sick of waiting for bfp - come on October

[Aiden187]

well im out af just got me,i was sure this was it 4 days late,im so heart broken

 

[DebbieDobs]

well im out af just got me,i was sure this was it 4 days late,im so heart broken

Sorry hun, keep positive. Chin up xx

 

[Aiden187]

i hate to get crushed month after month,im so sad i want to spend the day in my bed crying

 

[Saintsational]

So sorry Aiden187...crying cleans the soul but remember there is next month...we have to keep our heads up and don't give up....

we are here for each other

lots and lots of

 

[Aiden187]

thank you,i just had my hopes to high is all

 

[DebbieDobs]

thank you,i just had my hopes to high is all

Oh hun, i'm the same. I'm getting a fur baby to help me be more relaxed... Chin up xx

 

[optimistic1]

Sso sorry aiden!! I really thought it would be good news

 

[Aiden187]

me too,i guess im so desperate im imagining things

 

[Nadhoo]

I was in the same boat .. Was so hopeful till I got AF and then repeatedly got crushed.. So took 1 month off TTC and I am back more relaxed this time.. I have done a scan tonight and I have a mature follicle ready to ovulate .. Yesterday did an HSG and tubes were clear .. Dunno what keeps me from conceiving ..

 

[optimistic1]

Yeah hopefully next cycles diff. Good luck to you!

 

[QueenGee]

Hi im 12 dpo I have 3 more days til expected af but ill wait til October to test.

Congrats on the BFP!!

 

[optimistic1]

Thank you!!

 

[xxLeighxx]

Hey girls, this thread seems to be abit lucky I'm due AF on 3rd Oct, fingers crossed it stays away! This is our 7th cycle, this month we tried preseed and soft cups!

I've been using softcups for a while, not tried this preseed stuff though. Do you think its worth me giving it ago? What does it help? My OH has a low count? Will it help his sperm make the journey easier? xx

I think anything's worth giving ago! I don't actually know too much about it lol, everyone was raving about it so I thought it get it! I think its suppose to replicate cervical mucus so it helps the sperm get in there well I have 2 days til AF is due so I'll let you know xx

 

[bluckycharmed]

Debbie I got some pre-seed to try this cycle...from what I have read it is supposed to make it easier for the to get into the cervix (since it's so acidic in there) and then the rest is up to them. I have heard some ladies who swear by it so I figured it was worth a try.
Aiden sorry AF got you

 

[DebbieDobs]

I will look into getting some! Thank you xx

 

[RCAFWife]

Preseed is a great lube, if nothing else. It isn't sticky or slimy and it feels really natural. It says it helps to protect the sperm, especially if you don't get a lot of ewcm (like bluckycharmed said earlier). I put some in the soft cup and using the applicator when dtd. This cycle will be the 3rd time using it this way so hopefully it works

 

[ashntony]

Where can u purchase it at? I have an issue with it taking a very long time to get wet down there... I have had this issue aince i had started smoking. I quit 3putting months ago!

 

[xxLeighxx]

Where can u purchase it at? I have an issue with it taking a very long time to get wet down there... I have had this issue aince i had started smoking. I quit 3putting months ago!

I got mine from amazon but just google it and you'll find other places too xx

 

[brit3435]

I ordered some Preseed to use this cycle as well. I have also started taking Royal Jelly and fish oil and it has made a huge difference. I'm only on cycle day 9 and have abundant EWCM, I'm opk testing twice a day just to make sure I'm not going to ovulate early!

 

[RCAFWife]

Ashntony, you can buy preseed at Walgreens or CVS as well as Amazon