So I guess this is my first Two Week Wait...

[loulou58]

Big hugs to you too Leelee, i really really hope she isnt coming to get you too.

 

[leelee]

I feel bad on myself too cos of everything i felt i had so much pma, now i feel like a loon!!
Im ordering a proper thermometre now off ebay and im temping. Im finding out whats what here.

Your not a loon. I feel stupid too. How can anyone get a temp shooting up and then AF. I feel stupid too.

 

[loulou58]

Im worried now though too because a long time back, i was with an obviously not so nice bf, and a few short months after i split from him on a normal check up at my family planning clinic for the pill i found out i had tested positive for chlamydia. They test usually at mine every 6months, pee in a cup job. Id been tested 2 times before with him and was fine, but the last time after we'd split i got a positive. It was because he's been cheating on me. I got treated and ive been fine since and im now with the perfect love of my life. I feel disgusting i had it, because he cheated on me and now I pray to god what he gave to me hasnt caused any long term problems. If i cant have a baby because of that complete tw*t then there will be hell to pay. I'll hunt that f*cker down. You read all the time that things like that cause infertility and i must of had it at least one month or two and not know. I feel sick. I want to cry. Im so angry and sad. Im sorry if i told to much, or seem angry, im just down.

 

[leelee]

Im worried now though too because a long time back, i was with an obviously not so nice bf, and a few short months after i split from him on a normal check up at my family planning clinic for the pill i found out i had tested positive for chlamydia. They test usually at mine every 6months, pee in a cup job. Id been tested 2 times before with him and was fine, but the last time after we'd split i got a positive. It was because he's been cheating on me. I got treated and ive been fine since and im now with the perfect love of my life. I feel disgusting i had it, because he cheated on me and now I pray to god what he gave to me hasnt caused any long term problems. If i cant have a baby because of that complete tw*t then there will be hell to pay. I'll hunt that f*cker down. You read all the time that things like that cause infertility and i must of had it at least one month or two and not know. I feel sick. I want to cry. Im so angry and sad. Im sorry if i told to much, or seem angry, im just down.

Hey Loulou,

Don't worry about that. As far as I know you have to have been infected for months and months (even years) for it to lead to infertility.Do not blame this on yourself.

With me, when I temped I found out that I had a short LP so I could do something about it. I thought I O'd on CD10 and it is CD16 - 19. You also might be O'ing at a different time or might have a short LP. I would recommend charting as it might answer a few questions.

I know it is no consolation but you are young and time is on your side to find out what works and what doesn't.

 

[loulou58]

Thankyou XXXX it means a lot. Im going to temp this month definatley and find out, i was wondering if i maybe ov later than i think so at least that way i will know, the thermometer i got is only a one digital place one so ive just ordered one with two places so i can get started !!

 

[leelee]

Thankyou XXXX it means a lot. Im going to temp this month definatley and find out, i was wondering if i maybe ov later than i think so at least that way i will know, the thermometer i got is only a one digital place one so ive just ordered one with two places so i can get started !!

Glad you feel a bit better. I would also recommend 'Taking Control of Your Fertility' book as well. It is really good and positive. I have found the temping very good and feel more in control of the whole thing. If I was between 6-9 days off with my O maybe you are as well.

I don't seem to have anymore spotting but am not holding my breath.

 

[Csunshine013]

Hello ladies just checking in on you all. I have been out for about week now. Just seeing how everybody is coming and it we have any BFP yet?

 

[leelee]

Hi all,

for me. And temp dropped back down to what it was. CM is clear again but have had low level AF type cramps last night and this morning (like she is about to put in an appearance). I don't generally get AF type cramps before she appears but then nothing is typical of my chart this month.

The best I can hope for is that she stays away for a few days so my LP is lengthened.

Hope everyone is okay.

Loulou - I am thinking of you and am feeling the exact same as you.

 

[hayley2]

Oh leelee and loulou i'm sending you both massive . Why does life have to be so bloody cruel?? I know how you both feel girls and i was feeling really positive for you both. Why can't the just leave us all alone!

I know you prob won't believe me but it will happen for you both. There is a time for us all and your time will come. If its not this month then at least you are one month closer to when it will happen.

loulou please don't stress about chlamydia (sp) i have had it too from my ex-husband (cheating b*****d) and i've had no ill effects. You only had it for a few short months - any long term damage is if its undetected for years. I think give temping a shot and make sure you are right with your O days, like leelee you could be slightly out on timing.

leelee this is your 2nd proper month trying and i know you feel like its not gonna happen but it will hunni! Your young and healthy and your little bean is just waiting for the right time to pick you both as its mummy and daddy.

 

[Jeannette]

loulou and leelee! Hayley is right (as usual ) it will happen for you both!! I am just so sorry that the wicked played with your minds so badly.....she is such a BLEEP!

I am having a little mind game of my own right now. I went to the dr yesterday to confirm with a blood test and she sits me down and tells me my urine test was negative! I was so confused after two s with frer. She then proceeds to tell me that SOMETIMES our body produces a lot of a certain hormone (she didn't say which one and I was too stunned to ask) that chemically resembles hcg and if our periods are late and we produce enough it can give a false positive. I thought there weren't any false positives???? THEN a nurse knocks at the door and the doc goes out and comes back in to say that after sitting a whilel longer the test did in fact turn positive, but very very faintly. So I went for a blood test after which I should have the results on today, but she left me with a very negative feeling. She just didn't seem remotely optomistic for some reason. I know faint is not great, but couldn't it just be early? Or I read something about sometimes the hcg not processing well into urine? Then to top it all off I did another frer this morning (had one left) and it was still very faint....in fact in might have been fainter than yesterday. Maybe this beanie just isn't going to stick

 

[- Butterfly -]

Oh my poor girls I wish I could give you all loads of hugs.

