MrsR, I feel the same way! I've spent the entire weekend longing on the couch and in bed. My poor husband has done majority of the cleaning, cooking, and caring for our toddler. I would rather just get up and do it myself than to lay there feeling guilty. I finally threw up this morning and I must say, I feel so much better.
I understand the fear of DTD. It should get better but then you'll reach a point when you are scared again because your LO will be rocked to sleep and it freaks you out because they quit moving or they're moving too much and you're worried they're trying to get away or eventually you can feel your LOs head through your vagina and you're afraid of bonking it!
Knobby,
Thanks for posting the badges.
That seems a tad insensitive of your sis? I had the same problem with my son. When I was pregnant with him and my husband told his parents they actually yelled at him. My SIL was 3 month ahead of me and they were on cloud 9 knowing they were "finally" having a grand baby since I had lost 2. Then knowing I was pregnant again knocked them off their cloud because "now they are going to have to worry". I hated them for that and I still to this day hold a grudge. Once they found out he was ok THEN they were happy. Ideally, I wanted to tell them they weren't allowed to ever be happy for him because they don't get to see him. They should want to know so they can support my husband emotionally but they only think about themselves. He was so scared and then he had to deal with his parents telling at him. God! They make me so angry! I keep wishing this baby will be healthy and I can hide it from them for as long as possible. My goal is to not tell them until my husband puts his foot down. Sorry I'm ranting. I don't think I will ever forgive them. Plus once my son was born it didn't get better. When he was a newborn she would take him away from me and make him cry then refuse to give him back. Finally, one day I took him out of her arms and she flipped out and ripped him back out of my arms will he screamed. She said he was going to have to get used to her by crying it out. I could almost cry just thinking about dealing with her all over again!
Sarah, congrats and welcome!!!
AFM:
I got my betas back. The doctor said they look great and wants to keep our US appointment on the 20th.
Also, I didn't realize there were two September Sweet Pea groups until I saw some of our badges are linked there. Are you guys members of both?