I am 1-3dpo and am going to try not to obsess this 2ww. I have a very busy schedule the next few weeks so hopefully I can relax and just let the time pass. My OH and I have been together for 12 yrs, we have a nine yr old son who is the light of our lives but we have never gotten married. We have been engaged forever! I am going to start planning our wedding for either the spring or fall of next year and just get it done. It will give me something else to focus on and maybe other things will then fall into place as well.