Littlehush - I'm so so sorry hun....... you should definately go for the referral to the specialist. I'm sorry I didn't come on here yesterday to support you through.

Leelee and Loulou - it's made me so angry that the has done this just when you were being so positive and talking about testing. Loulou - Hayley giving great advice as usual! Also temping is a great idea and you should definately do it.

Jeannette - Please please let us know asap the results today. Doctor's don't get very excited when we're so early on in pregnancy so don't worry about her not seeming optomistic - I suppose they take a realistic look.

I have to say and I hope this doesn't offend anyone but it is what FF recommends too ............. I know alot of us are POAS addicts but I think we maybe testing too early.......... I know there are women out there that test at 10po and get positives but there's not that many when you think of all the women testing and getting BFN. I think we should try and wait for a day or two or even longer after AF is due and that way we're not stressing over the BFN. I know I know this is so much easier said than done but I think we should try. Just think of all the money we'll save.

I think I'm around 6dpo - it seems to be going so slow........ I just hope AF isn't late so that we can start TTC again ......

Sending big big to everyone.

 

[hayley2]

Oh Jeannette how awful for you hunni. I agree with Butterfly that to doctors we are just a number not a real person with feelings. Please don't read to much into the fact that they weren't seemingly optamistic.

Your are quite right in saying that some people have trouble producing enough HCG into there urine which could indicate a faint pos result. Also you are still very, very early on and you were unsure as to when you O'd.

What CD are you now hun? Is it longer than last month when the witch played tricks with you.

Last cycle you did loads of tests and they were all clearly BFN - no faint lines. This cycle you have lines, no matter how faint. Its too early to tell which way this could go hunni - you just have to stay positive for you and your bean.

xx

 

[leelee]

Hi Jeanette,

Hope you are okay? Any news yet?

Hi all - am on AF watch. No sign of it yet so don't know what that pink was mixed in with my CM last night. I never have spotting but it could be to do with the B-50. I think my chart looks very like the February one.

How is everyone?

 

[- Butterfly -]

my computer has been down pretty much all day blooming thing

Any news Jeannette?

Leelee I really the stays away for you.

xx

 

[leelee]

my computer has been down pretty much all day blooming thing

Any news Jeannette?

Leelee I really the stays away for you.

xx

Thanks Butterfly,

I am not very hopeful but no sign of AF at all. Still have the mild cramps though but not much CM and when I do it is creamy and clear. I suppose tomorrows temp will make things a lot clearer.

How are you? So have you made the decision to TTC next month. Have you had your referral date for the genetic process yet (sorry can't remember the name)

Jeanette - how are you? Hope all is well.

Loulou - hope you are okay.

 

[flumpy]

hi girls,

leelee and loulou sorry the witch is playing tricks on you!!

jeanette - i hope you are ok

hayley - how you doing?

 

[hayley2]

leelee wait and see what happens in the morning hun - maybe you'll have a huge rise! You have to post before 8.30 tomorrow morning so i can check whats happened. lol

Butterfly how are you doing?

Jeannette any news yet?? Hope your ok x

 

[hayley2]

hi girls,

leelee and loulou sorry the witch is playing tricks on you!!

jeanette - i hope you are ok

hayley - how you doing?

Hi flumpy i'm doing ok. Think i'm 3dpo today and i've still got what can only be described as AF cramps and a dull constant ache. I've had it since O and its not gone away. Never had it before - usually start getting AF cramps at 10dpo. I feel really uumm wet down there as well. Only another 13 days to wait.....

Hows your symptoms going? What dpo are you?

 

[loulou58]

Hey girls, well been down all day, when i wiped this morning i had pinkish cm and i put a panty liner in today and i had normal cm mixed with small not even 5p sized smear of red in it for all day. So no full AF yet but this is normal from what ive noticed the last few cycles for her being ready to pounce right on me in a day or two.

Hayley, Leelee, Butterfly, Jeanette, FLumpy, everyone! thank you so much for being understanding and your lovely words. Its frustrating for us all trying to get there. Ive had 2 people announce their pregnancies today, one in work and one on facebook which both made me think all day about it. I know i shouldnt but it gets me down. PMA will be back in action, my new fancy thermometer is on its way and im looking forward to getting to it again ready for a fab feb baby. XXXXXXX

 

[hayley2]

Hey girls, well been down all day, when i wiped this morning i had pinkish cm and i put a panty liner in today and i had normal cm mixed with small not even 5p sized smear of red in it for all day. So no full AF yet but this is normal from what ive noticed the last few cycles for her being ready to pounce right on me in a day or two.

Hayley, Leelee, Butterfly, Jeanette, FLumpy, everyone! thank you so much for being understanding and your lovely words. Its frustrating for us all trying to get there. Ive had 2 people announce their pregnancies today, one in work and one on facebook which both made me think all day about it. I know i shouldnt but it gets me down. PMA will be back in action, my new fancy thermometer is on its way and im looking forward to getting to it again ready for a fab feb baby. XXXXXXX

Hey loulou really sorry it seems like the is on her way. Die die! You get the same warning as me with pre-AF spotting. As soon as i get that i know i'm out.

Glad you've ordered your thermometer - hopefully it will shed some light on when you O for definate. At the very least you will confirm what you know already.

xxx