upstairs! lol.

hows everyone today?

aww we put the tree up a week ago i think it was..
how old do you finish school there then?X

16-17 I dropped out for a few years when I was younger and went back last year, and I was suppose to be done this year.

my mom wants to be called MiMi not grandma :wacko:

are you allowed? didnt u get sent to a collage or anything to do GCSES?! lol
preggo how did ur babyshower go!!
did u post any pics on here i never seeen x
 
I plan on going back to high school ( I'm 19 but I haven't got my high school done) then
I'm hoping to go to college next winter but I'm not sure

I'm trying to get the xmas decorations up today. lol they are in the basement so I'm slowly getting them upstairs! lol.

hows everyone today?

aww we put the tree up a week ago i think it was..
how old do you finish school there then?X

16-17 I dropped out for a few years when I was younger and went back last year, and I was suppose to be done this year.

my mom wants to be called MiMi not grandma :wacko:

are you allowed? didnt u get sent to a collage or anything to do GCSES?! lol
preggo how did ur babyshower go!!
did u post any pics on here i never seeen x

I have no idea what GCSES? but your alowed to drop out of school once your 16, but I didn't wait till the I stopped going when i was like 15/16 and started again when I was 18 ( so last year ). Wish I just did it all when I was younger but I was stupid.
I didn't take many pictures at my shower because i was running (well "running" as much as pregnant woman can) around.
but it went better then I thought it did, I posted pictures of all my gifts.
 
I finished school when i was 16 .. wel year 11 and then you can go back for six form or go to college or find work ? depending on what you want to do i dont know how it works in US and everything though but you dont have to do GCSES i dont think i know few people that dropped out of scool or got kicked out in yr 9/10 and never went back to scool :shrug: lol

i was ment to be going college after finished year 11 but i never did and then i got pregnant when i was going to start the following year :dohh: hopeing to find an apprentaship next year when i can after babys born :)
 
I plan on going back to high school ( I'm 19 but I haven't got my high school done) then
I'm hoping to go to college next winter but I'm not sure

I'm trying to get the xmas decorations up today. lol they are in the basement so I'm slowly getting them upstairs! lol.

hows everyone today?

aww we put the tree up a week ago i think it was..
how old do you finish school there then?X

16-17 I dropped out for a few years when I was younger and went back last year, and I was suppose to be done this year.

my mom wants to be called MiMi not grandma :wacko:

are you allowed? didnt u get sent to a collage or anything to do GCSES?! lol
preggo how did ur babyshower go!!
did u post any pics on here i never seeen x

I have no idea what GCSES? but your alowed to drop out of school once your 16, but I didn't wait till the I stopped going when i was like 15/16 and started again when I was 18 ( so last year ). Wish I just did it all when I was younger but I was stupid.
I didn't take many pictures at my shower because i was running (well "running" as much as pregnant woman can) around.
but it went better then I thought it did, I posted pictures of all my gifts.
aww what u gett :D
there like qualifications lol :)
ohh they are doing that here now.. luckily i missed it but kids have to stay in school til there 18 now! so hahahaa my sister has to stay 2 extra years than i did.. but shes really clever im just thick.. explains why i went into hairdressing lmao
noo im clever in my own dumb way i guess x
 

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