Okay, I'm confused. You said in another post that your parents decided what to call your daughter, and now you're saying she'd take your daughter away for talking to your daughters father. ARE YOU KIDDING ME?
This may be harsh. But you need to grow up. YOUR MOTHER CANNOT LEGALLY TAKE YOUR DAUGHTER FROM YOU. If she even tries to withhold your daughter from you, you can call the police. Quit letting her have that much control over you and YOUR child. Its seriously sickening. You can talk to the father if you want. Even if he used to be a douchebag. He IS the father. Seriously!
I hope you really take advice.
We've given you all the advice we can, but we can't physically make decisions for you. If you want your daughter to be around your father, that is up to you. No matter what you are thinking. What is physically stopping you from calling your FOB and telling him to have someone come pick you up? Nothing. Its all because your parents "won't allow it".
Well... as a parent yourself. Do not Allow your daughter to grow up without her father.
Why are you so rude? A little tact wouldnt go amiss especially as the OP is obviously very frightened and in a horrible situation.
Like I said, what I said was going to be harsh, but I'm not going to sugar coat it. She needs to do what she needs to do. And if I was in this situation (which I wouldn't be in the first place because my personality isn't as meek as hers and there is nothing wrong with being meek)
but I would tell my mother to straight up f*ck off if she thought she was going to stop me from letting MY daughter see her father. I would walk RIGHT out that door and wave goodbye. If her mother is showing that much disrespect to her, then why should she show any respect to her mother?
I too have been in a similar situation. But with my dad instead of my mom. My dad never let me go anywhere, do anything. I NEVER went against my father, I always did what he asked, stayed with him, etc... When I got pregnant, I left him a note while he was at work, packed my bags and LEFT with my boyfriend. LEFT. He called the cops on us (because my boyfriend was already an adult and I was still a minor) and we broke out some money and got married a week later.
And you know what? My father was SO mad. He cussed me out the night before my wedding. But he GOT OVER IT. And I'm sure your parents would too rjb.
So anna, please don't act like I have no idea what I'm talking about.